What do you think about the phenomenon of inverted doors in Chinese society, and what impact does th

Whether it's an ordinary marriage or an upside-down door.

In fact, when the family is an economic unit, the two families negotiate through the marriage model to determine the rights and obligations of both parties. In ancient times. If the man has more money, he will have the right to name his children, the personal control of his wife, the control of the family property, and the power of the clan.

If the woman has a lot of money, then the man will "plug the door upside down" and become a "noble coolie" in the woman's family. But the son uses it and works hard, and the child does not follow his surname. Now in modern society, this kind of "bargaining" still exists.

Although it is impossible not to have 100% of the time, I just hope that since the times have progressed, there should be more respect for individual freedom. For example, it is best to say in advance who owns the naming rights of the child. Gradually move away from feudal dross.

It is wrong for the man to force the woman to hand over the child's naming rights; At the same time, it is not right for the woman to force the man to hand over the child's naming rights. Before getting married, decide how many to have and whose surname you have.

The man slammed the door upside down, which used to be very common in rural areas. The main reason is that the idea of preference for sons over women in rural areas is more serious, and they all want to have boys, and then there are several boys in the family, and when they reach the marriageable age, it is difficult to give several sons a target if the family conditions are average. So many of them plugged into the woman's house upside down and became sons-in-law.

But it's man-made, and it's not a shame to plug the door upside down. Children will not pursue these problems, as long as they are not lazy to eat, they can live a good life with their own efforts, which also sets a good example for children.

I think the impact of the Chinese inverted door phenomenon on children is mainly in the aspect of over-spoiling, because the woman's parents regard their son-in-law as their son, so they will love their children more, and may let the children develop bad habits such as eating and lazy, and their personalities are more introverted.

The girl's parents will let the girl stay at home in order to support her old age. But the conditions of the girl will be sacrificed, and we have several, except for those who talk about true love voluntarily, and the conditions of men are usually poor or average, so the offspring born with this kind of man, that is, the child, will bear a lot of pressure, and the girl also needs to have a strong heart. People in the life circle, relatives may still be acceptable, but classmates and friends may not.

Also, this kind of marriage is usually an arranged marriage with no emotional basis. In any case, this kind of marriage is not actually worth advocating and should not be mainstream.

I really don't understand how this kind of thing can be a reason to be complacent. What is marriage and what is inverted door? A man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.

When you get married and start a family, you should form a family of your own. It's not that I married you and entered your house, or that you joined me and entered my house, but that we became an independent family. If the temporary space conditions do not allow it, then it should be the same whether the woman goes to the man's house or the man goes to the woman's house.

Think that a woman who goes to a man's house should be divided, and that it is a shame to be in reverse? This kind of thing can also be brought to dignity, and it's interesting enough. There are always some people who add trouble to their lives and have a lot of fun.

If the wife herself is gentle and considerate, and the husband can be humble and respectful of the woman's family members, harmony can be achieved. On the other hand, the husband is talented, and with the help of the advantages of the woman's family, the career starts quickly, and the focus of the whole family naturally shifts to the husband's side. I think as long as the relationship between husband and wife is good, it should have no impact on the children.

His father, a former college classmate, has the surnames of his parents in his name, and he actually has no rights to plug in the door, and he is very aggrieved and can't hold his head up for the rest of his life. Except for the lack of right to speak, everything else is good. But if the relationship between husband and wife is good, it should not have much impact on the children.

I just want to plug the door upside down, and there are a lot of families I've seen who are happy with the door, and I've also seen people who are angry and divorced. I would say that it still depends on the personality and temper of the two people. If two people can't get along, they will get divorced.

It's just that the husband and wife are affectionate, the parents are reasonable, and the problems you said are not problems, and I don't think it will have any impact on the children.