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When I was a child, parents always wanted to give the best food to their children, but neglected to let them learn to share. Later, the children felt that all the good food should be theirs. If parents let them share delicious food with friends or family.
They will be very upset, or they will refuse outright, and they will say "why give it to someone else". This type of child will always put their own "goods" first, and feel that sharing food is like missing a piece of meat. Maybe parents don't think there is anything when they are young, but when they grow up, they find that their children can't find their parents at all, thinking that parents should provide everything for themselves, but they don't need it.
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1.Eating alone When I was a child, parents always wanted to give their children the best food, but neglected to let them learn to share. Later, the children felt that all the good food should be theirs.
If parents let them share delicious food with friends or family. They will be very upset, or they will refuse outright, and they will say "why give it to someone else". 2.
Laziness Some parents feel that they can do what they can do, and there is no need for their children to learn to do housework Over time, they will develop a lazy character.
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Very rebellious, unwilling to take care of others, do not understand parents, often have conflicts with parents, unwilling to understand other people's is not easy, parents must pay attention to education when encountering this situation.
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Children who can only talk about good and obedient, and have no practical actions will not be filial.
Most people prefer to listen to good and obedient words, although they know that they can't be trusted, but they will still be happy in their hearts. Parents are the same, they are even more overwhelmed by the good and obedient words that come out of their children's mouths, and they will inevitably have a preference for this child. However, some children seem to be very sensible and often say thoughtful words to express their gratitude to their parents, but they are not even willing to help their parents with household chores.
He was the first to run away if something happened. Such children can only play lip service, but they are actually very selfish in their hearts, and it is difficult for them to take responsibility for their parents.
Children who clamored to buy what they wanted, and who are inconsiderate of their parents, will not be filial.
Nowadays, some children also have vanity, especially after coming into contact with more people in different environments, they will give birth to a sense of comparison. He also has something that other children have to have, and he doesn't consider the pressure on his parents at all, and he cries and makes a fuss if he doesn't buy it. Such a child didn't care about their parents' hard work at the beginning, and he didn't feel sorry for them at all, all he thought about was his face in front of his classmates and friends.
It's really chilling. If their child has such behavior, parents should not indulge him, not only let him understand that it is not easy for him, but also let him understand that nothing can be easily obtained, and he must pay his own efforts. Doing so will not only make the child more filial, but also help him grow.
A child's behavior is inseparable from the education of his parents.
In addition to the influence of innate personality, children's behavior is actually largely related to the education of parents. If you want your child to be filial to herself, parents can't relax their education. First of all, establish a correct moral outlook and values for him, and point him out a general direction, with which the child is not easy to take detours.
Secondly, we should start from the small things in daily life, and educate him in both behavior and thought. For example, respect your parents, be filial, and let your children learn from you. Moreover, don't blindly give, let the child properly understand his own difficulties, and plant the seeds of filial piety in his heart.
Over time, the child will also become very filial.
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Nowadays, it is not common for parents to hit their children. Often in some public places, it is common to see children who are unreasonable and unreasonable to their grandparents, and even rude, and some fight with their parents. A child's filial piety to his parents is a cultivation that must be cultivated in the depths of his heart from an early age.
If you are young, you will have the bad habit of beating and scolding your parents, and you will not be a filial child when you grow up.
Some children are very selfish, they eat everything they like at once, and it is difficult for parents to get something out of your hands. If a child wants to buy toys and food, and his parents do not meet him, he will be arrogant and unreasonable, and he will not be able to listen to any big reason. Some children, after they are a little older, do not take into account the economic strength of their parents, and only pay attention to their own material life, such as some college students, who only care about their own play, and do not care about their parents' need for money without money, and never consider the hardships of their parents to earn money.
Children only have themselves in their hearts and have not thought about their parents, which means that their parents who have never really loved themselves at all are the precursors of unfilial piety in the future.
Every child is likely to do something wrong, and some children will correct their mistakes, be able to take on obligations, and be able to accept criticism and punishment from their parents. Until the parents are old, taking care of the parents is also a very big responsibility, and the child's sense of responsibility must be borne. Therefore, responsible children are generally very filial.
However, some children are different, as long as they make mistakes, it is the main reason for others, poor academic performance is due to the poor sitting position assigned by the teacher, and poor eating is due to the bad taste of the food cooked by the mother. A child like this who likes to shirk his responsibilities, until his parents ask for his care, will probably find an excuse to shirk his responsibilities and be unwilling to work hard.
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1. The child is rude and unreasonable, beats and scolds the elders, 2 is selfish, 3 likes to shirk responsibility, 4 is very dependent on his parents, but he is very lazy.
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The first is very rebellious and does not listen to his parents since he was a child, the second is deviant and unwilling to study and accept exam-oriented education, and the third is that he feels too good and proud!
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Children beat and scold their elders, and children who do not know how to respect their elders.
Nowadays, it is rare for parents to hit their children. On the contrary, in some public places, it is common to see children making disrespectful remarks to their grandparents, even swearing, and some of them fight their parents. A child's filial piety to his parents is an upbringing that needs to be cultivated from an early age.
If you have the bad habit of beating and scolding your parents at a young age, you will not be a filial child when you are older.
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