A lot of people are bullying me alone, what should I do?

What should I do if someone bullies you? So what kind of skin do you want to share? If it does hurt your body and mind, it hurts your life safety.

You can go to the police, or you can go and ask for help. If there is a conflict because of this matter, I suggest you resolve the matter. Because a person should not exist.

It will be for no reason, only for one person. After all, this society will not have so much nonsense.

If there are many people bullying you, is it school bullying or is it not going well at work? If you are good at work, you can change the environment. If you really can't stand the pressure on campus and the mediation fails, you can transfer schools.

There should be many similar schools, as long as you can pass the grades, you should transfer to another school, and it is not a difficult task.

If there is a problem that you can't solve on your own, you can seek some help from teachers, parents or the police. If you really feel that your physical and mental damage cannot be erased, then you should not care about this face. You can tell the public that you are the one who was hurt.

I don't think anyone in today's society would hurt you for no reason. Maybe there is a puff that is not guilty and guilty, but you also have to have that guilt. The conflict of interest in this is not so obvious.

Contradictions are not so many cases. In general, he has a reason.

A lot of people bully you alone, first of all, you have to figure out the reason, whether it is their fault, or your own fault, if you are wrong, you should correct it, I believe they will change their opinion of you, if they deliberately make it difficult to hurt you, you can choose to fight back, if necessary, you can call the police to deal with it.

Take the initiative to communicate with the other party to see if there is any misunderstanding, so that the other party keeps looking at you unpleasantly. Even if the other party makes things difficult for you, with your courage to take the initiative to talk, the other party will think about it before bullying you in the future.

But after getting along for a while, the relationship between others and you began to change, and many people began to bully you, and you didn't think about why? I'm telling you, everything is of your own making.

Here are two concepts to help you understand.

The first one is called the cost of hazing. Because others have been with you for a long time, they know you too well and see you thoroughly, so they know that even if they bully you, you don't dare to resist, and they can't make any losses to them, simply put, the cost of your bullying is very low, almost nothing! That's why I dare to act recklessly against you!

It's like putting something there, you break it, you don't have to bear anything, then you will hit it with impunity, but if you damage it, you have to bear a huge repair cost and compensate for the loss, then you will only be cautious and dare not act rashly.

The second is called communicative boundaries. In addition to weighing the cost of bullying you, they will also look at what the boundaries of communication with you are, and then take action.

The reason why many people are always bullied is because the boundaries of communication are very blurred, and others don't know where your bottom line is, and even think that you have no bottom line, so they recklessly enter your private territory and mess around.

Therefore, if you want to change the situation of being slaughtered by others, you have to start from these three dimensions and make them change.

First, hide your hole cards, don't be so easy for people to see!

How is the mode of getting along with people formed, it is formed through continuous understanding and temptation of each other, no one will bully you as soon as they come up, because others will not bully you when they don't know you, and he is also afraid of stabbing the hornet's nest, which will not end well, which is also the cost of bullying we are talking about, he did not figure it out.

So why did you start bullying you and disrespecting you one day? Because they see your hole cards, you become transparent in their eyes.

Therefore, if someone dares to say disrespectful words in front of you and can behave in a way that makes you uncomfortable, it must not have known you on the first day, or because you have been in contact with each other together, and gradually through mutual games and temptations, in other words, you have cultivated the other party into a person who dares to be unscrupulous to you.

In the process of dating, you constantly choose to compromise, others test your bottom line step by step, but you dare not defend or do not have your own principles, and finally the other party begins to intensify, straight to your bottom line, until you eat through, and finally formed a weak relationship between you, and gradually solidified.

Once this relationship is formed, it will be difficult to turn the tables in the future, so you have to remember that no matter who you associate with, never show your hole cards, let alone trust anyone without reservation. Because only interests are eternal, once others think you are useless, turning your face is definitely faster than turning a book.

Second, don't trust the people around you too much and don't have too high moral expectations.

I often say that the enemy is not terrible, why, because you have already defined him as an enemy, so you are fully prepared for him.

The person who can really hurt you deeply must be the person around you.

If a lot of people bully you, you just need to find one of them and beat him up. In this case, no one else will dare to get started. So just don't be afraid.

I think that when you encounter this situation, you should tell your elders, such as teachers or parents, because these elders are people who have the ability to deal with this kind of thing, and you must not hide it in your heart, or you can also tell your friends, and then seek some ways to avoid this happening, it should be safer.

If many people are bullying you alone, you must seek help from your relatives and friends in this situation in time, and I believe that through the help of others, you will definitely become stronger, and you will no longer be bullied.

In this case, either run away or stare at one person to attack and die, and your behavior must be terrifying to others.

The person who is bullied must be a person who makes people feel very timid, and makes people feel very useless, so if you are bullied, just put up with it, and you will be stronger in the future, and you can't make yourself cowardly, if you are really bullied, you have to find a way to do it yourself, for example, don't be with those people, and try to avoid it if you can

There are many people bullying you alone, and the best way is to call the police.

I feel that we should learn to be strong, learn to stand up and say no to others, here I don't advocate going here, I don't advocate going to violence, and I don't advocate violating our own ideas. Just be your true self and think that everyone will have a strong and self-reliant side.

You can find friends to talk and talk about. Or find someone who is capable to help you out. At the same time, you also have to be strong and don't always be bullied and afraid to come out.

I think if there are a lot of people bullying you, you can fight back from time to time, because everyone has personality rights, and if a lot of people bully you, you can fight back or seek help from others.

A lot of people bully you, if you cause physical harm, you should call the police and let the police punish them, and another point is that you should learn to be self-reliant and learn how to counteract.

When such a thing occurs, the first thing to consider is whether it is your own reason. Is there something wrong with you? If you don't have a problem, then the problem is all on them, and there are many incidents of social bullying in schools now, and it is recommended that you report to the police to deal with it.

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You first have to reflect on yourself, why others are bullying you, change yourself first, and then find other people's reasons!

You can hit one target, beat him hard, and the rest will not dare.

Stay away from them, have less contact with them, and can't afford to hide.

Because those people are cheap, they like to bully kind people who have no money.

Who bullied you?

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I'm a student, but I'm bullied by a few girls, that is, every time I go shopping, many of them scold me at every turn, and I don't want to scold back.

Talk to teachers and parents.

is the most effective to believe in me.

But I wanted to solve it myself, and I didn't want to rely on them.

You just don't pay attention to them, and after a long time, they won't be bored with themselves.

But I just can't help but get angry and impulsive.

Controlling one's emotions is also a sign that a person has grown up.

But ignore them, the easier it will be for them to bully me.

After a long time, it won't be.

I know. Like I said, if it doesn't work, I suggest you talk to your parents and teachers.