My boyfriend is going to do it with me, what is my boyfriend going to do?

If you can't make a decision for the time being, let time make a decision, maybe one day your boyfriend can't stand to break up with your life, maybe one day you do it naturally... Maybe one day you feel that no matter whether he has the conditions to marry or not, you have settled with him, you are married... Hehe, in short, I wish you happiness.

Or don't, you said that you think the best thing about marriage is to give him a complete self on the day of marriage.

No, you are all sensible, and you must not be like this before marriage... You reason with him and talk about it seriously. I think you've been together for five years and he should understand you...

Forget it, do it, and we'll talk about it later.

If you want to do it, you can do it. If you don't want to, don't do it.

If your first one still exists, then please think carefully! If you get a marriage certificate, you can't be sure that he will love you for the rest of your life, not to mention that he is still in school, and society is very complicated. So I advise you to think of yourself.

First assess whether he is your future marriage partner, whether you will be happy together in the future, and whether it is the life you want. If not, you need to be cautious.

Trying to love before marriage, 5 years, long enough. I've been with ta for more than 1 years... I'm ashamed to compare myself with you. You're conservative enough.

Go with the flow and let everything go with the flow.

"Love" and "marriage" are both happy and romantic, but in real life, some girls have lost confidence in relationship problems, and sometimes they don't even care too much, in fact, as a girl, you should still pursue your own love and marriage, because a girl can have a boyfriend, there will be six benefits:

1. Girls will be happy, and in the process of falling in love with their boyfriends, the emotional world of girls will be satisfied, which will make them happier;

2. Girls will get rid of loneliness, after having a boyfriend, being able to go to dinner, watching movies, and shopping with their boyfriends can let girls get rid of loneliness and embrace happiness;

3. Girls can have a sense of security, when they fall in love with their boyfriends, they can be cared for by their boyfriends, and they can rely on their boyfriends, so that girls can feel safe;

4. Girls can become more beautiful, women are pleasing to themselves, girls will pay more attention to their appearance after they have a boyfriend, and they will let girls pay attention to maintenance**;

5. Girls can become more responsible, after having a boyfriend, girls need to work hard with their boyfriends for the future, so that girls can learn to take responsibility;

6. Girls can become more empathetic, and in the process of getting along with their boyfriends, they will often be considerate of their boyfriends, which can change the girl's personality.

In this era, girls are very independent, even if they are single, they can live well, but as a girl, they should still find a suitable person to be with.

Because falling in love and getting married is a process that everyone has to go through, and it is also a happy **, which is a truth that every girl should understand.

If a girl can find a suitable man to fall in love with and enter into marriage, such a day can not only make the girl happier, but also make the girl's future brighter.

It depends on their personal values, what is the pursuit of happiness and life value, some people really don't need the other half, because his life value and happiness concept may be self-satisfied, that is, his life can be self-sufficient and happy, and he will not feel particularly lonely, then this is indeed his unique definition of happiness.

And some people need to make up for themselves emotionally, that is, emotionally compensated, then they may be inclined to look for love and so on to make up for an emotional situation, which is also okay, after all, everyone's happiness method is different, as long as you can find yourself, you can live a happy and happy lifestyle.

And no one stipulates that it must be forced, and the other half can live, after all, everyone does not live for love, more for themselves, and love is not an indispensable necessity in life, but whether it can realize the personal value of life, or whether it can be self-satisfied, this is the highest pursuit of life value, but often these are actually few people can achieve it, but blindly take some foreign objects to make up for some of their own dream value.

Moreover, in fact, the way of happiness can be chosen by yourself, if you feel that the current state of personal life is more comfortable, then you can also keep or continue the current personal life, after all, feelings are such a thing as it is natural, and it is not forced, it will be met if it should be met, and it may not be encountered if it is not active, and he is that kind of thing.

And for some people, in fact, it doesn't matter if you want the other half, the important thing is whether your life is happy or not, in fact, a happy life is the most difficult to pursue, many people have the other half but it does not mean that his life is very happy, of course, you have a happy existence, but not everyone will necessarily have this happy ending.

Therefore, it is best to look at how you make your own choices, if you are satisfied with the current state, you may as well continue to maintain it, and if you are not satisfied with the current situation, you can also bravely pursue feelings.

You already have a boyfriend.

This in itself should be a very happy and happy thing, but it doesn't make you happy. You even think what's the use of having such a boyfriend.

Because before you didn't have a boyfriend, you were very happy and happy. Although there are some problems you will encounter from time to time, you can overcome them as much as you can. Or you can handle things as well as possible by yourself.

But if you have a boyfriend, you think that having a boyfriend will allow you to work together with two people. It can make your life easier and happier. So when you have a boyfriend, you think it's a very happy thing.

But after spending a lot of time together, you find out. When you have some problems, your boyfriend doesn't care about you very well and helps you, even when you are sick, your boyfriend can't play any role. Now it's up to you to take care of yourself.

So you feel that there is not much difference between having a boyfriend and not having a boyfriend, and it even seriously affects you.

But what we want to tell you, it's probably just because you didn't find the right person, because for most of us. We all know that love is both happy and sweet.

In happy and sweet love, boys are able to take the initiative to care for girls and love girls, which is really under the constant care and love of boys, which will make girls feel very happy and happy. In this way, girls are also willing to have a good relationship with boys.

It is the mutual care of boys and girls that makes girls feel happier and happier.

So, it's just the boyfriend you're looking for. He doesn't know how to care about others and love others.

Therefore, you should show your love and patience to tell your boyfriend well, so that he knows that two people need to care and love each other when they get along together.

Because you are a girl, you need a guy to be able to give more care and love to a girl. And it is only through the mutual understanding and support of two people that two people will be together. It's happier to get along.

Therefore, it is through your continuous communication and communication with the boy that I believe that the boy will understand the most real thoughts and situations between you, and it is through such communication and communication that you will be able to better understand each other and support each other. This will allow you to build a deeper and sweeter relationship between you.

A boyfriend is actually useless right now, it will only increase your burden. But, if you don't have a boyfriend, you will always feel that there are shortcomings in life, and it is not so perfect.

Not having a good time.

A lot of things need to be adjusted.

It is possible to change a person.

Or count it as an environment.

Be human after all. Happy.

It's final. Everything else can be changed.

Interestingly, they all have to start a family, and the boyfriend is the future family member.

Shakespeare said that to be happy with a woman, you just need to love her and not try to understand her.

To be happy with a man, you just need to know him more and not love him more.

These two sentences break the true meaning of getting along with lovers, no man is not eager to be understood, you just need to understand him more and don't need to love him more to let him love you, even if you can't be his confidant, at least try to understand him and understand him, as for the definition of happiness for men and women, as long as the husband loves her and protects her, there will be a sense of security and happiness, and for men, as long as he can love and protect the woman he likes, and the woman he likes also understands him and is considerate of him, he will get a sense of security, To sum up, it is to understand him and understand him, don't let him feel tired, no matter what the reason is, as long as he feels tired, he will not want to go home, you understand what it means to be a man who is unwilling to go home, and it goes without saying that you know what other women should do.

Give him happiness, make him feel warm at home, and have someone to support him behind his failure.