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1. Because of love.
In the eyes of many, men"into the redundancy"It is very faceless, if the man wants to"into the redundancy", often because of the money, so he"into the redundancy"In the future, you can have less struggle, or less struggle for decades.
Maybe some men are willing"into the redundancy"It's because of the money, but most men want to"into the redundancy", all because of love. If the man loves his girlfriend very much, but his girlfriend's parents ask him to get rich, he will choose to get rich in order to be with her.
In his opinion, there is no difference between him and her marrying in the past, as long as they can be together and stay together for a lifetime. This reason is very real and many people do not anticipate.
2. Because of lack of love.
It is often said that a happy childhood will make him happy all his life, and an unhappy childhood will make him make up for it with his whole life. Nowadays, many men have an unhappy childhood, and the unhappy childhood is that they do not have a parent who loves them, and their parents are very partial, which also causes a lack of love in their hearts.
Because of their lack of love in their hearts and their estranged relationship with their parents when they grow up, such men have a poor relationship with their families. If the woman's parents are good to him, they will be in trouble because of the lack of love, because in the woman's parents, they get love. Because of the lack of love, such a reason is also very realistic.
Summary. The reason why men are willing to get involved is very realistic and real. Perhaps in the eyes of many people, a man's marriage is not happy, and the man will lose his dignity in this marriage. "into the redundancy"The marriage can also be very happy, and everyone should not cope"into the redundancy"Biased.
Most of the woman's parents will be good to their son-in-law for the sake of their daughter, and they will not embarrass their son-in-law like a mother-in-law does for her daughter-in-law. A man who is rich will have a happier marriage and fewer conflicts.
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Of course, the men who enter the family are not necessarily men who have no money, and some are in love by themselves, and then the girlfriend's family happens to be an only daughter, and there is no way to go to the woman's house for love.
Men who are rich have some inferiority complex, after all, it is a man who goes to live in the woman's house, and he feels as if he is lower than others.
In fact, it doesn't matter, whether it is in the house or marrying back, then she is the woman she likes, if the other party you don't like or love her, I believe that the man will not go to the woman's house.
Isn't that what life is all about? It's all life in **, as long as you can be with a woman who agrees with you, don't worry too much about the rest, it's better than being single for a lifetime!
Cuong went to his wife's house, he has two brothers, Cuong is the eldest son, and the eldest son should not be able to give people a favor, but Cuong's girlfriend is an only daughter, and the conditions do not allow it, Cuong can only sacrifice himself and his lover to love together.
When a person really loves someone, he will agree to any conditions, as long as he can be with the other person, what if he pays some price?
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This year, eating soft rice is also a skill, okay, find a rich woman and work hard for 10 years.
If you have this idea, it means that you can't eat this soft rice. It's not dignified when you just get in, that's for sure, dignity is worth a few fart dollars, and when you use this resource to start your own business, at most one person at home, or above ten thousand people when you go out.
Now in this society, no matter how much you can endure hardships at the age of 35, you are being persuaded to quit, and having such a white Fumei to help you in the limited struggle period is a blessing that you have cultivated in your previous life.
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To a certain extent, the vast majority of men who are rich are very undignified, because if they do not perform well, or if they are not promising, then as a woman, or the other party's parents, they will not look at you seriously, and even deliberately bully you and try to force you to leave.
So this is also a very serious practical problem, and it is basically an unspoken rule, so it is not easy for a man to stay in, and he must be strong enough to be able to really gain a foothold!
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I don't think this kind of person is without dignity, it's just that they may be willing to go to their house for the woman they love, which is the best man.
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A man who is rich is not without dignity. Human dignity is still there, but the form of life has changed. It doesn't matter. Dignity is a form that arises in one's own personality. As long as you maintain your personality, then your dignity will always be there.
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You can't say that. Whether it's an upside-down person or a normal wife. Both people must reach a certain level of affection in order to become a family.
So the inverted door means that you lack Nanjing on vacation. After his son-in-law got married, he moved to Nanjing and lived on vacation. Economically, men have a lot less detours.
In terms of dignity, it is absolutely not possible to talk about it. No, it shouldn't be justified. People who say things like this can only come up with irresponsible or jealous people.
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Actually, that's not what you say. It is also good to have a man who is rich. You haven't read a book called Son-in-law, before, others looked down on him, and then his dignity was earned back by him little by little, so it's not that the man who is rich has no dignity, but that the dignity is earned back by yourself, not to say so.
But then again, the average poor person gets rich. As long as you have the confidence to go, just have the confidence to make yourself rich, a bunch of people will slap you, not to mention dignity.
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In fact, men who are rich are not without dignity, and some of them do want to let boys enter because of family conditions, but this does not affect his identity and status.
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For those men who are rich, they are not without dignity, but they like a girl more, so it is very normal to give up a little face in his heart.
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A man who is rich is actually very dignified, and if the other party does not respect him, then such a marriage will not last long.
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It's not all of it. If you are capable, if you can make money. You see if you have dignity, mainly depends on the economic conditions! Anyway, in general, you will definitely be looked down upon by others.
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Anyway, I think most men think it's a very undignified thing to be rich, and they always want to say that they want to return their surnames.
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No. Being in trouble for various reasons does not mean that there is no dignity. Only when husband and wife respect each other and understand each other equally, can they go better.
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Personally, I think so, like a wealthy man, many people will feel that others are watching her jokes and feel that they are very undignified, so it is better for men not to be rich.
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How can the people who move in have no dignity? Everyone's things are different, and the dignity of the person is also very good, and sometimes he receives the attention and approval of the other party's family, so you have to think about it.
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A wealthy man will not be particularly undignified, mainly depending on how you and your wife's family get along.
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Old times and old ideas:
The entry is an inverted door. And a man's dignity must be completely swept away and worthless. for even the children's surnames shall be taken by their mothers' surnames.
Now the concept of thinking is loosened:
The country is liberated, and the people are liberated; At the same time, the mind is also liberating! From the equality of men and women to the strengthening of feminism. Now it is not too uncommon to enter the door and insert the door, and the problem of gradual dignity is not too serious.
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A man who is rich will be a little undignified in the eyes of outsiders, but at least a rich home is enough for you, after all, having a home is better than nothing.
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How can a man who is rich in wealth not have dignity? Entering someone else's house, you may feel awkward, but you know that there are many people now, they are very fond of this, this choice because the woman's family conditions are very good, and his family status here is also very high, all of a sudden from an ordinary peasant to a moderately rich man, are you willing?
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It's not that he is undignified, it's that he is willing to pay for love, so girls in such a family should also cherish and respect each other.
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It is not necessarily that the man who is rich does not necessarily have no dignity, so the main reason for living a better life is to do so.
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I think that a man who is rich is very undignified, because I think that a manly man should still have his own career, instead of eating soft rice.
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How can a man who is rich in wealth not have dignity? He is still very popular with people, and what he needs is to work harder and be more active, no matter what he is doing, he will wash others.
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From ancient times to the present, there is a door-to-door son-in-law, and not every door-to-door son-in-law is angry, it depends on how the son-in-law and everyone get along, the door-to-door son-in-law is generally very diligent and eye-catching, and will please the father-in-law and mother-in-law, but it must be real, if it is lazy, no one will like it.
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You will be disrespected by others, and you will be easily bullied, so that you have no power to fight back!
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In the old days, it was really a shame for boys. Generally speaking, only when you have no ability, no temper, and poor family economic conditions will there be a marriage.
However, in today's era, people's eyes have long changed. Affected by family planning, our country has a large number of only children. Many people will choose to marry an only woman if they have several brothers in the family and are married to an only child.
This kind of involvement has nothing to do with personal ability, family environment and other factors, but simply for a better life together. In ordinary life, it is also necessary to take off the colored glasses for marriage. Choosing different forms of marriage according to personal circumstances is the best marriage.
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doesn't care about the world's eyes, it's good for two people to be together, no matter where they live, measure their wives, and think about their wives everywhere.
The Chinese idea of inheriting the family is the main reason for entering the family, which is commonly known as recruiting sons-in-law, which is when the man goes to the woman's house and the child follows the mother's surname. Originally, it was a matrilineal family marriage system, which was developed from ancient marriage customs such as wife's residence and service marriage.
The traditional thinking of the old society is that "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great". Therefore, it is emphasized that there must be men to pass on the lineage and inherit the lineage. If a family has only a girl and no male heir, there is no danger of having no successor.
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There are three brothers in my neighborhood, and my parents have built houses for the eldest son and son, only the younger one has no money to build, so they give it to the one in the next town, and they have been dark and thin for the past year, and they are treated as if they were subordinates.
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It's true love, but it's also involuntary.
It's too much, don't you look at it, you're 30 years old, and you're still old at home? It's good to make money, luck will come.
You've realized that you're spending a lot of money, and that's a good start to growth. It may be that you have not learned how to manage your emotions and manage your money, which is a stage that many young people need to go through. You can change it, try to take some time every day to relax, and then, record a mood diary, and daily expenses, after a month or two, you can review and summarize it yourself, I believe you can find a good way.
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