Falling out of love and feeling like everything doesn t make sense anymore? How to get out

Anyone who has ever been in love understands that what you love the most is always what you can't get.

Gains and losses, of course, joy; Gains and losses, gains and losses, Chad and losses, even more sad!

Those who have been in love understand that fairy tales only belong to fairy tales, belong to reality, and are rare, so precious, so fairy tales! Love in reality, the most loved, is always unobtainable.

Colds can be cured with medicine, Chinese medicine is too slow, and Western medicine is too harmful to the body, so I always choose natural good.

My cold was intermittent and spreading, coughing, headache. However, over and over again, the disease was avoided and the doctor was avoided.

I was afraid that Chinese medicine was too bitter and never drank it. If you are afraid that Western medicine will hurt your body, try to eat as little as possible.

Finally, one day, I found that my cold was cured, and I used to struggle in agony, thinking that I would carry the cold with a heavy burden for the rest of my life. In an instant, but hair.

It has long since been fully healed.

Love is far away from me. The important thing in life is experience and experience. It doesn't matter if it's good or bad.

Always bear it. If you figure it out, you can figure it out, and if you can't figure it out, you can't figure it out. There is no easy way.

Everyone knows the beauty of longing for love, like a moth to a fire. Love is not a simple thing. I hope you can face yourself correctly.

Want to get something. What do you want to pursue. Then you're good to go.

Change the mood: Women are getting married, and it is time to "figure out" for them. Have you figured it out?

Isn't that what love is all about?

The romance of the time turned into a retrospective afterward.

What oaths and what has been said in the Eight Classics are all negated by a random sentence or two later.

You're all aware. So you don't have to think about him anymore.

Anyway, you'll meet other people.

China is so big, there is no gentle and good-looking woman left.

After falling out of love, just be optimistic, it's not a big deal, it's not a big deal, it's not a big talk, it's not standing and talking, I don't have a backache, I'm a big lovelorn How many times have I been here, and you slowly know the greatness of time, leave it to time, it will make you forget all those things, I didn't believe it before, but after a long time, even if I think of him again, I don't feel so feeling.

And to add, a marriage that is not blessed by parents is generally not happy, which is not necessarily a bad thing, I wish you happiness.

Hehe, walked with his legs... Two people have feelings – together; It's not suitable to divide - just find another suitable one... It's the process until you find the person you've been with for the rest of your life!! Come on, happily look forward to your true destiny...

Be strong, next time you look for a boyfriend (girl) friend, you have to look at the home address first. Forget that person, it is your best choice, the earth is still alive from everyone, and we live from everyone! Time!

You're a gentleman, be strong! Like you, I'm in a lot of pain, and I'm even thinking about suicide. Home is everyone's roots, you have to try to understand her!

Take your life seriously! That's just a process in your life. You will meet girls in the future and have your own happy family, as long as you have enough faith!

There are thousands of sons and daughters in China, and if we can't do it, we will change it every day. Repeated talk and failure. Repeat defeat rate talk.

I'm also out of love. A person was in agony for more than a month. Friends, family, and colleagues comfort me every day.

Fortunately, I didn't leave you because of a change of heart, although the love between Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai is very beautiful, it is also very miserable.

You don't want that either.

Parents know about it, it seems that you are not as simple as just talking about love.

Love is not the same as marriage.

Marriage is not a matter of two people.

Think about it from your perspective, if your parents don't let you socialize, will you still insist?

Don't be unhappy, there are many meaningful things in life.

You'll also come across more suitable ones.

Now many people are out of love.

But some people are still as happy as ever.

It's inevitable that you'll be sad and disappointed.

But you can think about it.

If you are sad and disappointed, you can bring your love back.

You're worth it.

But that's not possible.

It's enough to vote seven points for love, you're just investing too much, and you're hurt, right? Sometimes I feel that some things are destined in the blindness, since we are separated, it is better to let go completely, people don't often say, the earth is the same as everyone else? Why do you have to force yourself to be sad?

The psychological capacity is really weak. Think about your parents and family, people don't just live for themselves. And, how do you know that there is nothing better waiting for you in the back?

Time is the best doctor.

Immerse yourself in your work, how good it is, you're free again.

Change the environment and work hard! This way you won't think of him or her! I wish you a speedy way out!

Think about it in the future, without him (her) the earth will rotate, but he (she) does not cherish it and believes that he will live a better life.

Me too, I don't think it's meaningful, I don't want to go to work, I'm sad, I don't know what to do, so I can't ...... your problem

Spend more time with friends, and don't focus all your attention on the pain of falling out of love or traveling.

One, the broken love I experienced.

I once fell in love once when I was in college, we met online, we were separated from each other, it was the first time I fell in love, and I was full of unconfidence. We had a good chat online, and then he came to my school. At that time, it was only half a year before we graduated.

Later he graduated, came to my city, got a not-so-good job, and just hoped we could be together. But the reality was cruel, and the family wanted him to go back and invited me to come and live with me. I was tormented because I was a very traditional person at heart and I didn't want to be too far from home.

Once I take that step, I may only come back once in six months or a year. The problem of distance corroded me again and again, and I was miserable. Until one day, he told me that he went on a blind date.

Suddenly I felt abandoned and told my friend at the time, who said that no one would always wait for anyone.

Second, get out of lovelorn.

Later, my relatives also introduced me to a few blind dates, but at that time, I still did not withdraw from the previous relationship, and I was in a state of escape from others, and I did not open my heart to accept others. During that time, I usually locked myself in my room and burst into tears just thinking about it. It wasn't until later, when I met my current husband, that things got better.

Therefore, falling out of love is something that many people will experience, whether it is an objective factor or a subjective factor that causes a broken love, we should adjust ourselves as soon as possible, and we should meet the happiness that truly belongs to you with the best self.

The answer, from the description of the analysis, because I have been indulging in the pain of falling out of love, life will get worse and worse.

Life needs sunshine and happiness in order to have a sense of happiness.

One thing that many lovelorn people have in common is doubting themselves. Many people will continue to ask themselves this kind of question, am I not good enough, am I not good here, and I am not good there, so she will not love me?

Therefore, many people seem to have been abandoned by the whole world after ten o'clock, and gradually doubt their own demeanor and even feel that they are worthless. Some people may not be able to get out of the shadow of falling out of love for a long time, slowly losing their self-worth, and feeling that there is no one in this world who can treat themselves well. From this point of view, falling out of love will bring us many harms, self-esteem, frustration, emotional trauma, etc.

Therefore, if you want to get out of the broken love, you must start with the two, which can be regarded as a multiplicity of weight.

First, restore self-esteem

Everybody is an individual, just like I sometimes feel very self-righteous, just like many times we are more persistent, just like many times we are stubborn. Everyone has their own characteristics. And the lovelorn ones trampled on their proud selves.

Therefore, if you want not to be blocked by the quagmire of falling out of love, you need to try to reconcile with yourself and recognize the reality of falling out of love. Obviously, the learning process must be hard, because if you are not careful, you are likely to fall into the dilemma of where I am not good enough, where I am not as good as others.

If you never recover, then you may suffer emotional trauma for the rest of your life. So it's important to have a good mindset and remember that we're not doing anything wrong, and that I don't have the right to love someone, just as someone else has the right not to love us. Choose a form of confiding or hugging to recognize and motivate yourself.

Give yourself the courage to be loved, and believe that as long as we don't lose our self-worth, we can always be loved.

Second, enjoy solitude

Most people will say that I am enjoying solitude, which seems to have become a buzzword, but many people don't understand what true loneliness is. Enjoying solitude doesn't mean that you can eat alone, sleep alone, or play games alone. It's because you can regain yourself in the midst of pain and frustration.

And the suffering of falling out of love is the best of thousands of suffering. Falling out of love will bring us the experience of loneliness, pain, and regret. And loneliness is also very easy to defeat their hearts, and everyone is lonely, everyone comes to this world alone, and finally leaves alone.

Therefore, to enjoy solitude is to gradually accept it, to enjoy its waiting, to see her English plain, and then to face the sun rising in the east and setting in the west. You can be kind to yourself, and you can enjoy yourself for a long time, improve yourself and grieve yourself, and then continue to grow. In the face of all doubts and pains, we can accept them calmly, and we are never easy to be knocked down by doubts, and we still love bravely with the courage we like, which will bring us inspiration for a lifetime.

Rebuilding self-esteem Everyone is an individual, just as we can be narcissistic at times, just as we can be stubborn at times, just as we hold our minds at times. We all have our own characteristics. And the loss of love has trampled on our proud self.

Therefore, if you want not to be hindered by the quagmire of broken love, you must try to reconcile with yourself and face the reality of broken love. It is conceivable that this process must be difficult, because if you are not careful, you may fall into the strange circle of not being good enough, and I am not as good as others.

First, rebuild self-esteem. Everyone is an individual, just like we can be narcissistic sometimes, just like sometimes we can be stubborn, just like sometimes we insist on our opinions.

Second, enjoy solitudeMany people will say that I am enjoying solitude, which seems to have become a buzzword, but many people don't understand what real loneliness is.

I have paid too much in this relationship, my heart is too kind, my heart is too soft, and I attach too much importance to my feelings, so it is difficult to get out of love.

The landlord asked this question, it should have been spent in pain, if it really can't work, you can go to the doctor, after all, confiding in friends and parents is not a long-term solution, the key depends on yourself, whether you are willing to walk out. Falling out of love is just one of the big problems. If you can't cross this, you can't go to a wider wilderness.

I hope that even if you experience a broken love, you will not deny the meaning of love, only in this way can you not lose the ability to love others. When you really fall in love with someone, your heart will become soft. It's a lot like learning to ride a bike, you will form a memory, and if you know it, you will know it.

Time will always give you another perspective. Love yourself, friends.

In fact, in the matter of feelings, the biggest thing should not be to try to let go completely. When you want to let go completely, it means that you can never let go, and the more you let yourself not think about it, the easier it is to remember those painful memories.

Most people just rely on all kinds of coincidences that have no special meaning when they were young, and then they gradually establish trust and affection, and reach the state of lovers, lovers, and couples. But that's okay, if you live with anyone and help each other for a long time, you will build trust and affection. Fate is actually a coincidence, and people themselves add drama to themselves.

In fact, you don't need to forget the other person, on the contrary, you have to remember him, like a childhood memory pressed under the box, don't choose to forget, that is something very precious to you. It is undeniable that he existed and that he existed.

He has come to live your life, and your life is wonderful because of him, and that's enough! Everyone who has appeared in your life is here to teach you something, so thank him, we are all becoming what we like, looking for our more suitable other half, and pursuing the life we like more, everything is the best arrangement. Go forward and don't look back.

Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance, good luck.