I want to transfer to another university, and I can t let go of the possible parting

Hehe, I graduated from college this year, and during college, I talked about a boyfriend who I liked, in a long-distance relationship. In my sophomore year, I felt like we wouldn't be able to be together in the future, and with a few other factors, we were separated. While others were busy with breakups and employment when they graduated from college, I was only busy with my employment, and time made me forget the pain that my relationship brought me.

In this year's career examination, I also successfully passed, so I found the self that loves to smile and be confident.

This is my love story, to tell you, I just want you to understand that breaking up is not who abandons whom, who throws who is in place, but sometimes space and distance do not allow two people to be together. It's not that you don't love it, it's that you really can't give the other party what you need. In fact, I believe that everyone will not lose the ability to love again because of the absence of anyone, but it takes a lot of opportunities to be together, and the only thing we believe is that no one understands the true feeling of the heart except for ourselves.

You are a very good girl, and I believe that whether that person is him or not, you will be very happy. You take your feelings very seriously, and I used to do the same, but now I think more about my parents, friends around me, open my heart a little bit, to tolerate more things, and have time to do things you like, or things you haven't tried, you will find yourself living a happier life.

If he is yours, regardless of time and space, he will eventually come back to you, and all you can do is believe that you deserve to be happy, leave everything to time, and it will tell you the answer.

People's unhappiness is because they put their happiness in others, lose themselves, do what you want to do, and live in the moment.

Recently, I was watching "Love Apartment", and Lu Zhanbo asked the wanyu girl to find her own life, which is actually a good illustration. To love someone is to respect his choices, especially ideals. Cherish the person in front of you, but you should also learn to let go, and if you can't lock it, you should let him fly.

Cherish the time you spend with him, that's all that matters! I wish you all happiness!

First, you can also give it a try.

Second, if you truly love each other. Why care about four years of being in a different place?

You can't take a person too seriously, and when he's not around you, you can try to do something else to distract yourself.

He is unwilling to give up, and you can't catch up, so you can only rely on fate!

You also work hard to test, how do you know you can't do it without trying. Furthermore, you should be a strong person to feel abandoned in the same place. Don't be unconfident, although he doesn't accompany you, but you still have your own studies, and besides, the two of you won't see each other forever, compared to those people, you are much happier, come on.

It's better for such a man to leave, he plays ambiguous with others, and he plays games with you, that is, you are more advanced, and others are lower.

Can you leave you alone just to play with your colleagues, and such a man wants to come over for a job? Besides, you still know him online, and you are not in the same place, he is likely to lie to you, in fact, he already has a girlfriend who is looking for you for fun.

It's a bit direct, but I'm trying to get you out of his **, don't care what he says and how to break up with him, there are many men who are better than him, and you'll meet that one.

Be a little more personal and don't let him think you have to be him!

There is no one right or wrong in love, people who really love each other don't care about these, love means giving regardless of return, love means understanding. According to what you said, he may also be thinking about the weight of your heart, since the breakup has already explained his choice, don't delay yourself, don't delay him anymore, let go of your hands, and find your own happiness! You still have a long way to go in life, and failure is only temporary, which is what you must experience as you grow up.

Wishing you happiness!

Time can do everything, that's how I think anyway.

Whether it's right or wrong, the emotional problem is not clear at all, and it is better to let it go.

Why do you care about such a man? He doesn't have much affection for you at all. Time will dilute everything, don't pay attention to him anymore.

Maybe you need time to heal! I think you should go out with your classmates or friends more, take a break, try to divert your willpower, and don't think about him all the time! Since he is not good to you, let alone the world is so big, why do you want to love him unrequited?

Hope it helps! The most important thing is to rely on yourself. Good luck finding your Prince Charming soon!

It's normal, get used to it slowly, time changes everything.

Leave the place that makes you sad, go to other places for a walk, maybe when you come back, you will find that no one is inseparable from whom, if you think he is good to you, it's okay to say, if he is not good to you, don't be nostalgic anymore, there are many good men.

If you still love him, leave him for a while If he knows how to cherish you He is also trying to redeem you Then you should cherish your love Love is not perfect Because there is a lot of straight love It is worth cherishing to be nostalgic If he really loves you, just go with him In fact, happiness is very simple Knowing how to cherish is worth loving I wish you happiness.

Fate is destined, not reluctant, since you and him are not suitable, just break up,

Since you have said that he is not good to you, you should break up with him, otherwise the damage will be greater in the future.

It will definitely be painful to break up just now, and it will be fine after a while.

Hehe. At this time, if you focus on your career, you will have a future, and people should live for themselves, and it is better to arrange your body, relatives, career, and love in this way.

Alas, time can forget everything, people have feelings, how can you say that you can let go?

Nope"Forever".Love won't be forever, and neither will your grief"Forever".

There are many things that you think will be unforgettable, but they will always be gradually forgotten in the process of being forgotten. Maybe you're in a lot of pain now, but if you talk about it in a few years, you'll only have a faint psychological pain, but it's not all of your life. Then you won't hate life for this little hurt anymore.

Dizzy, with the wife as the core? Are you really like that? I think you have no future, since you love her, you have to find a way to make her live a happy life, you are with your girlfriend every day, if you are not motivated, what happiness will there be?

Let me tell you a word: most of the feelings are based on material foundations! Do you understand what that means?

Many things are always understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, in the gain and loss, we slowly know ourselves, in fact, life does not need such meaningless attachment, nothing can really not be parted. Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up so that each other can have an easier start, and love with bruises is not necessarily a hard heart. This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to this day, gently pull out your hand and say goodbye, thank you very much, there are you along the way. I once said I loved you, and I still love you today.

It's just that I love you, but I can't be with you. It is as loving the lily of fire of the wilderness, loving it, but not returning with it.

Every relationship is very beautiful, every journey is also intoxicating, and it is the regret that we can't have makes us feel more retiring; It is the sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night that make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking search will not make life more fulfilling. Maybe a little regret, a little sadness, will make this answer more timeless and longer.

Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, and you will reap the rain; I met you just after missing her. Keep walking, and you'll end up reaping your beauty.

Maybe you love her too much, maybe you haven't met another her, everything has gains and losses, it depends on how you treat it, some people can't forget a person in their lives, and some people can forget it in just a few months, the love that is not worth nostalgia should find a way to let yourself out, maybe the new love in the future is your exit.

I haven't let go of it for 6 years.

The reason why you can't let go of it is nothing more than that you haven't really sent her yet.

Human nature always has a lot of things that make people give up, nothing is immutable, feelings are the same, college is an indispensable part of life growth, you will learn a lot of things in college, if you can't even deal with your own feelings, then how to deal with other things when you go to society in the future, you will follow the fate of this aspect, there are times when there is no fate, sometimes there is no fate, only when the fate arrives can there be results, so, You don't have to worry about these things, you are still so young, you have to face it boldly, what should be solved must be solved, and what should be said must be said. When the words come out, maybe the answer will be solved.

I think it's because you haven't met your significant other that you miss the past.

Maybe you still love her and haven't forgotten her.

Another person like me, brother, in fact, it's really nothing, it turns out that I'm like you for 8 years, hehe, the war of resistance has been won, and our pain will fade over time, at first it is painful, unforgettable, and slowly it is labor pain, for a while, I think about it, it is blocked, I used to want to jump off the building, slowly it's fine, it's really nothing, I used to think I could no longer climb out of this pit, and now I'm married for 1 year and ready to BB. Time is the cure for wounds. It's useless to say anything, when we are together, we pay 120%, not in 1, at least I have no regrets.

Have you worked? I really admire you for 5 years after working, but you have to think for yourself.

Don't blindly do something meaningless, which will only waste your energy and devote yourself to something else that you haven't even tried. You definitely don't have a girlfriend now, you can go and chat with the little girls, or even show love, you can just laugh.

Stop thinking about these useless things, you haven't done enough in the past 5 years, really.

It's so impressive. I'm like you, and today we've been breaking up for a full year. We are like family.

At that time, it really felt a bit like a mountain without edges, and the heavens and the earth were combined. Maybe you haven't found another person like her to fill the empty hole in your heart. I wish I could find someone in the world who is exactly like her.

Let me get back to how I used to feel. Even though she betrayed me, I am still to this day. I still love her. Phenanthrene.

Admire your long-lasting feelings! But I can understand you! What is the situation in the world?

If you really like her, can't you be with her for the rest of your life? Alas! Friend!

I know you only have her in your heart, but there will be people who have all your hearts in their hearts! When she appears, I hope you will cherish it and not give your future happiness because of your past! Good luck!

May your true love appear soon!

It's better to adjust slowly, there's nothing you can't forget, everyone has experienced something like this, it's all about making you grow, time will change everything, don't get too tangled

What you can't get is always the best ......Learn to cherish the people in front of you.

Friend, you are in a similar situation to me, I started to think the same as you, but the truth is often different from the idea, I can only tell you:

Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten.

Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed.

There are some things that we can't control, so we have to control ourselves!

Break up does not necessarily have to choose to forget, in fact, deep in the bottom of your heart to remember that you once had such an unforgettable love, when you are old you will find that this is a wealth, a valuable spiritual wealth, so you don't need to worry, relax your heart, with the passage of time, you will find that the original worries are ridiculous.

It's like me.

I can't let it go.,But I still accepted a man who chased me.,Although I'm good to me.,But I always feel that I don't feel it.,But the mood isn't as bad as before.,It may be very unfair to others.,But it's still good for yourself.。

Time is a wonderful thing, and sometimes we deliberately want to write down things but forget them unconsciously. So, you don't have enough time. And, if the place where he used to live is not empty, you won't be thinking about it all the time.

In fact, sometimes, what we miss is only life, not the hero of life. We just miss a life.

If you want to, if you can persevere, then there is nothing that cannot be overcome.

If not, one can't or two can't.

Just choose your own life!

The best way to end a previous relationship is to start a new one, and time will make everything fade.