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It is a good thing to have ideals, because only with ideals can there be goals, and only people with goals will move forward, but ideals are different from utopia, blindly fantasizing, will only keep their brains in a state of paralysis, and always full of illusions about their future, and if they are not used in reality, then everything will not become a reality.
If a person wants to succeed, he should combine his ideals with reality, apply his ideals reasonably to reality, let himself have a goal to move forward, continue to learn, and constantly improve, so that he can succeed step by step.
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It's not terrible to live in an ideal It's terrible to live in an illusion all day long It's good to have an ideal, that's for sure, but fantasy is the kind that doesn't take action If you just look forward to a better future all day long and don't rely on your own efforts You will be sad when you are disillusioned When you put what you want into action This is an ideal and a goal Suggestion:
Don't be ambitious, be down-to-earth, and set a good short-term goal that is easy to achieve. After success, you will have a strong sense of accomplishment, and on this basis, you will set goals that are higher than this level, so that your sense of accomplishment will be accumulated little by little, and then you will not be far from your ideals.
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It is impossible to live in an ideal, people do things according to the rules, which leader do you see is very special? So don't be too idealistic, go to the upper route, what to do, complain less, and one day success will recruit you!
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Strive for your ideals!
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It will become ethereal and ungrounded.
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To be idealistic and realistic, but this society is realistic.
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It's a good thing to have ideals, but your ideals can't be too detached from reality. You can make a short-term ideal life goal, such as buying your own car this year, or changing yourself to a brand-name watch, etc., the ideal is not space, you must have a realistic goal, and if you have a goal, you will work hard to achieve it, even if you don't reach it in the end, it doesn't matter, and then look back, you are living a wonderful life.
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Be down-to-earth to do a good job in reality, and slowly approach the ideal. This is walking on the path of reality and ideals
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Each lives his own life.
Because life is actually meaningless, there is no clear purpose, whatever you doodle.
Why are you struggling with the two?
Follow your heart's choice and go on silently.
This life is over.
Just look back on your life before you die and don't regret it.
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Ideals are not all living in reality, and entanglement cannot solve the problem, be brave to choose one of them, and if you don't try it, how can you know the result.
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In fact, it would be good for everyone to live in a realistic ideal
It's good to have ideals, but your ideals can't be too detached from reality.
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Each has its own attitude to life. I don't know which one you are and what kind of help you need.
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In the face of the present, strive to be positive, and you will get closer and closer to the ideal... It is useless to think, it must be achieved with practical actions...
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Everyone doesn't expect their parents to be rich, to be pretty, to be pretty, to be attentive to their friends, to be happy, and to be nb. Why live under the expectations of others, live yourself is true.
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You are happy, and there is at least one person who has expectations of you.
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Whether it is a broken love or a failure, if it is a relationship, please let go, if it is a failure, please work hard, people will only be defeated by themselves, and people will only be abandoned by themselves.
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As far as the individual is concerned, everyone's ideal world is not exactly the same, and it is a kind of spiritual sustenance of self-inner satisfaction. That is to say, the real world does not match your expectations and wishes, not necessarily how bad your real world situation is, but it is far from reaching the world you yearn for the most. Therefore, you will fantasize and design an ideal world to comfort your shortcomings in real life.
However, dwelling in the ideal world can become closed, because the fear and disgust of real life will make you escape from the real world.
In short, this is a helpless situation, you have to find a balance ...
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It's obviously because life is unsatisfactory and there is no power to change reality.
That's how many people look like this now.
However, remember that the world does not exist for you alone, and you don't want to be what you want.
People should have their own ideals, and people's ideals should be how to change the world and create value. Rather than hoping for a comfortable environment.
PS: In fact, the economic environment is so good now, think about what life Chinese lived 30 years ago. Most people who are dissatisfied with reality are weak hearts.
Every time you want to get something, think about what you have done for society, and you should be able to understand why you are so unsatisfactory.
Now I admire those who are willing to give up everything and struggle from scratch for their ideals after they have become famous.
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Dissatisfied with real life, there are too many fantasies that make you feel good, and you like that feeling like it, and you are immersed in it.
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Escape from reality (relax a bit) like this'In order to return to reality and continue to work Exception: If you believe in a religion, you can slowly face this universe Religion: (1) Purify people's hearts, increase wisdom, and adopt a correct outlook on life = > leads to harmonious interpersonal relationships, family harmony, and optimism and enterprising at work.
Naturally, there will be good retribution (2) Cultivate to heaven and be free from suffering forever and be happy (the real cure for the root cause without leakage)...3) One person attains enlightenment, the whole family benefits, they can become your sentient beings, the whole family will always be together' (this is true filial piety)....
Bless you!
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This is a psychological manifestation of avoidance.
It is a manifestation of dissatisfaction with reality and inability to change, and a manifestation of disappointment and helplessness in oneself.
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It's a place where there's no cruelty of reality, there's no sycophancy between people, it's a place of purity, a place that everyone with a beautiful heart yearns for.
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Living in an ideal, very happy, your friend is too tired to live, the deterrence of reality is very strong, the problem is found to be wrong, don't let Ling is you live in the imagination of Liyin, are you not working hard enough, lack of perseverance, causing this feeling.
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It depends on how you face it, they all say that the reality is very cruel, and they all desire the ideal life, in fact, whether it is the ideal or the reality, you have to rely on yourself, you can change the status quo through your own efforts, you can live better, do everything with a sincere heart to face, whether success or failure, you must have confidence in yourself. Only through realistic efforts can you reach your ideal state.
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Not necessarily, ideals are just their own pursuits, and those who do not pursue them are pathetic, so use the sail of reality to realize their ideals.
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The one you love is dead, but the one who loves you is still alive.
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