How to love someone who is unhappy and who is living in the pain of the past

Updated on psychology 2024-07-19
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Love is like a kite. One is the kite and the other is the line, and without the line, the kite has no direction and is the same. Without a kite line, it is impossible to pull so much Let your love kite fly high Cherish each other's present Don't think about the future If you love it, you can boldly keep him.

    Trapped him firmly in his heart but. If the line breaks, let it go, even if you pull it tighter. It's impossible for the kite to fly back.

    Treasure. I wish you happiness

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Happiness or unhappiness depends on each person's attitude towards life. There should be pursuits in life, but not forced. If there is pursuit, but not force, people will become free, happy, and happy.

    If there is no pursuit in life, it will become lifeless, lacking joy and happiness; But if you go too far, it will be painful. In the world, it should be admitted that the vast majority of people are ordinary people and do not possess extraordinary abilities. If you don't have extraordinary abilities, and you desperately pursue "hope" beyond your own ability, the greater your hope, the greater the disappointment and pain.

    Having money is not necessarily happy, and not having money is not necessarily unfortunate! It just depends on the individual's perception! Therefore, there should be pursuits in life, but not forced, which is the key to happiness in life.

    May you understand happiness, grasp happiness, cherish happiness, create happiness, and be happy forever...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, Seeing the person you love happy you will also be happy, seeing him (her) troubled you will also follow the trouble, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Loving someone should be a very happy thing.

    We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, the happiness of the other party is your happiness, you should be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Everyone has a thinking brain, so different people have different ideas, love someone is happy or painful, only you can feel it, others are just his feelings about love, this does not represent your feelings, think well, fall in love with him (her) is more happy or more painful. If there is more happiness, it is to let go and chase, and if there is more pain, then you can take the test and let go to find another love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love allows you to know what happiness and sweetness are. It also allows you to taste what is sad and sad. True love is about tolerating each other.

    Respect each other. Understand each other. Supporting each other.

    Never give up. Everyone's experience is different. The attitude towards love is also different.

    Everyone will have their own definition of love. Therefore, no matter how much you experience, it is not as much as you experience it once. There is one definition to describe love.

    It's pain and happiness.

    I wish you a pure love and happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The upstairs said very happily: love what I love, no regrets!

    Loving someone should be a pleasure, enjoying yourself, and being loved by someone is also happy! That's true love!

    If one's happiness is based on the pain of one's lover, then it can't be called love!

    Or for love, I make my lover happy painfully, I think if your lover loves you, he will be reluctant to see you pay like this!

    So let's make our love easier! In this way, everyone can be happy!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Only you understand

    Anyone has had such an experience at such a time.

    When you have distance.

    With a new life, time dilutes everything.

    Slowly, you will know that there is nothing wrong with anyone in the original situation.

    What was wrong was that they were too young at that time.

    Hollowing out your mind isn't always a bad thing.

    After all, you have truly loved each other.

    Don't really forget.

    Never forget.

    Slowly only faded.

    Occasionally, deep down in my heart, I will still see her give you the happiest and most sincere smile, bless her, and at the same time bless yourself.

    Let yourself learn to be happy.

    I think that's what she purposed.

    Learn to love yourself more.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Loving someone is very happy at the beginning, and it can also be said to be sweet. But when it comes to breaking up, it can also be said that after the breakup, it is a big pain in life!! You don't understand what I say now, but you will understand it when you experience it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Only love that understands will not be painful.

    To love someone, to understand, but also to understand; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept, not to endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other party, not to ask for many of the other party; Be romantic, but don't waste it; Feel free to hold hands, but don't let go easily. If you love someone, you should love to eight points, and the remaining two points should be used to love yourself.

    軰孓de promised.

    19:16 Whistleblowing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In everyone's life, you will meet a lot of people, all kinds of personalities, all kinds of different people, how many are your bosom friends? And how many people love themselves deeply? And how many of them do you love?

    Instead of seeking thousands of times, it is better to cherish the people in front of you. Love is not to wait for you to be free to cherish, we meet, it is fate, for this fate, we may be trying to adapt to each other, everything just wants to go with the flow.

    If you can find a person you like, who really loves each other, it is not easy, but what a great honor, maybe everything is not what you think, not so perfect, maybe not as good as you imagined, it should not be so bad, life is not so beautiful, all happiness must be cherished and cherished, say more caring words, less blame words, people need to understand each other. Lovers likewise wish friends happiness

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless ......... well

    No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is unconditionally for each other, do anything.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, Seeing the person you love happy you will also be happy, seeing him (her) troubled you will also follow the trouble, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is a very abstract thing, a feeling, a kind of body taste, a pure reaction of body and mind beyond reality, delicate and sensitive, affecting the whole body and mind and emotions of joy and sorrow, and the power is so great that it is often not controllable by reason, or there is no reason to talk about it at all. Love is a thought, like a white cloud drifting in the blue sky. Love is the sun, the wind, the air.

    Love is a heartache, like a trilling sound that plucks your heart, love is a wave of feelings, like a quiet and rippling bay. Love is the bright light that can be seen in the night.

    Love is the spring that feels warm in the snow, love is a smiling face, it is satisfaction, it is a new hope, love is everything, it is everywhere, love is reading a good book, you will think, if he can also see how good!

    What is Love? Love is pleasant, sad, intoxicated, emotional, brave, trusting, sincere, considerate, lovesick, nostalgic, sweet, alcoholic, sweet, intoxicated, happy, sacrificial, noble, dedicated, and responsible. What is Love? Love is when you think of this person, you will pray for him to be happy and safe, you will want to be with him forever, when you have to leave, what do you want to leave for him.

    Love is in the lonely night, thoughts come like a tide, holding a book in his hand but can't read it, thinking about whether he has dinner at this time, whether he thinks about himself as much as himself. Love is, on the weekend, use half a day to make a few good dishes by yourself, and watch her (him) eat them satisfactorily; It is to constantly refill her (his) coffee cup with hot water in the cold winter; Love is to see flowers, want to enjoy with him or her, love is to walk through the cliff and waterside, you will think with a little regret: if two people travel together, what a happy thing!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Try to get out of the unhappy world, time will not stop every second for unhappiness!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because I care too much, I don't dare to make friends with sincerity.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Go make money, you will be happy when you see money.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't get bogged down in this quagmire and start your day.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you fall in love with a person who digs a landholder, it means that you give and care for each other wholeheartedly, and enjoy it, this is love, then when the other party's love responds to you, you will feel that you are the happiest person in the world, when you don't get a response, you will be very painful and sad, trying to find a way to get rid of the current pain and depression feelings, then I tell you that if you love each other, this process must be experienced, and you will cherish your feelings more after the experience, If you can't love the person you like, then I also tell you, give yourself some time, try to make yourself forget, let him become a memory referent, of course, this is not very easy to judge, time is the best doctor, transfer your thoughts, find something you like to do, and forget it when you are busy. Don't be cranky, people who adjust themselves in a short period of time are strong, I think you will, I have also loved, and I have suffered, so when you ask such a question, I understand your feelings, in fact, the problem of feelings is not something that can be solved by talking, it is not others who help you get out of the pain but yourself, after you come out, you feel that the sunshine is your friend, love is by your side, and you must think of me when you laugh! Satisfied.

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