How to learn reality as a third party

I feel that you are more helpless and lonely, and you want to find someone who can give you a sense of security and make you worry. Although you have a strong sense of morality, the feeling that this person can give you is very good, and the love you get from him should also partially satisfy your need for love. Perhaps, you can try to find some of your own interests and hobbies, expand your circle of friends, try to meet other more suitable people, and try to communicate and socialize.

But if you've repeatedly known married men, you may want to find out why. This is not a moral reason, it may be due to some psychological trauma from your childhood. So pay attention to your own feelings, build up strength, and wait for change.

Let's just say that if he loves you and abandons his previous family.

That means that he will abandon you again because of others I don't believe that he didn't have an oath to his previous wife Think about it yourself.

If he loves you and doesn't want to abandon his previous family, then what will happen when you are old or something, can he take care of you for the rest of your life, right?

And in today's society, I am still very disgusted with the mistress, very resistant, if you know, maybe you can do anything for love, but what about your family and friends?

Think about it!

It's right to love someone, sister and aunt, forget who you are, imagine that you have a family that is not rich but very happy, and you have a husband who is very good to you, or a husband who is very good in your eyes, but you suddenly find out that your husband has betrayed you, how will you feel?

Imagine: You are a child with a family that is not rich, but very happy, there are parents at home, and your parents are very good to you, and suddenly your father betrayed, your mother was sad, classmates and friends said that your father betrayed your mother, and you didn't have time to accept it, how would you feel if your father found you a stepmother? .

If my husband cheats on me, I will break down, even more if there are children.

I am also a 13-year-old child, if something like this happens to my family, I will not be able to accept it, I will not be safe, I feel abandoned, because home is very important to us, for the innocent us, it is all we have, Dad's love is like a mountain, let us have a sense of security, love from my mother makes us warm, childhood is a good time for us, there are parents and carefree.

Auntie, I think you also had a childhood, I think you must have been very happy at that time, Auntie, if you love someone and have children, you are not innocent of us, for the sake of childhood, leave! This is the best choice, if you have to stay, if you can give, innocent and simple we belong to our mother's love, you will also get the respect of others, you do the same, then your love is the same is noble, I support you, love is noble depends on how you love.

Will he marry you? A man who doesn't marry you and just wants to have you doesn't really love you, end up with him and find someone who loves you!

Isn't it realistic enough to let go of the snail dwelling?