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How to say it, I can see that you are the girl with a quick temper and there is no sand in your eyes, first of all, I don't know too much about what kind of person your boyfriend is, you just introduced him to an online date after you left, I don't know what his character is, if he is just lonely and bored because you left during that time to find a woman to accompany him, I think you can use your tolerance to influence him, after all, he is only because of a momentary impulse and he still loves you, if he is the kind of person who says it once for several days, I think you will give up, What a good man has is, you don't have to waste your love, youth, if you decide to be with him, don't always think about the past, let him go in the past, no one can change what happened, if you can't let go of him in your heart, then try to accept him, the road is all your own, the blisters on your feet are also grinded by yourself, go listen to your parents' opinions.
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People should be tolerant, and now that they are reconciled, they will be together and be kind to him, even if he was wrong before, but there is a saying that the prodigal son does not change his money, if he is sincere, then please cherish it.
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Ay. yes, once you know that the person you love so much has deceived you.
There is always a shadow in my heart that is hard to wave away, to bear all this, to tolerate all this.
It takes too much courage, it takes too much mental effort.
But if you think about it, why it's so hard to tolerate each other is because you care about each other too much, love each other too much, it's really contradictory, and if you really want to trust and tolerate again, there are only four words: courage, giving.
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My boyfriend and I were in love for 3 years, and finally he betrayed me in his first year of college, but he still loved me, I just didn't know it. But then when I came to the university, I had a lot more time to see him, just like you!! I know that after some things happen, I can't go back to the past, and I feel a little different from before!!
I still think it's better to be separated!!
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Separate ... The wound has been opened, so don't be together anymore Really!!
You will only hurt yourself like this, and a man like him is **worthy of your love???
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Dogs can't change their personality of eating, there are two if they have one, even if they are reunited, there will still be a knot in their hearts.
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Once there may be a next. Such a person does things without much bearing! After all, they used to be husband and wife, huh? Learn to be generous, to be more tolerant...If you want to open a little, it's good to have it.
1. Don't deliberately understand the reason for the so-called "betrayal". Why should we recognize and understand the causes of "betrayal"? Isn't this rubbing salt on the wound?
Because any betrayal is destined to be deliberate at the moment it arises, no matter what the reason, it is a human error for the "initiator", so why bother to seek and explore? Those who often want to get themselves out of the "betrayal" will sigh for themselves while also finding reasons for the "betrayal" behavior of the other party. I thought this was to show my tolerance and open-mindedness, but I didn't know that this was a big punishment for myself!
2. As far as emotional betrayal is concerned, if my boyfriend betrays me and splits his legs, I will choose to forgive if he corrects it, but there will never be a second time; If it is a friendship, for example, my good friend has gradually drifted away because of less contact, and has betrayed the vow that he once said that he would be a good friend for life, and I have no right to choose to forgive or not to forgive, because this is also my own inaction, to let this relationship go away.
Third, I have lost trust in him, and when we are together, the relationship cannot be the same as before, and there is already a thorn in my heart. Not to mention betraying me, I can't stand even the ambiguous words of the object and the opposite sex. I think he didn't take me to heart by doing that, and even though he did well later, I would remember those things.
These things will be a thorn in my heart, and when I think of them, I will have a dull pain in my heart, and I can't trust him anymore. I think that in such a state, it is impossible for two people to trust each other, and it is impossible to be sincere with each other, so why should they be with each other, it is better to separate early, and to separate early is to liberate each other and liberate themselves.
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When it comes to betrayal, then never forgive, or it will be done again in the future.
Should you believe him or not, you have to ask yourself, do you like him very much, if you really love him, you should believe him, if you don't love him, you can choose not to believe him, this kind of problem can not be solved by others, only ask yourself whether he is worth your love, whether it is worth your belief, whether it is worth your forgiveness, people will be wrong sometimes, if he really loves you, you can try to believe him once, maybe everything will not be so mixed at all, but this is just my personal opinion, The choice is yours to make
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