When love becomes a memory, how to get it back

Don't get it back, it's useless. I'm a girl, I've been through this kind of trauma, I broke up with him last month, and now I can't forget it. Since you feel that it is wrong, you should go with the flow and not try to redeem it; Now that it's happened, you should try to give up.

Just like me, although I see him every day, I can't help but hate him when I think of the pain he has brought me.

I believe that I will be able to forget her.

I don't think this situation is caused by his work, if he encounters something unpleasant at work, and if he still loves you, he will definitely talk to you, and he is eager to be comforted and cheered by you.

Time will heal the wounds in your heart, all you can do now is to be grateful to him, grateful for his loyalty to you, there is nothing greater in this world, he doesn't love you now, he chooses to leave you, this is the best loyalty he gives you, if he doesn't love you, and cheats on you, continues to associate with you, and even gets married and has children, that's the biggest tragedy.

May you get out of love as soon as possible and regain your original self-confidence.

You should bring an umbrella when you know it's going to rain, and don't start when you know it won't work. This hurts each other's hearts, and when love turns into memories, you should learn to let go and be strong ......

I also want to ask this question, sad, let it be, if you can't let it go, you have to let it go, but don't be discouraged and don't get your hopes up, because the earth is round because God wants to reconnect those who have lost or lost. --

This problem is more complicated, and you can only solve it by yourself, because if you are a person, that is, what happened between the two of you, only you know, so outsiders don't know, and this situation, I may only be able to deal with it yourself.

A lot of people often quarrel, break up often, cheat often, break up often, and then get back together, but this union doesn't solve anything. Because there will be quarrels and breakups, cheats and breakups, and the last few times. Only understand compounding and don't understand symbiosis, in the end it is not a basket of water.

So, today I want to share with you how to restructure without repeating the same mistakes. You have to understand that the breakup is because of the problems between the two of you, and that breaking up and reuniting and reuniting and honoring will not solve the problem. Because you're together because of your relationship, but the problems that happened before will keep exacerbating and eroding your relationship.

Find out why and how you broke up; There are many reasons for a breakup, such as personality conflicts, cheating, long-distance relationships, or family feuds.

A broken mirror cannot be assembled, but it refers to a mirror. You feel that the people who want to go back to the past are regaining their senses, not this person; I just want to leave that feeling in the past and not think about how to deal with love from the other person's point of view. People often ask:

After that, it's a pity that love didn't understand, and I didn't understand it before, until I experienced the pain of "almost impossible".

One reason to indulge in the past is that you only need to pay a small cost to get your own satisfaction. You can go back in time. In the recovery process, people mistakenly think that the recombination process is to fix past mistakes, but the real meaning of restoring a relationship is not to go back to the previous relationship pattern, but to start a new relationship all over again.

Love is harder and more precious. So, after a breakup, can we go back in time? Love with cracks can be happy, you have to go back in time, so you have to save it.

His recovery has become a way for you to maintain the good feelings of your previous relationship, rather than for you to restore perfect sincere love before the breakup, but it's up to you. Find out if you really love each other, and then see if the reason for the breakup is subjective or objective, impulsive or otherwise. Also, it also depends on the other side of you after your breakup.

Can the relationship go back to the way it used to be? Many say that broken mirrors cannot be reunited.

When it comes to recovering relationships, many people always ask me the same question: "Can he and I go back to the way we were?" ”The answer, of course, is no.

I know what these people are really trying to say in their hearts! They just want to get back to the sweet and happy feeling they had when they were in love with the person they wanted to get back. In their hearts, they want to keep the feeling and experience that their love once gave them.

It's not that I don't have empathy, it isYou really can't turn back time. The feeling I experienced before is gone with the passage of time, and even if I do the same thing in the same place with the same person, it must be different! It may not be possible to recreate the feelings of yesterday.

Therefore, redemption is really not going back to the past.

If the redemption of a person is only to return to the old days, then the nextBreaking up again has become an inevitable thing. If redemption is just going to go through the road of being together and breaking up again, then why should you go to redemption? In this way, it becomes meaningless to redeem it, just to go through the process of breaking up over and over again.

If it is not to return to the past, then what is the purpose of redeeming him? Yes, definitelyIn order for the two to love each other better in the following daysYikes! It's a pity that many of us who want to save our feelings don't understand this fundamental starting point.

Redemption is for the two people to love each other well in the future and live a happier and sweeter life.

Therefore, when you decide to redeem someone, then you must understand in your heart that getting back together with him is to have a better life in the future and to have a better love with him. If you break up with him before he can complete the steps to establish a relationship, then the relationship must be clearly established after getting back together; If you have been in a relationship with him for many years and are facing a breakup, then you should be ready to enter marriage and start the next important stage of your life after getting back together; If you marry him and don't have children, and your marriage breaks down before you can have a complete home, then after you save this marriage, you must try to form a strong and complete family.

If you and he have been together for many years, but in the end they can't go down and break up, then after you get him back, you should talk about the love of your youth again vigorously and relive the green years of your youth. In short,After the success of the recovery, we must not go back to the past, but must look forward to the future. Only the future is the hope of life, and only the future can be tightly held in your hands.

If we succeed in retrieving our partner and just keep it as it was, then your relationship will not improve. We all know thatIf people stay in the same comfort zone for a long time, they will easily breed a greasy mentality. If he is tired or you are tired of it, then parting ways is still a predestined thing.

So, redemption is really not a return to the past.

There is a problem with the emotional source stool, and redemption is only the ultimate goal, and more importantly, how to make him fall in love with you again.

Redeeming the wrong method will only be counterproductive.