My fianc is too grumpy, should I regret my marriage?

Updated on society 2024-07-16
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    <> that day, after looking at the furniture, I didn't go home with him, but made an excuse that I chose to leave after working overtime. I think it's so tiring to be with such a man, especially living together in the future, living under his violent temper, what is the beauty of life.

    Now, the idea of breaking up is in my mind, but I can't make up my mind. Teacher, what do you think I should do?

    His bad temper had been cultivated for decades, and the same was true for his mother, and it was unrealistic to expect him to change in a moment. Changing his temper is a long and difficult process, so you need to be patient.

    To figure out the root of your boyfriend's tantrum every time, like this one, because he doesn't remember directions and can't find a furniture store. Maybe he shows his displeasure with you by throwing a tantrum, but in fact he is evading his own responsibility. After all, the purchase of wedding room furniture is a matter of two people, although you have forgotten the road, but as the male owner of the wedding room, it seems too irresponsible to show his dissatisfaction with the way of tantrums.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My boyfriend and I met through a co-worker, I was working in a factory and he was working as a technician in the factory next door to ours. At first, my boyfriend gave me the impression that he was a man with a relatively gentle personality, and it was this good temper that made me increase my good opinion of him.

    Unexpectedly, after contact, I realized that he sometimes has a big temper, but after sending it, he got better. At first, I also told myself that he might just be in a bad mood. Gradually, I realized that it was not what I had imagined.

    Once, he took me to his house for dinner, but his mother's cooking was too much soy sauce, and he got angry with my mother in front of me, which made the atmosphere very embarrassing.

    Although I thought about leaving him, I couldn't bear to think of all the kindness he had done to me before. Half a year ago, we got engaged. Subsequently, in the process of decorating the wedding room, conflicts broke out between us every once in a while.

    He is too controlling and likes to do everything according to his ideas. After compromising too many times, I also had a lot of grievances in my heart. <

    Last weekend, we went furniture shopping together. He drove the wrong way, and even blamed me in turn, saying that I didn't care about him, and I didn't help watch the road when I sat in the passenger seat. I'm really at a loss for what he accuses.

    It was precisely because he didn't like to listen to other people's opinions that I kept silent, and I didn't think that if I didn't speak, I would be complained by him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you can't complement each other, you can regret it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Irascible?! How irritable am I! It's called grumpy?!

    Come back at night to clean you up and let you know what it means to be grumpy!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Persuade each other first, and then observe for a period of time, don't rush to get a license or have a wedding, such a person, in case of domestic violence after marriage, you will be miserable.

    If you can't even listen to the persuasion and insist on going your own way, then you might as well leave, such a man will only get worse and won't stop.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you can't complement each other, you can regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Irascible?! How irritable am I! It's called grumpy?!

    Come back at night to clean you up and let you know what it means to be grumpy!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Look at how irritable it is, if it's irritable to outsiders, it's not irritable to you, Baiyi Fengshun. It's okay, but it's risky, if you're kind to outsiders and irritable to you, then you have to think about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ask him to give you a reason. We women don't want to suffer. Since he said he was going to get out of the marriage, then anything he gave you would be yours.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In this real society, if he doesn't get married, forget it, break up and find it again, don't talk about losses and the like. Frankly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Understand your current mood, after all, your love has been given to him, and you are engaged, I have to say that this man is not responsible for you, but I also have to say that it is also good for you to say it now, because it is better to settle the matter before marriage than to talk about it after marriage.

    Think about why your boyfriend doesn't like you, says that he doesn't feel for you, is it because there are other girls, or that there is something in you that he can't accept, or that he doesn't understand you and makes him misunderstood, only by truly understanding the differences between you can bring your hearts closer.

    It's okay to keep your fiancé, but you have to understand that doing it blindly will only make things worse, so with the right skills and methods, your relationship will turn around.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What's the situation? If he likes someone else, you tell him that I don't want to get married, and then smile at him, and then turn around and leave.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Does he feel for you? Maybe the person he loves is not you. It's hard to live with someone who isn't what you love, do you love him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whether you like it or not, whether you have to leave it if you save it, I'm this kind of person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You just said that you were playing hooligan with the old lady, and you slapped it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find out the reason first, and then prescribe the right medicine, if it really doesn't work, forget it, so as not to regret it in the future, marriage matters, be cautious!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Give up, maybe she has other women. Looks probably prettier than you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Go to the court to sue him, go to his unit and drag him to lead the complaint.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's because he knows that you're going to have to be mine in the end, so it's just not a bother.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can calm down and ask questions face-to-face, so that you can get together and disperse.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First of all, find out why he married you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Alas!!! The best way to do that is to marry me.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no honest man who regrets marriage Of course don't marry him How can there be such a find a good man.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Ruining him as a little girl, if you don't get married, you don't say it early, it's a waste of your youth.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I must be able to find a better one, who doesn't meet a scumbag and a scumbag when he is young, fortunately he is not married. Without him is because you deserve better man love! Believe in yourself and love yourself!

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