Divorced, my wife wants to divorce me, do I want a boy or a girl? 180

Men and women are equal, but if a boy is going to get married in the future, it will cost a lot of money, so you want a boy. The wife is a woman, and the pressure is left to herself!

I think you should have more boys, because it's better for boys to follow their fathers and girls to follow their mothers.

It depends on who the children choose for themselves It is better to pay annually It is more troublesome to ask every month If you are still planning to remarry, you will harass it on a monthly basis Haha.

There are clear rules on whether the court will give you a boy or a girl. If both parties have the same ability to support the girl, the man is provided with custody of the girl in accordance with the law.

It stands to reason that you have to have a boy, and a girl is not old with you, although you are a father, but there is a way to see your second child, because the younger one is to follow the mother, not who you want, the younger child must need the mother's care.

All three should be the best, don't lack one, don't be angry for a while, unhappy for a while, lead to lifelong pain and lifelong regrets! You have sons and daughters, perfect! If you are divorced, you are not perfect!

Even after the divorce, when you get married, it is difficult to guarantee that your wife is more beautiful, good-looking, and virtuous than the current one! That unknown, what's it? You don't know yourself, think about it!

Personally, I think it's better to have two children. Like you said, it's all your flesh and blood.

If you haven't been divorced, please adjust it, boys and girls, even if you are divorced, they are still your children, if boys and girls are the same.

Why get divorced, divorce is not good for children?

Equality. It would be better not to get divorced.

I want it, I can't take it with me when I'm eighteen years old, and it's unnecessary to worry about it.

You want it, someone will raise it in the future.

Men and women are equal in today's society.

It's your own children who have to go down, if you can save this marriage, think of a way to save it, after all, the divorce of parents is still quite harmful to children, if it can't be saved, it is recommended to break it.

It's all your own flesh and blood, why should you let your relatives be separated when you divorce? If possible, don't let the two children separate.

Does the man want a boy or a girl in a divorce? If it is a last resort, the man will usually ask for a boy, and the girl will follow her mother.

Since both of you have two children, and these two children are not very old now, you should never divorce unless you have to, and you do not want to be separated.

The blow of the divorce of parents to the children is huge, it may not matter to adults, you can find another one to form a new family, but the children are different, they are still young and rely on their parents a lot, if you separate the two children now, the man and the woman each have one, do you think this is good?

These two children are their own flesh and blood, if one child follows the other and lives outside, don't you worry that he will not have a good time with others? What if someone abuses your child? Therefore, before divorce, you must think about these things clearly, two people can endure it, and if you have to do so, you must not divorce.

Is it better for a man to have a boy or a girl in a divorce? My advice is always that if conditions permit, it is better not to let the two children separate, and it is better to be with the father than with the mother, as the saying goes, the child and the father are relatives everywhere, and the mother is the only one with the mother.

The two of you try to discuss as much as possible, both are parents, and from the day you give birth to a child, everything is basically focused on the child, so is it better for the man to have a boy or a girl when you divorce? It is best not to let the child separate.

Not much else, I sincerely hope that the two of you will not get divorced, and I also wish you happiness and all the best every day.

The above is mine, I hope it helps you.

Of course, it's better for boys to follow their fathers, and boys are older, and girls are still young, which is the period when they can't do without their mothers, so for the sake of the two children's present and future, it is better for men to be boys, and it is convenient for boys to be with their fathers, and it is convenient for girls to be with their mothers, so this is a good choice for everyone, I hope it can help you.

Generally speaking, same-sex belts are better, after all, they are easier to understand each other. Of course, this is not absolute, if the father is a gentle and careful person, it is not impossible to take a daughter.

Legal analysis: 1. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers. If the mother has any of the following circumstances, she may live with the father:

1) Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the children are not suitable to live with them.

2) The father has not fulfilled the obligation to support the child if he has the conditions to support him, and the father requires the child to live with him.

3) The child is unable to live with the mother due to other reasons.

2. Where both parents agree that a child under two weeks old will live with the father and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it may be permitted.

3. For children over the age of two years, both the father and the mother request to live with them, and one of the following circumstances may be given priority:

1) Have undergone sterilization or have lost their fertility due to other reasons.

2) The children have lived with them for a long time, and changing the living environment is obviously not conducive to the healthy growth of the children.

3) There are no other children, and the other party has other children.

4) The child lives with him/her, which is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and it is not suitable to live with the child.

4. The conditions for the father and the mother to raise the child are basically the same, and both parties require the child to live with the child, but if the child has lived alone with the grandparents for many years, and the grandparents request and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild or grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the father or mother.

5. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of 10 over that a minor child over the age of 10 should live with his or her father, the child's opinion shall be taken into account.

6. On the premise that it is conducive to protecting the interests of the children, where both parents agree to take turns raising the children, it may be permitted.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

The wife divorces you, if the travel liquid really dismantles the loss to the point of divorce, the child is good with the mother, because it is a girl, the child is getting more and more empty, and it is inconvenient to be with you, many things need to be guided by the mother, and the father is not clear about some places, so it is more appropriate to follow the mother.

The daughter is more like the scumbag with the mother, because the daughter has grown up, and the mother is better at some problems, and there is a little quieter, the girl will tell her mother in her heart that she will not tell her father, and Zhisen is sometimes difficult to speak because her father is a man.

It depends on the financial situation of both of you? See who can better support the file to tease the daughter, the second is to see who has more time to take care of the daughter, after the divorce of the two people, it is always the child who is injured, so try to give the child a little more love, if the child has grown up, it still depends on the child's own thoughts, to see who the child is willing to choose.

Generally, in the case of carrying oak, the woman is still with the father, and if your financial argument allows the key to be completed, you are still better off with you, because after all, it is a daughter who is not better than a boy.

Look at whose upbringing***, because like everyone else, they all want to ensure the quality of life of their daughters.

Then you can ask your daughter who she would like to live with Zen Key, it is very important to respect the child's stupid infiltration method, and don't hurt the child's heart, after all, girls are different from boys.

The daughter is better with the mother, because the daughter has grown up, and the mother is better with some problems. There is also a point in the side song, the girl Zheng will tell her mother in her heart and will not tell her father, because her father is a man, and sometimes it is difficult to speak. Enlightenment.

Summary. It depends on how old the daughter is, if under 8 years old. The negotiator of both parties will deal with it, and the child can be asked for advice at the age of 8 and above.

My son is divorced from his wife, and I have a daughter for the man or the woman.

What do you mean? It depends on how old the daughter is, if under 8 years old. The negotiator of both parties will deal with it, and the child can be asked for advice at the age of 8 and above.

It's only been nine months. If the woman wants to divorce, the 9-month-old child will be awarded to the woman.

Can the man ask for it?

The woman has no financial means.

The woman also has to provide for the house.

Several Specific Opinions on the Handling of Child Support Issues in Divorce Cases by People's Courts: 1. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers. If the mother has any of the following circumstances, she may live with the father:

1) Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the children are not suitable to live with them. 2) The father has not fulfilled the obligation to support the child if he has the conditions to support him, and the father requires the child to live with him. 3) The child is unable to live with the mother due to other reasons.

Summary. Why does she have someone she likes and still chatting with you? That kind of woman, you are not worthy of having feelings with her, and when you get married again in the future, she will still chat with other men, will you be more uncomfortable at that time?

Hello, very happy and honored with your question. If you want to find a man who is married for the second time, this man has a daughter, I think it is acceptable to have a big cavity, why do you say that? (1) The daughter is different from your son, the daughter will get married sooner or later, that is to say, she will not live with you in her 20s, you don't have to worry about getting along with her for a long time.

2) If the man takes his son, this is more troublesome, on the one hand, because the son has to be with his parents all his life, and on the other hand, the son needs to spend a lot of money to get married and buy a house. Since you love this guy, I think it's perfectly fine to bring a girl. I hope I can help you, thank you for making the sweat guess with the consultation collapse.

A divorced woman with this daughter, what does it mean that she has someone she likes and still chats with me so happily?

I'm speechless too.

She has a happy person, why does she still write a letter and chat with you? That kind of woman, you are not worthy of having feelings with her, and when you get married again in the future, she will still chat with other men, will you be more uncomfortable at that time?

Therefore, the teacher suggests that you consider whether Yan Meng is with this woman, and you must manage your next marriage well, I hope my reply can help you enough, thank you for using the consultation.

1. In terms of custody, in accordance with the principle that the maintenance of the parent is beneficial to the growth of the child, the court will comprehensively consider the current living status of the child, the work income and moral aspects of both husband and wife, and whether the child has been raised by one of the parents when determining the custody to judge.

Children under the age of 2 are generally given to the mother, and children over the age of 10 are given the opinion of the child. If there are two children, one child is raised by one person as a general rule.

The parent who does not have a child should pay child support, which is generally 20-30% of the income of the parent who is not raising the child. Child support includes living expenses, education expenses, medical expenses, etc. The specific maintenance fee is determined based on the local standard of living and the actual living expenses of the child.

2 A car, a house, a shop, if it is before marriage, it is the personal property of one party before marriage; If it is after marriage, it will be divided equally between the husband and wife.

3. Other property aspects:

The property acquired during the marriage is the joint property of the husband and wife, and the joint property and debts of the husband and wife are jointly owned and borne by the husband and wife, generally one and a half, and the joint property of the husband and wife is divided in accordance with the principle of equality between men and women, protection of the legitimate rights and interests of women and children, and consideration of the innocent party.

Personally, I think it's better to take turns raising the children if they can! Don't separate your children because you're separated.

As for property, first of all, it is divided into family property, and it is clear whether it is before or after marriage, whether it is individual, family, or husband and wife. Personally, I think that whoever runs the store before the divorce belongs to whomever it is, because the operator has the ability, and if both parties want it, it can be converted into shares to calculate, one person, one class, full shares or ownership. If there are more than one house and car, it will be divided in half, and of course, it can also be given to your children.