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You were right to decide not to live!! There is no fairy tale in reality, you have only known each other for less than a year, and he brought these up, and it is inevitable that there is a suspicion of raw rice cooked and matured, so never live together, and then you will have a longer relationship, and you can only hand over yourself after you are sure of everything.
You have to protect yourself for your family, maybe it's a bystander, from these words of your boyfriend, at least I don't approve of you sacrificing your parents and family for him, because it's not worth it. In fact, I have heard what your boyfriend said from others, and it is almost exactly the same as your situation, but unfortunately the ending is never a fairy tale, a man with a sense of responsibility and responsibility will never say such irresponsible words, it can be seen that your boyfriend is not the kind of person who is very self-motivated, right?
This is not a love of money, nor is it a fear of hardship, as a woman, we have to suffer more than others in this regard, if you don't protect yourself, who else can protect you? ?
So definitely don't agree, no matter what, protect yourself.
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Tell him to work harder... Don't.
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Explain to him, what do you think, communicate well, and talk to your parents by the way!
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It has nothing to do with whether you love money or not.,,I'm going to live in the future.,,There's no money to live with.。。 It's good to be realistic.,,We're all people living in reality.,So we all have to face reality.,,Reality is cruel.。。 No money is the Ministry of Life.。。
Both of them drank the northwest wind, and what kind of love did they talk about... Love is built on the stability of life. People who even have problems with their lives are not qualified to talk about love.
I don't have the energy to talk about love... Spiritual sufficiency can only be pursued under the condition of sufficient material conditions.
You have to see if he has developed, and if he has development, he will be together. If there is no development, it should be divided. It's a bit cheesy, but we all have to face reality, don't we???
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He doesn't love you, it's too selfish, but if you love deeply, see for yourself!
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Let's break up. It's not worth it for that kind of person.
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<> if you want to get married, don't live in his house, and I don't even recommend that you live together before you get married. In fact, the biggest beneficiary of cohabitation is the man, and the biggest victim is the woman.
Some men will quickly abandon their long-term girlfriend in marriage and marry a woman who has not been married for a long time. A man said, who would spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to marry a woman who is tired of playing, let alone that she has feelings for me and should not talk about money.
And to marry a new woman, without feelings, without money, how can she marry willingly? This example may seem a bit absolute, but in fact a lot of men have done it.
If your parents dissuade you from living in their home, they don't actually want you to be looked down upon by your boyfriend's family. In China, unmarried women who live in the man's house before marriage are looked down upon by relatives and friends.
A woman's reputation is still very important, even if you don't care about it, what about men? They will think that even if there is no key money and no RV in the future, you will get married and you will all live together!
They will think that a woman longs to be with his son, so they look down on you from the bottom of their hearts, and that's a fact. The mother-in-law herself wears mostly colored glasses for her future daughter-in-law, and you have already left a tongue before you enter the door.
Mom is the person who loves you the most in the world, and what they say must be carefully considered, and many experiences have proven it. For the sake of your future happiness, don't go your own way.
Girls, love and marriage are important, but most sentimental women in this world have a bad life. Around me, many women who attach great importance to affection and justice are being betrayed and forced to leave.
I hope that a lover will eventually become a family member and be happy. I also hope that my humble opinion can help those in need!
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