Is it unfilial to say that parents are bad? What if my parents were really bad?

To be an honest person and want to tell the truth, then really tell the truth.

Say whatever the situation is. But pay attention to your words and tone of voice, otherwise it will give people the impression that you are unfilial and that you look down on your parents.

You should say the good things about your parents, and use neutral words to say the bad things, don't use derogatory terms, otherwise, people will think that you yourself say this about your parents, and outsiders will look down on your parents even more.

I have two brothers and two houses. I got married first, but for the sake of family peace, I took the initiative to give up the house to live with my parents, and the house was given to my brother, who got married later. Now, my parents are not even compatible with me living next to them, and they want me to move out as a family.

After my family moved out, my parents brought my brother's children to live with them, clearly saying that they wanted to give the eldest of the two houses, and wanted my family to live on the main road. In the face of such parents, I don't know how to write the word "filial piety".

Look at the matter, but, your parents have raised you for so many years, no matter how uneducated and bad they are, you can't say it to your face, how much damage to their self-esteem. Even if it's a friend, you can't say it bad to your face.

Alas. No parent will return their child, but there are exceptions.

I can't comment on what you think.

Just think about it yourself, your parents still have to be filial.

It is said in the Analects that filial piety is to point out the shortcomings of parents, rather than blindly tolerating them. My grandparents were also terrible, my father didn't care, and I was living in dire straits. Last time my grandfather wanted me to die, just because I was a girl.

Parents are really bad in that aspect? Your parents have only an obligation to you to nurture and educate, and nothing else.

You're at your own convenience. It's because you are too demanding of your parents, and they can't fulfill your demands, so it's called bad, right?

Not sure, but still respect, after all, it is an elder.

Which parents are not worthy of filial piety are as follows:

1. Parents who are born but not raised are not worthy of filial piety to their children. The responsibility of parents is not only to bring a child into this world, but also to raise, accompany, and give love, blood is important, but blood without affection is not family affection. Filial children often have a parent who loves him, if you want to rely on the old and have a son to take care of, please learn to be a qualified parent first.

2. Selfish parents are not worthy of filial piety. Selfish parents only think of themselves whenever they want, even if they have a bite to eat, they will only put it in their mouths in the face of their children who are waiting to be fed. When encountering such parents who are not worthy of filial piety, filial piety is not necessary.

However, in law, children have an obligation to support their parents, and no matter what the reason is, the child cannot shirk the responsibility of supporting his parents.

1. Parents who are not filial to their parents, parents are the first tutors of their children, and they have a great influence on their children. 2. Parents with low moral bottom line, some parents are not only selfish, but also often do some things to their children that harm others and benefit themselves, such parents are not worthy of filial piety. 3. Eccentric parents, the old social concept of preference for sons still exists, and such parents are also not worthy of filial piety.

Because there are good and bad people in character, and the same is true for the elderly. There are always some elderly people whose personalities or treats people or habits that are difficult to accept. For example, nitpicking or a bowl of water is uneven.

Some parents make it difficult for their children to accept, even if they spend manpower and material resources to be filial to them, their children's hearts are full of anger. However, parents are parents after all, and it is not easy for them to pull their children up for a lifetime. Therefore, filial piety to the elderly does not give up or dislike them because of their bad conduct.

In law, children have an obligation to support their parents, and no matter what the reason is, the child cannot shirk the responsibility to support his parents.

The following types of parents are not worthy of filial piety:

Parents who are not filial to their parents. Such parents are unable to set a good moral example for their children and will even make their children emulate their unfilial behavior.

Parents with low moral bottom lines. Such parents are often selfish, do things to their children that harm others and benefit themselves, and take their children's care for granted, such parents are not worthy of filial piety.

Eccentric parents. This kind of parents have the old social concept of preference for sons, treat their children with prejudice, and even use their children's marriage to satisfy their own partiality.

However, although some parents have bad conduct that is difficult to accept, filial piety to the elderly is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and an obligation under the law. Therefore, regardless of our parents, we should try our best to be filial to them and respect them.

Everyone will encounter problems that they can't solve, and many people may encounter some problems in their lives that make them feel very troubled. But I feel that people need to look forward, and these problems still need to be solved in the end. Your parents say that you are unfilial, what will you do at this time?

I feel that parents will always be the arms of the child, and I feel that this relationship is irreplaceable by any relationship, because this relationship is the most intimate relationship, and if two people are related by blood, two people will never be separated. And I feel that filial piety is a very important thing, if a person is not filial, then this person may only think about himself in everything he does, and he also feels that this person is very selfish. If your parents say that you are unfilial, then it is definitely recommended that you communicate with your parents to see if there is some misunderstanding between them.

But parents may really say this about their children, but not because you are really not filial to them, but because they feel that you are not doing things according to their methods, and they want to further control you at this time. This situation will actually happen in real life, and I feel that this kind of thing is really very bloody, because I think that parents should be very tolerant of their children, but some parents are really very selfish. So you can show your love for your parents with your own practical actions, in fact, it is not that you are really unfilial to your parents, but because you have your own way of life.

These problems may be encountered in life, because everyone will encounter some problems in life, and these problems may make you feel speechless. Parents say that you are not a filial son, and everyone should feel very sad from their hearts, because everyone is very concerned about their parents.

After such a situation, I will choose to communicate with my parents, and I will let my parents understand that it is not easy for me, and I will be more filial to my parents.

I would talk to my parents to see why they said that, and then I would check my own problems and make them feel better about me.

Then I might explain it clearly, and it would be better for my parents.

It is not easy for your parents to raise you, even if you feel that they have done something inappropriate, don't blame your parents, after all, they are your own parents, you don't blame your parents right, this is filial piety, blame them for not being filial, be filial to your parents.

I wish you all a happy life!

Causally speaking, parents and children are a combination of cause and effect. When children come to their parents to be reincarnated, there are those who repay their kindness, and those who repay their grievances are obedient, hardworking, and filial, so that their parents can worry about it, and bring joy and happiness to their parents, so as to complete the karma of this life. Those who repay grievances will disobey their parents, cause trouble, lose their family and money, and make their parents miserable.

On the surface, these seem to be karmic karma. Jing Hui, however, the problem is that the parents are able to give birth and raise the child, and the mother is pregnant in October, which is to repay the great karma. The indicators of life already have infinite merit!

The children's resentment is difficult to get rid of, and the viciousness is not remorseful, which violates and breaks the calamity of cause and effect. Therefore, unfilial parents will be punished. In fact, we are ordinary people, and the common people's lives at home are peaceful!

People who don't honor their parents, among the people I know, are living a very unhappy life at home now!

I may be old, and sometimes I wonder: why do they always have such and such things in their family, and sometimes they are still in a hurry!

We don't have the right to accuse anyone of being unfilial, my sister-in-law hates my mother, and sometimes she has to complain. We don't care about her, she ends up getting sick, oppressing her speech and swallowing functions! All of us also treated her in time, but she couldn't save her life!

Now everyone doesn't talk about superstition, and I don't believe in superstition either!

What the old man said makes sense, people should accumulate virtue for their children and grandchildren!

Scolding: A few lifetimes of lack of virtue will be retributed in this life!

Filial piety to one's parents is something everyone must do!