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Although the purpose of parents to have children should not be purely to raise children and prevent old age, but parents still hope that their children can become a person who knows how to be grateful and filial, because filial piety is a valuable virtue, in fact, children will be filial piety in the future, and they can see one or two when they are young, if they have these three manifestations since childhood, it is a signal of unfilial piety when they grow up, especially the second one, and parents should correct it in time.
1.I don't know how to be grateful
Now many children are spoiled by the elders of the family as soon as they are born, and they take it for granted that others are good to him, and the whole world should revolve around him, this kind of thinking is very dangerous, and children who do not know how to be grateful will become selfish and selfish when they grow up, and do not cherish the efforts of others, even if they are the closest parents, when they are old, the children will only wantonly ask. Such children will not be considerate of their parents from an early age, feel that their parents should work hard for themselves, cannot understand the kindness of their parents, and it will be difficult to be good to their parents in the future, they only know how to ask for it, and it is impossible to be filial to their parents in the future.
2.Disrespect for parents
Many families pay attention to equality, but this does not mean that it is okay to disrespect others, parents, as the elders of their children, should be respected by their children, if children do not even respect their parents, presumably their character must be inferior to the extreme. When the child is young, he will scold his parents because his parents do not meet his needs, although many parents will comfort themselves, this is because the child is still young, and it will not be like this when he grows up, but when he sees the old at the age of three, the child does not respect his parents since he was a child, and how can he be a filial child when he grows up?
3.Get used to blaming others for your mistakes
Children are growing up in the accumulation of mistakes again and again, so it is very normal for children to make mistakes when they are young, but some children can get out of the way every time they make mistakes, because they will blame their own faults on others, knowing that they are wrong, but they want to blame others, which is very irresponsible, shameful and moral behavior, if children are used to shirking responsibility from an early age, how can they afford the responsibility of providing for their parents in the future?
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The child's personality has a lot to do with the family's education, and excessive spoiling of the child will cause the child to be selfish and rebellious, lazy, love to lie, not listen to the words of the parents, and talk back to the parents, so parents must set an example and educate their children to have a correct outlook on life from an early age.
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Very protective of food, whether it is what I like to eat or not, I am not willing to share it with others, nor do I want to give it to my family. The second is that he doesn't care about the emotions of his parents and elders at all, he does whatever he wants, and he is lawless at home.
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When I was a child, I was seriously rebellious, disrespected my parents, and even swore to my parents and other elders, I didn't respect the old and love the young, I had no sympathy, I ate alone, and I was very selfish and only cared about myself.
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In fact, unfilial children are generally related to the education of their parents. Generally, parents are very doting on their children, and even if they do something wrong, they will not misjudge their children, which makes children particularly willful. In fact, such children will not be filial when they grow up.
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Ignore it, don't want to wait. When the child ignores him, and is unwilling to compromise, then it is judged that the child may not be willing to be filial, and you need to continue to work hard.
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The child's behavior when he was a child was disrespectful to his parents, and even he felt that his parents' kindness to him was what he should do, and he showed himself to be very selfish since he was a child, and such a child may not be filial to his parents in the future.
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1. Children often complain, 2. Children will lose their temper when their requirements are not met, 3. Children will not take the initiative to share, 4. Children often evade responsibility.
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When I was a child, parents always wanted to give the best food to their children, but neglected to let them learn to share. Later, the children felt that all the good food should be theirs. If parents let them share delicious food with friends or family.
They will be very upset, or they will refuse outright, and they will say "why give it to someone else". This type of child will always put their own "goods" first, and feel that sharing food is like missing a piece of meat. Maybe parents don't think there is anything when they are young, but when they grow up, they find that their children can't find their parents at all, thinking that parents should provide everything for themselves, but they don't need it.
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1.Eating alone When I was a child, parents always wanted to give their children the best food, but neglected to let them learn to share. Later, the children felt that all the good food should be theirs.
If parents let them share delicious food with friends or family. They will be very upset, or they will refuse outright, and they will say "why give it to someone else". 2.
Laziness Some parents feel that they can do what they can do, and there is no need for their children to learn to do housework Over time, they will develop a lazy character.
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Very rebellious, unwilling to take care of others, do not understand parents, often have conflicts with parents, unwilling to understand other people's is not easy, parents must pay attention to education when encountering this situation.
The first manifestation is that the child is very active, in fact, such a child is very smart, the second manifestation is that the child likes to read, and he can read for an hour, the third manifestation is that the child is particularly fond of using his brain, he likes everything, and asks why.
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