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Spring Festival and New Year are important for every Chinese. It's one of the few days of the year when people can finally get together. With the growth of time, the last batch of post-90s generations also ushered in 20 years old, not to mention that the post-80s generation already had children, for the pressure of life.

When the New Year arrives, it is inevitable that there will be questions in front of the newcomers, so when the New Year arrives, which party will celebrate the New Year?

China is a big country with a history of 5,000 years, is a country that attaches great importance to tradition, although the role of the times has become a thing of the past, but in thousands of years of ancient times, but the requirements for women can be imagined, the three major coaches are not divided into five permanent directors, in fact, there are many rules in the daily life of ancient women are fetters, especially during the New Year.

Spring Festival is a good day for reunion, but in many rural areas, married women can only return to their mother's home on the second day of the first lunar month, and the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner must be held in their own home. - House of Law. However, it is inevitable that people miss their parents during the Chinese New Year, even for married women.

Although her husband's home is also her own home, she inevitably still thinks about her parents.

In the past, you can only go back the next day, and the good people have also broadened a lot, and now even the married girl wants to stay in the Chinese New Year's Eve and go home to live is harmless, even if you want to stay at the mother's house to go to dinner at this time, it is not not to eat, but in ancient times it was never done, mainly because the ancients regarded this as a bad omen, and until now this concept is still retained in the concept of the older generation.

Although the daughter has grown up in the family for 20 years, as soon as she gets married, the daughter inevitably becomes an outsider. After all, women can't carry incense for their own families like men, and although blood is inseparable, after marriage, relationships from intimacy to estrangement are inevitable. Another saying that has been handed down is that the fire is on the third day of the Lunar New Year, and the light is on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month.

It means that married daughters cannot stay in their own homes to watch fireworks, otherwise their families will not be able to get rich, and their fortune will be greatly reduced, which may be the reason why many married daughters cannot go home for the New Year.

In fact, I personally think that this is a superstitious behavior, and the girl who marries out cannot see the fire of her mother's family in the Chinese New Year's Eve, and if she sees her mother's family, she will not be rich and prosperous in the coming year. Therefore, a married girl can go home to eat with her parents, but she cannot go home for the New Year, and she cannot meet on the first day of the new year.

The daughter who marries out is already a member of the man's family, and it is not convenient to go back to her parents' home for the New Year, and the place where she may marry is also relatively far away.

In ancient times, the daughters who married out spilled water, and the daughters who married out were unlucky to go back to their parents' homes, indicating that they were not doing well, and they would be thought by others to go back to their parents' homes.

We are also here, you can live until thirty, thirty afternoon back to your mother-in-law's house, you can go back to your mother's house on the first day of the new year, this custom is handed down when you can't eat enough before, in order not to be responsible for your mother's family, so you don't live in your mother's house during the New Year, now everything should be lifted, parents can't follow their daughter's new home to see when they get married before, now you can go, and you have to speak, and you have to talk before the mold to see which father cries not like a tearful person.

In our rural hometown, such a rule was serious in the past, not to say that only on the first day of the new year, there are a few days of the New Year that cannot be spent in the mother's house, especially in the family where the mother's family has an older brother and sister-in-law, younger brother and sister-in-law, and it is very taboo for the married girl to spend the New Year in her mother's house. The first is Laba on this day, the custom of our hometown is Laba to eat rice! Because we don't produce rice in the local area, we mainly eat pasta, rice used to be very rare, and the daughter who married out on this day of Laba can't eat at her mother's house, there is a saying:

After eating my mother's rice, I can't afford to eat it! So the girls don't eat at their parents' house.

According to the old generation, the beautiful girl can not go back to her mother's house for the New Year when she gets married, the old generation has a lot of old people, because there are old people in the mother-in-law's family, and the marriage is the in-law's trembling person, you should honor your in-laws, accompany your mother-in-law's family for the New Year, and now most of them are in the mother-in-law's house, which is also the rural people do this, now working outside, often do not go home, the mother-in-law's house is far away from the mother's house, both parents are old, and they need the company of their children, so the old saying has been improved, in order to better honor the parents, honor the parents of both sides, During the Chinese New Year, the elderly on both sides will be taken together, or one year at the in-law's house and one year at the mother's house.

Many people are tied up for this matter, in fact, filial piety and respect for parents is a big deal in life, men have parents and women also have parents, it is not easy for parents to raise us, as long as our parents are happy and happy, nothing is a thing.

According to the old generation, the beautiful girl can not go back to her parents' house for the New Year when she gets married, the old generation has a lot of old people, because there are old people in the mother-in-law's family, and the marriage is the mother-in-law's family, you should be filial to your in-laws, accompany your mother-in-law's family for the New Year, and now most of them have been in the mother-in-law's house, which is also the rural people do this, now working outside, often do not go home, the mother-in-law's house is far away from the mother's house, both parents are old, and they need the company of their children, so the old saying has been improved, in order to better honor the parents, honor the parents of both sides, During the Chinese New Year, the elderly on both sides will be taken together, or one year at the in-law's house and one year at the mother's house. Many people are worried about this, in fact, honoring parents is a big thing in life, men have parents and women also have parents, it is not easy for parents to raise us, as long as our parents are happy and happy, nothing is a problem.

According to the old custom, the answer is to go back to your in-laws' house. It is customary to say, "The daughter who marries out, spills the water", and the daughter who marries out is the person from the husband's family. Therefore, at the beginning of the new year, all families are reunited, and the daughter who marries out should also celebrate the New Year at her husband's house.

There is also a superstitious saying that at the end of the year, the deceased elders will go home from heaven to enjoy the incense offerings of the descendants, and the daughters are the water that is spilled out, and the ancestors will not enter the door when they see outsiders and enjoy the incense.

According to today's new thinking, the answer is to go back to either side. As science education continues to spread, fewer and fewer people want to believe these ugly superstitious claims. The daughter who marries is the daughter-in-law of the husband's family, and the son-in-law is half of the son of the mother's family.

In terms of blood, it will not cut off the relationship between mother and daughter and father and daughter because of the sentence "spilled water".

Whether you can go back to your parents' house for the New Year depends on the old customs of each place. As far as most of the rural areas of Guangxi are concerned, the daughter who marries out cannot go home for the New Year, one is due to the old customs and superstitions, and the other is to consider the daughter's husband's family.

But except for the beginning.

First, on special holidays such as Chinese New Year's Eve and the 15th Day, the daughter can still return to her mother's home. And it must be returned, because there is a good wish for the newlyweds, that is, after marriage, the newlyweds visit their relatives for the first time, and the relatives will return a considerable red envelope, wishing the newlyweds to spread out as soon as possible.

Without taking into account the customs of the old days, it is possible to:

1. The mother's family and the husband's family are neighbors or upstairs and downstairs. The two families had a reunion dinner together and spent Chinese New Year's Eve together. I will eat at my mother's house this year and my husband's house next year. More than a dozen people prepare the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner together, celebrate the New Year together, lively and lively, and enjoy the joy of the family.

2. The two families are relatively close, Chinese New Year's Eve is spent at the husband's house, and the second year of junior high school is spent at the mother's house. The son-in-law took his father-in-law's family home to celebrate the New Year together, and the neighbors were also full of envy, and the family was busy in their hands and warm in their hearts.

3. If the mother's family is across provinces or cities from the husband's family, you can consider spending a year in one family, so that the family on both sides will not be left behind. In particular, both husband and wife are only children, and the parents should be especially considered.

Where to go back for the Spring Festival is for family affection, and when we are young, we work hard outside for a year, isn't it also for the family to have a better life.

After a hard year outside, the energy is exhausted, and it is time to go home to the safe haven to recharge and prepare for the next year's struggle. The daughter who marries is the daughter-in-law of her husband's family, and the son-in-law is the son of her mother's family, so she is home wherever she goes.

1. No, you cannot. Many old people in our country think that the girl who marries out of the water will become someone else's family after marrying out during the New Year, if the New Year, the married daughter will return to her parents' house will be bad feng shui, and it will also make the mother's family unlucky in the new year.

I went back to my parents' house on the second day of the Lunar New Year. Generally on the second day of the Lunar New Year is the day when the daughter who marries out returns to her parents' home, according to the customs of various places, the day of returning to her parents' home will also change, some are the second day of the new year, some are the third day of the new year, I want to go back to my parents' house for two days, don't worry, you can go back to these days.

If you get married, you can't be confined in your mother's house. In some areas of our country, daughters who marry out are not allowed to be confined in their parents' homes, and it is said that they will bring bad luck to their parents' families, but now many people will not pay attention to this statement.

Especially after the post-90s got married, they didn't follow these statements, and now they can go back if they want to go home, it all depends on Li Jiji's mood.

2. It is taboo to marry a daughter and return to her mother's house with her limbs.

1. Don't go back to your parents' house on the first day of the first month.

The first day of the first lunar month is the first day of the new year, which is the first day of the new year. The first day of the Lunar New Year is a festive day for family reunion, and according to traditional customs, many places prohibit married daughters from returning to their parents' homes on the first day of the Lunar New Year. Because in the concept of people in these areas, the daughter who marries out is like water spilled out, and the first day of the new year needs to be reunited with the husband's family, if you go back to your parents' house on the first day of the new year, it will cause the husband's family to not be reunited, and it is naturally inconvenient to go back to your parents' home.

2. Don't go back to your parents' house on the fifteenth day of the first month.

The fifteenth day of the first lunar month is also the first full moon day of the year, and I am afraid that the daughter-in-law will not be reunited when she returns to her parents' home.

Therefore, it is generally the second day of the first month to return to the parents' home, and the sixteenth day of the first month. In order to take care of the reunion and joy of both parties to the marriage. Luyi County has a saying that "please (girl) on the sixteenth day of the first month, send it on the second day of February, and never get sick for a lifetime".

3. What are the taboos for my daughter to celebrate the holidays at her parents' house?

1. You can't eat dinner at your mother's house, and you have to go back to your mother-in-law's house before lighting the lamp at night, otherwise you will eat at your poor mother's house.

2. You can't be confined at your mother's house, or go back to your parents' house before confinement, otherwise you will be unlucky.

3. Gifts for honoring parents should come in pairs, not odd copies.

4. You can't sweep the floor in your mother's house and can't sleep in the same bed with your husband.

5. Not being able to live in my mother's house for a long time will affect my brother's financial luck.

According to traditional Chinese customs, it is generally believed that the daughter who marries out will go back to her mother's house for the thirtieth day of the Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the new year, which will damage the feng shui of the mother's family.

After getting married, the daughter cannot celebrate the New Year in her mother's house", "A divorced woman cannot celebrate the New Year in her mother's house". There are many places where this custom is exquisite.

The implication is to let her daughter not feel homesick, build her new home in her husband's house wholeheartedly, and live a good life.

Especially on the first day of the Lunar New Year, as the first day of the new year, my daughter can't celebrate the New Year at her parents' house.

Chinese New Year is the biggest festival of the year in China, and the Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the new year will invite God, and when you invite God, you must be present with your own family, and if there are outsiders, God will not invite back. And the daughter is married out of a foreign surname, so she can't go back to her parents' house in the thirties and the first day of junior high school, otherwise it will break the feng shui of her mother's family, and her mother's family will be unlucky in the coming year.

In addition to the Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the new year, there is also the fifteenth day of the first month, and the daughter who marries cannot return to her mother's home.

These are just the traditional customs of China in the past, and now there are many young people who no longer pay attention to these, especially those families with one child, they will take turns to celebrate the New Year, so that they can spend more time with their parents.

During the Chinese New Year, you should ask the gods to send the gods (that is, the ancestors of the family), and the daughter who gets married becomes a member of someone else's family.

If there is a married daughter present during the Chinese New Year, the ancestors will not come back, and the family will be unlucky in the new year, which will ruin the family's wealth, especially for the elder brother or younger brother of the mother's family.

In some places, especially if there are girls from families like older brothers or younger brothers, if they get married, they will not let the girls come back for the New Year. There is such a saying, because I think that if a girl marries, she will still have her mother's family for the New Year, and this family will bring misfortune. If it is a family with an older brother or younger brother, it will also bring them some disasters.

Of course, girls can't go back to their parents' homes for the New Year after they get married, and at this time, girls are already members of the man's family. How could it be possible to go to my mother's house for the New Year again, and my mother's family became a relative.

In fact, no, with the change of society, in fact, it is the same to go to **, and now the statement has changed, it is not impossible.

Because marrying a chicken and a dog is a dog, I am now a nominal family with my husband, so naturally I should not go back to my parents' house for the New Year.

Because after a girl gets married, she is a member of the boy's family, just like water spilled, and she can no longer go back to her parents' house for the New Year.

In the past, there was a custom that married daughters were not allowed to go home for the New Year, and the reason for this was that they didn't want their daughters to break through the door of their own home.

This is a custom, and some of the more elaborate places think that the married daughter will go back to her parents' house for the New Year, which will damage the luck of her mother's family. Some places don't pay attention to these, and you can go back to your parents' house for the New Year.

Summary. Hello, or because the daughter who marries out is not strictly speaking, she is not her own family, and if she stays in her mother's house during the New Year, her ancestors can't go home for the New Year. It is also an extremely disrespectful thing for the mother's family, when the deceased relatives and gods need to go home for the New Year, when they walk into the door, if they find that the house is not full of their own people, they dare not return to the house, otherwise it will bring bad luck to their home, and it is also an unlucky thing.

Hello, or because the daughter who marries out is not strictly speaking, she is not her own family, and if she stays in her mother's house during the New Year, her ancestors can't go home for the New Year. It is also an extremely disrespectful thing for the mother's family, when the deceased relatives and gods need to go home for the New Year, when they walk into the door, if they find that the house is not full of their own people, they dare not return to the house, otherwise it will bring bad luck to their home, and it is also an unlucky thing.

According to the past, only the second year of junior high school can go back, but fortunately, now the folk customs have opened up a lot, even if the married girl wants to go home in the Chinese New Year's Eve, it is harmless, even if you want to stay at your mother's house to eat Chinese New Year's Eve dinner.