His mentality, I don t quite understand. I don t quite understand the psychological structure of tou

Maybe it's a little rough at school, so I want to find someone to rely on. It could be academic pressure, employment pressure, or even lovelorn pressure. Personally, I think this is a short-term, dependent state, you can choose to comfort him as a big sister and talk about what happened to him.

You can also draw a line with him, and clearly tell him that this will not solve any problems, as a man, you must stand up in ** when you fall, and as an adult, you must have the courage to bear the blow alone.

Personally, I think it's better to choose the latter, if he can stand up on his own, then it will be of great help to him in his future life, otherwise, once he develops a habit of dependence, he is likely to continue to rely on it habitually.

He said that he misses you because you don't like her, and girls will always be disgusted and annoyed by people they don't like saying such things to themselves Think about it, how happy you should be if the same thing comes out of the mouth of the person you like

But the reason why he said such things is because he likes you, so if you really don't mean that kind to him, then quickly refuse and let him die, then I believe that he will know what to do in the future.

Don't ask him what he thinks, from the point of view of the subconscious mind when you ask this question, the subconscious, he has slowly entered your psyche, and the more you think about this question, the deeper he will go. Because you care about him, maybe he likes you, maybe he just wants you to like you, but one thing is for sure, he wants you to like him. And be with him.

I think it's very simple, he likes you, wants you to be his girlfriend, wants to be with you more.

Hehe, I don't know what he thinks, I just know that you like him,

It doesn't matter what mood you're in right now, but you have to learn to self-regulate!

Happy people let humor dissolve their worries, and depressed people let their troubles ruin their mood.

As long as a person lives in this world, he will have all kinds of troubles in life.

We came to this world crying, because we know that when we come to this world, there is a tortuous and arduous road of life in front of us, and we are faced with the troubles of life.

The troubles of life accompany the pace of life. Where there is life, there are troubles. If the pace of life is easy and rhythmic, the troubles of life will be reduced temporarily; If the pace of life is heavy and tired, the troubles of life will weigh down like a mountain and linger.

It is impossible for everyone to be free of troubles, but the state of life is very different for everyone. The reason is that some people are good at resolving troubles, and some people always let their troubles ruin their mood. Therefore, the former is a person who lives happily, and the latter is a person who lives a depressed life.

Have fun, friend!

1. All this classmate, I also want to apply for the Department of Psychology like you, and I have found a lot of information.

The Department of Psychology can be liberal arts and sciences, because there are many branches, depending on what you want to study.

Good vision, hehe, Beijing Normal University is indeed very good, but the score is also very high, it should be a batch.

How can you live meticulously and not be lazy?

In fact, it is to learn to be a good person, improve the success rate of serious work, and master the truth of "those who know the times are handsome".

Cervantes once said: "Thought determines action, action determines habit, habit determines character, and character determines destiny".

In the modern market economy environment, the only way for people to adapt themselves to society is to first change their personality and get along with others.

Although it takes a lot of perseverance for adults to change their personality, it can be painful to even correct the thinking habits that they have formed.

However, as long as you have the determination to adapt yourself to society, you will have the confidence and courage to persevere.

This requires you to have a "clear and feasible goal, perseverance and perseverance, an optimistic and sunny character, and harmonious social relationships". These are the basic conditions necessary to adapt one's character to society.

Secondly, it is also necessary to develop the habit of doing everything well, which is of great significance for changing oneself and establishing a good adaptation to society.

It is necessary to develop the conditions to pay attention to three aspects in doing things: that is, to pay attention to "time, place, and people", that is, to pay attention to the three aspects of the social environment.

1. The time of day - is whether the time is ripe to solve the matter, which needs to be observed and waited, Zhuge Liang is like "if the east wind does not come, the grass boat will not be able to borrow arrows".

2. Geographical advantage - is the environment in which you are located, whether it supports the solution of things, or the resistance is very large, the conditions are unfavorable, like a talent, the boss blocks your way, and there are bad you at the same time.

3. People - for individuals, it is their own internal talent, whether you are competent to solve things, then you need to strengthen your learning and improve your ability.

Generally pay attention to these three aspects, that is, you have developed good habits of thinking and action, there are more opportunities for success, failure leaves you, and your ability to adapt to society is formed.

Your destiny is in your own hands, and your meticulous life and ability not to be lazy are also in your own hands.

Things that are happening around us that annoy us, things that are current, ask yourself:

Can this change? OK.

Then what are you worried about? A little bit to change.

Can this change? No.

Then what are you worried about? I can't do it anymore, isn't it, why bother worrying about it.

Set goals, do according to your own set goals, do every step in a down-to-earth manner, and don't be ambitious.

Listen to the song by yourself and don't want to relax at all.

There are always a few days a month.

Touching refers to something that someone or some people do that makes the majority of people emotionally infected; Touching means that someone has been infected by something that causes a relatively strong emotional swing. Upstairs is right, that is, the subject is different.

According to an example. ** Tan Qianqiu.

His example is touching.

I was touched by his example.

The subjects that are touching and moving are different.

Such a man, there is indeed a bit of a problem with psychology, if the two have no feelings at all, even if they get married, it is meaningless, and they will eventually separate, originally a man should take the initiative, he can not fall in love like when he was young, but at least he has to understand each other first.

Give it up, he didn't want to get married because he was in love.

You can give up, that's not called love.

Forget it, I think he's like he's married for the sake of getting married, but he's 40 and wants to get married and have a family.