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Actually, I think this is really simple, I started to come to the university in the same mood as you, I think the university is a palace of happiness, is a place to play, but since I came to call me to make a lot of demands on myself, I have gradually become harder, like in high school I always think that as long as I get to college, everything is good, I can play casually without studying.
You have to remember that such an idea must be wrong, really not, after all, college is still a school, although it is different from high school, junior high school, primary and secondary school, but you have to remember that college is all professional courses, think about it, if your own professional courses are not good, then you can find to enter the society, when you participate in the work, what qualifications and diplomas do you have, what ability to compare with people with strong majors!
So, you have to work hard in advance, don't you? Because everyone wants to live a good life, I guess you think the same way! Therefore, for your better life in the future, you must work hard for your future in the last student time of the university, believe in yourself, your happiness is created by yourself, and your future is also created by yourself, all of which you have come out step by step, and it is impossible to reach the sky in one step.
So be realistic, you're not motivated right now.
Then you have to think about your future days, whether you want to live a hard life or want to live a happy life, you know it in your own heart, now it just makes you a little self-motivated, and it doesn't say that it is particularly pressing you, and the time in college is so free, learn a little practice, what's wrong with being a little self-motivated, you can divide your college time into several parts, and divide your efforts into a large part. You can't go wrong that way, and it won't delay your time playing!
You have to have confidence in yourself, don't think that it is useless for you to be admitted to this kind of university, I tell you, I am a student of a junior college, I think there is no shame in going to a junior college, because after all, I didn't work hard at that time? I just think that I am studying hard now, for myself, not for others, after all, I have grown up now, and I have learned a lot of things, not as rebellious as when I was a child, although I am a junior college student, but I can upgrade my school, then I can go to graduate school, and I can better sublimate myself.
Human learning is endless, so it doesn't matter where you are? You can't be self-motivated, self-motivation is the most terrible, one point, you think about a person who is not self-motivated, isn't that a puppet? Is your life still full of meaning?
No one wants to live a better life, you have to be self-motivated, whether it's in college or where? For the sake of a better life, you should be more motivated!
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Since you can ask this question, it means that you are still self-motivated, then things will be much easier
First of all, we may have to ask ourselves what is the reference point of immotivation, that is, in our own minds, what is motivated and what is not.
Based on my own experience and that of my friends, we tend to define the phenomenon of not wanting to do things all day, not wanting to learn new things, and getting by as not being motivated. If we follow this line of thinking, when we don't want to do things all day, do we really stay in our chairs all the time?
No, we're definitely looking for something to fill that time. Girls may be inclined to watch dramas and go shopping**; Boys may be more willing to play games. At this time, the so-called "unmotivated" may refer to the fact that we are not comfortable allocating our time to these activities.
And the reason we choose to do these things is that they make us feel relaxed and that we are interested in these things. My suggestion is that you can go deeper on these things, or related things.
For example, a friend of mine loves to watch movies, and every time he watches a movie, he has a feeling in his heart that he wants to express.
At this point, they are usually able to write it down, so it becomes a film review. My friends watched more and more movies, and they also had more and more movie reviews. At a certain stage, my friend found that his film reviews were not up to the same level, so he tried to keep up with excellent film reviews.
Slowly learning and accumulating, by now this friend has the ability to write excellent movie reviews
After finishing our university studies, we must need a job to support our lives. If we can develop a skill from our daily hobbies during our university years and lay the foundation for our future work, then I think we can feel a lot more at ease
As for the quality of professional learning, probably for most people, it represents more of an attitude and method of doing things, and it is inevitably one of the criteria by which a person is judged. For the sake of yourself, you still have to work hard to self-supervise
Hope it helps
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When I entered the university and became a college student, I found that the environment around me had changed. Whether it's the environment in which you learn or the environment in which you live. University can be said to be a very free country, no one cares about you, most of the time is at your own disposal.
Everyone is inert, and as we move from high school to college, many of us may be overwhelmed by the sudden freedom. After entering the university, we should learn to manage our own life and study. To manage your study and life well, you need to improve your self-control.
College can also be said to be an important watershed in life, and many people continue to hone themselves, improve themselves, and improve their abilities in college. Some of them insist on studying every day, they have their own goals, go to graduate school or study abroad, and set lofty goals early.
However, there are a large number of people who do not know what they should do when they enter college, and they may be wasting their precious youth every day. Before entering college, they may all be the hardworking people on the high school campus, and they rely on their own efforts to get into their target university. However, after they were admitted, they seemed to have forgotten their lofty ideals and what they would do in the future.
A considerable number of college students do not want to make progress every day, do nothing, and get by. As today's college students, we should set our own goals, have our own appropriate arrangements every day, persist in studying, and improve ourselves. College students should be aware of the fierce competition in today's society and keep improving, so that they can be able to live up to the hard work of themselves.
In college, only by continuous efforts and continuous struggle can we achieve youth without regrets.
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1.The goal is not clear.
Nowadays, many chiropractic students do not have a clear goal, or they are not sure what they can do after learning this, or they feel that the final job may not necessarily use what they have learned, so they choose to mess around.
2.There is no good plan.
Never make a plan to do anything, only take one step at a time, only think about no practical action, to make a study plan, experience the superiority of each time to complete a small achievement, so that you can be self-motivated.
3.There is no consistent attitude.
Some students lack perseverance, determination and perseverance to learn, and it is difficult to maintain abundant energy and perseverance in the learning process. It is definitely not advisable to have a learning attitude of fishing for three days and drying nets for two days.
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One. Common learning problems for college students.
1.The motivation to learn is not strong.
When I first entered college, I was full of yearning for college life, but after staying in school for a while, I found that my roommates didn't like to study, and would rather spend their time on useless socializing, playing games, and chasing dramas. I don't think they are motivated to learn at all.
People who love to learn.
2.I don't like to ask.
When I encounter a problem I don't understand in my studies, I won't ask others, copy other students' answers and do things hastily, under the banner of just passing it, but I can't get anything.
Communicate with each other. Two. Resolution.
1.The motivation to learn is not strong, we can try to learn from simple knowledge, slowly cultivate our interest in learning, and improve our attention to learning.
2.Being ashamed to ask others about learning is actually very bad for personal development. Keen and studious, not ashamed to ask, asking is a thirst for knowledge; Asking is a kind of exploration of the unknown.
Ask a little today, ask a little tomorrow, and you will find that you know more and more things, know more and more things, and more importantly, improve your social skills.
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After graduation, I will first find a job and "hit a wall", because my professional knowledge is not solid, it is difficult to answer the questions raised by the interviewer, and it is difficult to pass even the written part, and my life will not be too satisfactory, because of work problems, soIf the income is not too high, the quality of life will decline, and I will have to think about it again when I get together with friends, and I will spend time remediating my college expertise.
As a person who has personally experienced these things, I feel deeply about this, in college life, I lost myself, maybe three years of high school was too long, and when I arrived in college, I was like a wild horse, at first I was holding my mobile phone and computer all day long and playing games, when my roommate was busy studying for certificationAnd I'm busy moving up the "ranks" in the game
In this way, I spent four years in a daze, and I didn't pay attention to my studies at all in these four years, so when I was about to graduate, my roommates all got a good job with various certificates, and I only had a paper degree, so I didn't even know what to write on my resume, and when I was looking for a job, I was looking for a jobI felt that my university was really "white".
Because large companies don't bother to recruit people like me at all, and the resumes I submitted rarely have a reply, and finally there is a reply, and the interview is also brushed down; Later, I had no choice but to go to a small company that did not enter the streamEven so,The leaders in the company were still reluctant to hire me, but fortunately, there was little competitive pressure, and I finally got a job, but the salary was very low
So,In order to change this state of life, I made up my mind to make up for what I missed before, and to learn professional knowledge and research from scratch; In short, if your college life is too comfortable, then you have to put in more effort than others at work.
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If you are admitted to college, you will be played casually by others after graduation.
To be honest, those classmates around me who were lazy in college (except for survivorship bias) have been overwhelmed by life, and some people complained in the circle of friends that their salaries were too low and they couldn't even pay their rent; Some people are complaining that the company's environment is too poor; Someone has just been fired, and they are pitching resumes everywhere.
No matter how lazy Qingbei Port University and other famous schools are, it is not bad to be able to mix until graduation. But in the ordinary Ben II, the junior college, you are lazy to try? In addition to academic qualifications, what is more important is that you do not have the ability to compete with others, and what awaits you is that your resume will be thrown in the trash.
Personal thoughts: Don't care if others are lazy or not, maybe people have lazy capital. But what do you have?
doesn't just have a young body, a makeshift IQ and appearance, and a little bit of hard work that is unwilling to resign himself to fate. As long as you feel that you haven't lived up to the good resources and opportunities of the university after graduation, and you are not willing to be mediocre, maybe you won't regret it.
Some people may say that they feel that college is useless at all, and they have not learned anything. Don't get me wrong, the university itself is a learning platform, a testing ground for students before entering society, and a time full of opportunities but full of anxiety and hardship. It is different from elementary school and junior high school itself.
Learning is not about others forcing us to stuff things into us, but about letting us take the initiative to absorb and absorb knowledge.
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I was in a mess in college for four years, and there were a few brothers and sisters who tried to record the following:
In the next me: I have no degree in college, I have deferred graduation for one year, I have a bachelor's degree certificate, and then I studied for an MBA, and now I am the director of a Fortune 500 foreign company;
Student A: I don't have a degree in college, I postpone my graduation for one year, I have a bachelor's degree certificate, I went to the same company to do software testing together after graduation, and now I am still in this company, a development manager, etc.;
Student B: Deferred graduation for one year, with a degree and graduation certificate. After graduating, he took the bar exam for several years and finally passed, but he did not realize his dream of being a lawyer. Now I work as a trainer for an insurance company;
Student C: Barely got a degree certificate and a graduation certificate. After graduation, he went to Ningbo, and has been in the real estate industry since then, and is now the financial director of a branch of a financial group;
Student D: Barely got a degree certificate and graduation certificate. After graduating, I interviewed Shanghai Construction Engineering Group, and I happened to meet the interviewer who was our senior brother, so I was admitted. I have been a financial manager for more than ten years, and now I have come out to open my own company;
Student E: My grades are better than those of my brothers, but they are also the bottom. After graduation, I went to Alibaba to do sales, but unfortunately I didn't stick to the end, and then returned to Zhuji to become a college student village official, and now the deputy director of the Municipal Bureau (deputy section level).
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