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If you do more for the people around you, they will naturally feel that you are important, don't always rely on others, be independent in life, naturally don't look at other people's eyes, try to live a wonderful life, don't lose your happiness for the eyes of others.
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It's wrong to think like this, there is a saying called rare confusion, isn't it good to live a life where you don't want to do anything? Is leaving the world a liberation? Say the most cheesy thing! It's better to die than to live!
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I used to think this way too:
Man comes into this world empty-handed.
But he still left this world empty-handed.
Why did you have to make this trip in vain?
But I knew it was a wasted trip. But if you think about it, it's useless to do something stupid. Doing something meaningful is also in vain. Why don't you do something meaningful. Make the people around you happy?
You see that you can make others happy. You're having a good time, aren't you?
Life is bound to have many twists and turns. It's like you walk. Not every road is smooth. Straight. There will always be bumps. Curved.
Friend, don't think so much. Live well. The most important thing to be a human being is to be happy.
You say you can't be happy?
Don't wait for happiness to come to you.
It's for you to find fun.!...
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I feel that you are too unconfident in yourself, and you can stay in the green mountains, even if there is no firewood?
In fact, you don't have to care too much about your status in the eyes of others, just work hard to be yourself and live every day. Besides, you say that your words are P in the eyes of others, is that because you don't have enough experience? Or are you thinking too much about yourself?
You can develop your interests.
It takes a period of time for a person to change, and he must live each day to the fullest, and I believe that there will be improvement in the near future.
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It doesn't matter if anything is right or wrong, it's just that in the eyes of different people, there are different rights and wrongs You don't have to care too much about what others say about you, how to live is your own business, hehe, cherish life.
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If you can't find a purpose in life, go to an orphanage, a nursing home, a mountainous area, feel the life, and then you will know what you should do.
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Summary. Hello, dear, very happy with your problem, how to get rid of life is the best, help you find out: look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".
Hello, dear, very happy that you are troubled by the problem, how to get rid of life is the best, help you find out: look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, only the teaser circle is to see how you solve it, for example, you were hit when you walked, the mountain collapsed and others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".
If you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then wake up in the morning and don't love the bed, wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe the fresh air of the morning, and relax the whole body.
Choose a place where the air is fresh, the surroundings are quiet, the light is soft, and the land is not disturbed, and you can move freely, take a position that feels more comfortable, stand, sit or lie down.
Live filial piety and move some of the body's big joints and muscles, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. Take a deep breath, inhale slowly, and exhale slowly, silently saying "relax" in your heart whenever you exhale.
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Hello, try to use these methods in the hope that you will be effectively freed from pain and misfortune. 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone while walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".
2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then let yourself be busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then wake up in the morning, don't fall in love with the bed, wake up, get busy, push open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine being a happy little angel ...... the world3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.
4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.
Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.
For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.
Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.
For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.
Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!
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Many people ask, what is the meaning of life, and what is the purpose of life? Some people say that life has no meaning, it is you who give it meaning, and some people say that life must be full of joy ......"Rejoicing in the old karma, no longer creating new karma, everything is liberation, liberation in this life. "I once saw such a sentence in an article, which I personally think is more meaningful to life.
Being born as a human being is inherently painful, and macroscopically speaking, there is no joy in life, there is no eternity, everything is an illusion, especially what you think is happiness. What we have to do is to explore the answer to the happiness of suffering, the answer has already been found by the ancients, but everyone is obsessed with their own cognition, unwilling to let go of the self, the self is small, vulnerable, the self is even the culprit of your liberation, everyone maintains self-awareness in the society, just like a crab in a deep well, none of us can climb out of the well, because they will pull each other.
Some students will say that life is pure bitterness and unhappiness is how negative and pessimistic thinking is, which is a misunderstanding, and life is pure and unjoyful is the most open-minded cognition and the most transparent opinion. Buddhism talks about the eight sufferings of life: birth, old age, sickness, death, love and separation, unwanted, resentment, and five yin blazing.
Each of these requires you to be liberated, and you have already passed a level when you are born, and there is the possibility of liberation. Therefore, the human body is precious, so no matter what your parents do, the opportunity they give you to be born is the greatest kindness, which can be said to be the Buddha who saves you. Everybody's ability to go there, to be liberated there, depends on your own creation, your accumulated merit.
Death is the last hurdle, only life and death are to come and go by yourself, go there, and decide for yourself. If you want to die well, you have to fix the first few levels. How to cultivate, first clear mind, understand your own heart, clear heart My personal opinion is divided into two parts, one is to understand that your heart ultimately wants to go**?
The second is to observe your heart at any time and see what it is doing. Then, it is, "Rejoicing in the old karma, no longer creating new karma, everything is for liberation, liberation in this life." ”
Rejoicing in the old karma, as if all the suffering is in the karma, thinking of heaven, letting go of everything at ease; Don't create a new business, you can create a business if you want to move, observe Li Sell with your heart and thoughts, don't be in a hurry to act; All for liberation, all rules of conduct; Liberation in this life, that is, the meaning of life.
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Meaning: (moving) Buddhism means to get rid of suffering and become free. Get rid of: everything is complicated, and it is impossible to get rid of. Near get rid of. Exculpation: Guilt. Near exculpation.
Pinyin: [jiě tuō].
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。。Don't look at the world so pessimistically, there are actually many wonderful things in life, but you don't find it, if you die like this, it will be forgotten by the world for eternity, it is better to live strongly, even if it is at the most dangerous moment, even if there is only a glimmer of life. I'm done with what I've said.,If you still insist on dying.,I can't help it.。。。
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Let's say that you can free yourself, the most important thing is that you have to correct some of the wrong things you are doing now, for example, you are often disrespectful to others or are not easy to bear yourself, then this must be some wrong practices, so if you want to get a salvation for yourself, you must start from now on to do what you should do to help others, and you have to learn to take responsibility, after you have done these things well, You yourself feel that you have made progress and are happy, and it is also a relief for yourself, and you will not be labeled as such in the future.