How did you go from being a taciturn person to a slick one?

I don't know why I want to change from a taciturn person to a smooth-tempered person, probably because I feel that a taciturn person is easy to lose, and is not as popular as a person, who is liked by leaders, and colleagues, but is this really the case?

People with a smooth tone tend to have a sense of distrust, and the word is also a derogatory term, like a flamboyant tongue, people may cater to it on the surface, but they are not necessarily popular in private, and it is difficult to entrust important tasks. And taciturn people often give people a sense of being down-to-earth and able to endure hardships, although the leader does not say anything on the surface, but in fact, he sees it in his eyes and remembers it in his heart. Of course, it is definitely not advisable to be blindly silent, and you still have to communicate when you change your communication, and the subject should ask here is, how to transform into a person who can talk and communicate.

We all live in society, and we all need to communicate with others, communicate, and master certain communication skills, which is very important in social life. Of course, before learning speaking skills, the most important thing is not to be afraid to communicate with others, to dare to communicate with others, you can start by communicating with your family, to try how to communicate better with your family.

The first thing we have to do is to understand people, and we have to say different things in the face of different people, because everyone's interests and hobbies and life experiences are different, so at the beginning, the first thing to do is to listen carefully to what they say, think more, think about what they are going to say next, and learn how those hosts on TV communicate with others. Thinking is extremely important, because you need to know what to say, what not to say, on what occasions, how to say it, different things to master different ways of speaking, such as big things to say clearly, urgent things to say calmly, etc., and don't talk too much, too much will be lost.

I think that by interacting with different people and making friends with different people, you will be able to submit your social skills and change your taciturn personality.

I feel that this kind of personality change is the rarest, because as the old saying goes, "three years old looks big", personality is a long-term evolution, and it is difficult to say that it can be changed.

This is what you need to attend, and then make more friends who can speak, and the environment and training will naturally change you.

You should try to communicate with all kinds of people and learn from other people's speaking skills.

Ask yourself, right, if you develop your cavity in a good direction, that is, you will grow. Right. How? Do you think the people around you think you're oily? Gao Ru: In addition, why do you think you are a person who is deep in thought and good at words?

This is how everyone in this society survives, if you were like this before, relative to the current you, then you have not grown; If you used to be an impulsive person, didn't think about things in many ways, and didn't speak smoothly, compared to what you are now, then you have grown, and you have grown rapidly. The oily tone does not refer to thoughts and words, it refers to people who do not do practical things and still say that others are not, and refers to people who say good things in front of others and bad things about others behind others. If Cong Liguo is really a person who is good at rhetoric but not rhetoric, and deep in thought but not taciturn, then I don't think you are a smooth and smooth person.

In today's society, these are necessary conditions, and only if you have these conditions can you better survive in this workplace.

Growth is compared to before, and if you used to be like this, then it can't be considered growth. Whether it's growth or not, for a person, being good at words without exaggeration, deep thinking without being taciturn, is a good trait, as long as it makes you comfortable. This shouldn't be a slippery tone, as long as you're sincere enough.

If there is a change compared to what you used to be, it is growth, if there is no change, it is not a growth, whether the oil cavity is smooth or not, it depends on your usual performance

The first suggestion, the strategy chapter, "Know yourself and know your opponent, you will not be defeated in a hundred battles" "I want to deal with a man with a smooth tone, I need to know clearly his interests, hobbies, as well as his friends, family, and so on. Knowing his characteristics, strengths, weaknesses, etc., only by understanding a person in all aspects, you will know where your breakthrough is and how to figure out how to deal with him.

2) The second suggestion is that I hope you take a good look at the 36 strategies, which have a lot of strategies and tactics, which are particularly good and targeted, and can be applied to practical life, such as the "hiding from the sky and crossing the sea", "sounding the east and attacking the west", and many other strategies are particularly special. Getting along with scheming people is about wisdom and strategy.

3) The third suggestion, if you are not good at the above aspects, you can take the last of the thirty-six strategies, "go for the upper plan", that is, avoid it, and stay away from this kind of person.

The above are a few of my suggestions for the subject's reference, I hope it can help you, on the other hand, don't worry too much about this kind of person, if he scolds you, you ignore it, then it is equivalent to it scolding itself, just when is the so-called retribution. Sometimes you need to look at it a little bit, look down on it, and when you have a big understanding, you won't be so unable to think about anything. 

Be more wary of him.

But it doesn't have to be too cold

In short, don't believe everything he says to you, don't believe it all, keep a certain distance, don't talk heart-to-heart, unless he changes.

Be straightforward and don't think about anything

Be calm, stay away from him, and be vigilant.

Find a few friends and beat him to death.

If he doesn't let him see a little red, he won't know why the flowers are so red

Seduce him, get enough of his soul and dump him! Isn't it too bad?

With a straight face, his eyes glared at him and he was pregnant.

People who are not doing their jobs properly are generally in state-owned enterprises and are more open-minded.

Not down-to-earth.,Being with the object will give people a pompous feeling.,People seem to be going to say things in front of people.,People's hearts are unreliable.。。。

Now the man with a sweet mouth is the most likable, give him a five-fold discount on what he says, don't believe it too much, and don't give too much affection at the same time. If you love him, let time decide, it's the time when the fox always shows its tail.

It's good to experience a little more and suffer a little loss.

This is a skill! Learn to disguise yourself first! It's just seeing people and talking about people, and talking about ghosts!

I haven't experienced much, I have to learn to hone it, and I still have a long way to go.

You don't talk for a day! Can it be done?

I don't like either ...

Relatively speaking, the oil cavity is more slippery. . .

Men are too silent or introverted. Girls will feel very hard and tired...

And the man's oily tone feels very frivolous...

Kindness. Let me sum it up!

When you're happy, the oil cavity is smooth.

Be steady when doing things! ok

You boys are the love of girls who belong to the gangster type.

The taciturn is loved by girls who belong to the lady type.

But most of them are occasionally oily and slippery, but they are not steady.

I don't like it!

They all like to be cynical, these are all standard boys in romantic dramas!

Although there are so few good things.

I don't like either! But it's better to be taciturn than to be oily and slippery, but these two extremes, not many girls will like them, right? Boys should be lively and steady, the kind of best ......

I'd rather be taciturn than slick.

Let's just say that a truly honest person never says that he is an honest person, because he is honest. claims to be an honest person, but it is conceivable that he is not honest. It's a matter of common sense.

That's right, you're the most honest person out of the honest guys.

You ask him, and you prove it to me!!