What kind of trouble will the inverted door bring to married life? What do you think?

From ancient times to the present, there are many traditional customs in our country. For example, after marriage, children take their father's surname, and women live with their husbands. The son got married and had children just to pass on the lineage.

If the couple marries and lives with his wife, it is called an inverted door. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, some incorrect traditional customs have been gradually abandoned, but in modern society, some families are still influenced by traditional customs. In modern society, everyone is equal.

After getting married, the newlyweds can form an independent family, which is definitely not an accessory to the parents' family. They can live with their husbands or their wives, and there is no such thing as inverted doors.

In modern society, young people can choose their own way of living after getting married.

Traditionally, the concept of marriage is practiced, and if a couple forms a family and lives with their wives, it is called an inverted door, and a man is called a son-in-law. In modern society, young people have to form a new family after marriage, and if they can afford it, they will buy a house of their own and will not live with either parent. If they have limited financial means, they can choose to live with their husband's family or with their wife's family.

Living with the other parent's parents is bound to be a bit confusing.

Whether to live with the wife or with the husband is a personal choice for the newlyweds. Everyone has some conflicts when they live with their parents, let alone with their wives or husbands' parents. However, because the other party is the lover's parents, even if there is a conflict between one party and the other parent, he or she will generally choose to compromise, which will naturally bring trouble to life, which requires the wife or husband to mediate in the middle.

There must be some contradictions when young people choose to live with each other's parents after marriage, but as long as they are mentally and financially independent, then they are just some minor contradictions. Young people should be more tolerant of their elders in the trivial matters of life, but they should stick to their own personal principles for irreconcilable conflicts.

The inverted door will bring a lot of trouble to the life after marriage, because it is very inconvenient to live with the parents-in-law, and the private space of the two will be lost, which is very troublesome.

There will be contradictions after getting married upside down, and the three views of the two people are also inconsistent. If you insert the door upside down, it will make the man very low in self-esteem, and the man's own psychological pressure is also relatively large, and the two people will not be happy when they live together, and there will often be contradictions, and the man thinks more and more. The mind is more sensitive.

They will have a great impact on the life after marriage, after all, you are under the roof of someone else's woman, you will feel that your head will always be lower than him, no matter how much effort and dedication you make, you will feel that you are a person under the giant, so no matter how good the relationship is, don't go upside down.

It will not be respected, this is also a kind of thinking of people, they feel that this is a kind of irresponsible performance, and they also feel that it is particularly worthless, I think it is not necessary, the most important thing is the happiness between two people.

In this way, the boy's status will be lower and lower, and then he will not have the initiative or voice in family life, and this kind of relationship will not last for a long time.

It may lead to problems in life, life will be very depressing, and it will be very unfree, feeling not respected, and there is no way to choose the life you like.

Is it generally possible to be happy to get married in an upside-down door? Most people will not be happy, but they are not absolute, and there are happy ones.