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It's okay, it's okay slowly... This is because when I was a child, I was influenced by some stories between boys and girls, so when you see boys, you will think of those stories, there will be a prince charming to open this knot for you, in short, don't see this as a thing and affect yourself, however, you still have to learn to look at the relationship between men and women positively, the interaction between men and women, not all have something to do with feelings, when you face a man, you can treat him as a strange woman, in short, don't emphasize his gender.
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What did you come up with with your own name? Afraid of what? What will happen to him to you? Things that have nothing to do with you, why are you so psychological, will people talk to you? It's normal for you to be shy when I talk to you, so you're too self-conscious.
It's not good for you to be so uncomfortable with social interactions, it's not that you're very open, at least you shouldn't feel nervous, you know, you get more contact with boys, you will be better if you understand the psychology of boys.
Are you still confused in your own adolescence? You're so upset, why don't you just find a boyfriend, I advise you, okay?
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It's incredible, how nice it would be if I had a girl like that around me.
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I'm like that, I just don't know what to do
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In fact, I have also had such a situation, on the one hand, I have suffered"Education"influence, on the other hand, is one's own character.
Try to communicate with them slowly, just like you have with your friends of the same sex, and I hope you can slowly change your personality and communicate with them more.
Although I have also made progress and will not escape, I still feel that it is a pity that it was too late to change, and there is basically no contact with friends of the opposite sex on the phone, because that habit cannot be changed.
So I wish you success.
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It's not your psychological problem.
Shy about boys.
It's not a phobia or something, it means that you're more introverted.
It's just shy, as long as you're bolder, it's fine.
It's just a matter of getting used to everything.
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Androphobia. It's the fear of the opposite sex, it's social phobia.
However, unlike the common social phobia, patients with androphobia are designated to have some avoidance and shyness towards men, but generally patients will also have some sweating, nervousness, and anxiety along with psychological conditions.
First, you need to change your misconceptions about men. In your current perception, it seems that all men are bad and will cause you harm. You can look back on your life, are there any men who have tried to be nice to you and care about you?
I think there is. It's just that you're guilty of domestic violence.
The reason for the inner resistance to men, so that they do not find or refuse.
2. Confirm your perception of men through contact with men. When you let go of the stupidity of misconceptions about men, you reach out to men, and you will find that they will not deliberately hurt you or bully you. In this way, you can gradually develop the confidence to get along with men in your contact with men.
3. Finally, you may need to look at men dialectically. In other words, the world is so big, some men will care about you, and some men will bully you. Just because someone cares about you, you don't think that all men are good and will care about you.
You should not be wary of the filial piety of the men you are doing just because someone is bullying you.
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Summary. 1. Physiology: due to fear or nervousness, blushing, sweating, trembling, curling, dry mouth and other phenomena can occur, in order to avoid the anxiety brought by facing men;
2. Psychological aspect: When getting along and talking with men, you may be shy, or you may force yourself to look at or not look at men due to nervousness, or simply refuse to continue to get along. When men look at it, they may be extremely frightened, followed by anger, anger, anger, suspicion and other emotions, and in severe cases, they may be extremely frightened and insecure for men who pass by accidentally;
3. Behavior: Androphobia patients may actively avoid men because they are afraid of getting along and talking with men, avoid appearing in places where there are men, or avoid men immediately when they see them. In the long run, this may be further exacerbated, with a reluctance to contact people of any gender and a willingness to be alone;
4. Allergic involvement: due to the avoidance psychology associated with androphobia, the patient may have a fear of all people, things, and scenes around him, and he is also abnormally sensitive to other things, which further aggravates the avoidance behavior.
How to test for androphobia.
1. Physiology: due to fear or nervousness, blushing, sweating, trembling, curling, dry mouth and other phenomena can occur, in order to avoid the anxiety brought by facing men; 2. Psychological aspect: When getting along and talking with men, you may be shy, or you may force yourself to look at or not look at men due to nervousness, or simply refuse to continue to get along.
When a man looks at him, he may be extremely frightened, and then he will be angry, angry, angry, suspicious, etc., and in severe cases, he may be extremely afraid and insecure for a man who passes by accidentally; 3. Behavior: Androphobia patients may actively avoid men because they are afraid of getting along and talking with men, avoid appearing in places where there are men, or avoid men immediately when they see them. In the long run, this may be further exacerbated, with a reluctance to contact people of any gender and a willingness to be alone; 4. Allergic homicide implication:
Due to the avoidance psychology associated with androphobia, patients may have a fear of all people, things, and scenes around them, and they are also abnormally sensitive to other things, which further aggravates the avoidance behavior.
These can test if you are androphobic.
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Summary. Hello dear! Androphobia refers to the fear of contact with boys, and at the same time the fear of talking to boys, and the annoyance of seeing boys. At the same time, I don't like to communicate with boys, which is a phobia.
Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while Hello dear! Androphobia refers to the fear of contact with boys, and at the same time the fear of talking to boys. At the same time, he is not willing to communicate with boys, Zheng Hui is a phobia.
So what should I do.
Hello dear! It is recommended that you communicate more with the boys around you, and at the same time open your heart and don't be shy. If you want to hail more acres and communicate with boys, to make your communication with boys more natural and chaotic, I believe you will be able to overcome it!
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Androphobia refers to a fear of masculinity or masculinity.
Manifestations of androphobia:
1. Psychological state.
Androphobia is actually a fear of social phobia, which basically originates from shyness, no matter how old the patient is, its mentality is the same, but everyone has different circumstances and different interpretations. There is shallow psychological shyness and deep psychological shyness; There are things that I am aware of, and there are things that I am not aware of.
2. Physiological manifestations.
Although fear is a psychological process, it will inevitably affect physiological functions, so nervousness, sweating, palpitation, shortness of breath and trembling will follow one after another, and blushing is the easiest phenomenon to manifest. These reactions are actually a manifestation of anxiety. In order to get rid of anxiety, avoidance and avoidance are the only means.
3. Behavior.
The purpose of avoidance is to avoid the onslaught of anxiety, and as long as there is no human occasion, the social terror person will feel safe. As a result, patients often adopt active avoidance strategies, do not contact people, or even close themselves off, but this closure can lead to a comprehensive mental withdrawal in individual cases, which can be harmful for life.
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Don't have too strong a purpose when contacting boys, you should treat boys as your ordinary friends, you can go to more parties, let yourself become confident and collapse, so that you can slowly overcome the bridge.
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Androphobia is a feeling of distrust in men, and even a fear that makes them reluctant to interact with each other. Many people may have had a boyfriend before and have had a lot of unpleasant experiences with their ex-boyfriends. There are also some people who may not have a boyfriend, but they will see their friends' boyfriends around, or even their own parents, and there may be some things that they don't agree with in their own value perception.
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In the process of communicating or communicating with boys, you can develop step by step, don't contact each other at the first time, you can also chat with each other slowly.
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Fear of fear is the fear of masculinity or masculine characteristics.
Androphobia appears in a group of women, which is actually typical of social phobia. The main reason for this is basically the lack of professional consultation in sexual knowledge and sexual psychology, which leads many people to face it in the future, leading to resistance and fear in psychology. Phenomenon.
Extended data: Overcoming the fear of male syndrome: try to communicate and communicate with strangers and overcome your inner social fears through constant conversation.
Conduct professional psychological counseling. Since it is a mental illness, it is naturally necessary for a comprehensive and scientific consultation by a professional psychologist. Make an opposing contact plan to overcome your inner fears by communicating with the opposite sex.
The main symptoms of fear of men are very scared, shy, escaping, unable to control their mental activity, just want to run away from men. The appearance of fear of males can be caused by social, genetic, and psychological factors. It is necessary to go to the hospital for psychological counseling.
If it is more severe, some medications may be taken. Almost everyone has their own background of experience, but in general, there is a relationship with the germination of sexual awareness hours in early life. Any young man and woman who reaches the age of gravity has a pair of psychological concerns and explorations.
However, due to homeschooling, parents tend to adopt closed policies and therefore less active guidance and inspiration, so fewer male girls are associated with knowledge and understanding, often intentionally capturing, absorbing and learning, and observing. Of course, it can't be very comprehensive, very systematic, mostly one-sided, incomprehensible, so I won't be confused. Some people will naturally be relieved of this chaos as they get older, some must be released, and the youthful chaos will last forever.
Years later, they are disturbed in psychosexuality and sexuality. Due to the formation of mental illness.
In fact, there is no fear of male syndrome and fear symptoms in this world, but it is just an investment that fills the body and mind. In the end, it has passed the boss, and then I don't believe in love, fear love and love. Living in the world, always meet some passengers, can't trust love because passengers, it won't be fair, and people who really love you.
Can't get tangled, you have to be brave to love and you can get your life.
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There are many of them, so to speak, because they feel that they don't want to be in contact with them, and they feel that they are not good enough.
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This probably doesn't know how to face men, because there are many boys in real life, they are all **, deceiving women's feelings and youth.
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It's just that they don't dare to contact men, because women have also experienced a lot of setbacks in men, so now many women suffer from androphobia and dare not contact men.
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This is just a mental illness, simply put, it is a psychological phobia, from low to high down, step by step, the situation will improve, in short, the more afraid of something, the more you do something.
Explain that you just haven't met a boy you really like, and then you have to read more psychological books to know how different boys and girls are, and then the psychological expectations of boys must change, boys may be like that, and you have to accept that there is nothing you can't stand it.