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We all know that emotions need to be managed, but what are the key behaviors that can help lovers create a healthy and happy relationship? Many people are also trying various methods for this, although the results are not perfect, but looking at the happier lovers, they generally first have firm confidence in their emotions, and then pay for their good development.
For example, in life to give greetings and care, in the work to give support, encouragement, in the health of the body to give warmth, take care of each other, in the process of getting along with each other should be to understand each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, trust each other, and manage and maintain the stability and harmony of feelings.
As long as the two of you are together, one can always be curious about the other, as if it were a matter of nature. No matter how long you've been together, you always have something new to discuss and a lot of new things to try together, which will be of great benefit to your relationship.
Do you remember when you first started dating? Remember when you were excited to try something new that you had never done before? Isn't it exciting to think about this, whether it's life or partner, there is always a sense of curiosity.
This curiosity will get rid of the fatigue of ordinary life, and you can explore new things and experience unknown things together.
In addition to ensuring enough time together, lovers should also ensure their own unique space, which is necessary, because if lovers are together for a long time, they will lose their freshness to each other, and at the same time, it will also give people a sense of losing themselves.
So, even if you love someone very much, it doesn't have to be together all the time, you need to give your partner a certain amount of space and time for them to maintain their sense of self. In addition, there is a saying that "a little is better than a new love", and a short separation will create a feeling of "missing" between you, enhance the intimacy between the two of you, and make you cherish each other more.
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I don't know if you're a boy or a girl, if it's a boy, take the initiative, you can hold hands or something when you meet more, physical contact will quickly enhance the relationship, of course, it must develop slowly, and you can't scare girls away. If you're a girl, respond to the guy's date and let him know that you enjoy being with him.
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It's not impossible to quarrel once in a while! If you are a man, then find an excuse to quarrel, and then coax her, if it is a woman, you can say that he will not chase you and quarrel and then let him coax you, in fact, sometimes if two people feel that something is missing, they must tell each other, otherwise it will be difficult for two people to come together even if they are alike.
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Make more romance.
Give her a little more surprise in her daily life.
Care more about her and take care of her.
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Enhance the relationship!
What do TV commercials say?
It turns out that we have what we have used, what we have used, what we have, what we have, what we have, what we have, what we have done, what we have done every day.
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If you think it's a good fit for each other, you can grasp it! I remember when I first started dating my boyfriend, everyone was very shy, and we would go shopping together and walk one after the other, which was funny! It went on for a week!
In fact, everyone hopes for further progress, but I am a passive person, and my boyfriend is also a shy person who doesn't understand! Later, he messaged me if he could hold hands next time I went shopping! I laughed when I received the message, but we have been very close ever since!
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Get married, don't let the ducks fly.
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Introduction: Couples should communicate more with each other in order to understand each other's thoughts, so that the relationship can go long-term. The topic of communication between couples is also very important, some topics will cause two people to argue and have conflicts, and some topics will enhance the relationship between two people.
For example, two people can talk about their future plans or talk about things that the other person likes, and these topics can enhance the relationship between two people. After the two of them are together, they can talk about their plans and plans for the future. Because when talking about this kind of topic, you can know whether the object has included himself in the future plan, this kind of topic is very happy to talk about, two people can talk about the future and their views on the future, such as how to form a family together in the future, what kind of life they want to live.
You can also talk about each other's thoughts on the future, such as how to make the life of two people better and better, and which city they will settle in in the future. After being together for a long time, the relationship will be flat, and when chatting, you can talk about the topic of why two people came together at that time. It always reminds couples of some small things when they first fell in love, and these little things will make people feel very warm and happy.
When talking about the scene when they were together at that time, the shy face of the other party and the excitement at that time will come to mind, and such topics can enhance the relationship between two people. You can also talk about your views on each other, so that you can not only express your love for each other, but also know what kind of image and status you have in the other person's heart. Some couples bury everything in their hearts and don't tell each other, in fact, such words have a very big impact on the relationship.
When two people are together, they should be honest with each other, express their love often, and often reflect on their actions and practices to make each other feel happy. Through such a topic exchange, you can make yourself better and make the other person feel your love.
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Hello! 1. Share your childhood.
In the childhood life of each of us, we hide the influence of our original family on us, and share our childhood with our close partner, not only to share our childhood happiness and troubles, but also to let each other enter our own childhood to experience our own happiness and sorrow.
When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other person has formed such a personality and temper.
It seems that this is a process of sharing, and at the same time, it is also the fastest way to let the other person into your heart.
2. Make rules for love.
Formulate the rules of love that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is not only necessary to include the mode of getting along with the two gods, but also to include the mechanism of stopping the war between the two people.
Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.
A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether or not this rule is specially formulated, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.
3. Share travel shortcomings or hobbies.
Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.
Because boys' interest is to play games, while girls' interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.
Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys pretend to be in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.
So share your interests and hobbies, let the other party understand deeply, he (she) can not like it, but must understand.
4. Talk about each other's view of love.
The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.
The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and how to deal with problems when they arise.
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If it's a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, if two people want to enhance their relationship, I think it's relatively simple, and the two towns need to have frequent contact, and then have an appropriate distance. If there is a brief separation, when meeting Qianzheng should create some small surprises and small gifts, the small romance will enhance the emotional interaction between the two Yutan people.
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1. CommunicationCommunication is more important, at least two people can have something to talk about, how to live without communication, how to enter people's hearts?
2. ChangeI just said communication, communication is a way to go into the heart, what if you say that you want to talk to each other? A person with a good personality and a slight temper with a temperament, then I think a person with a good temper can't stand the words of a person who speaks prickly, or chooses to be silent or explode. Slowly, I didn't dare to speak carefully, so I didn't speak.
For in the process of adaptation, you still have to learn to change, whether you just know or have known for a while, if you want to get along well, you can't rely on your temperament, then you will not get along well.
3. Honesty and trustHonesty must be done in the early process of acquaintance or in the later management of feelings, if one party is not sincere, it will cause suspicion and the relationship will break down.
Of course, if you have a little doubt about the other party, you should also trust the other party, and you can be honest with each other.
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The future of two people should be planned by two people, both with long-term goals and short-term goals, and they can't live blindly, or look at their colleagues and classmates around them to see how they live? Just like Comrade Wang said, set a small goal first, although we say that we can't set that big, but also, but also to lay the foundation for the long-term goal, first of all, we must get rid of poverty, go to a well-off, and finally achieve prosperity, in order to achieve this goal, we must pay practical actions, can not be too blind to mess around, and insist on exercising, without a good body, everything is in vain, this year has set the goal, and has paid for it, I hope to achieve this goal, is working hard. Thank you.
Choose the person you like, don't be with her for the sake of gratitude to the person who helped you, this is not love is gratitude, if you get married, will you live with the person you don't love for the rest of your life? She knows that you are with her because you are grateful to her, so she will be more sad, or explain to her now, how is it hurt, why not reduce the damage a little earlier, dragging it is also a waste of time for people to find happiness, go, brother!
Two people should understand together, trust will last for a long time, and it is best to have some common hobbies, so that there will always be topics, or common goals, depending on each other, and life is extraordinarily fulfilling.