What to do if you have an extreme and competitive personality, and what is the cause of extreme pers

1.Have you ever heard of three times a day? It's just that you have to look at yourself a few times a day, you can try to force yourself at the beginning, set an alarm clock or something, set a time, after lunch, after dinner, before going to bed, you can think about what you did wrong, who you talked to, and reflect on yourself.

I used to be the same as you, sometimes it's like a bad temper, I don't know why, I just don't like what I see, and I speak very much, which offends a lot of people, and some people even say that I have a nervous problem behind my back.

2.You must remember to give me psychological hints from time to time, and silently tell yourself in my heart that I am a cultivated person, a person who is arrogant but not arrogant, I am friendly to everyone, just like an elder treats a junior, I care for them and show my demeanor, and in everyone's heart, I will be a gentleman (lady).

I hope you can do these two things well, and the method is quite effective, and now I have offended fewer people, and everyone has gradually accepted me, and my mood is much more cheerful.

You have to learn the rhythm of words and self-control.

Being competitive is not a bad thing, but don't overdo it, and being competitive will make progress.

A competitive person who can't compete for the best will become unstable and irritable, and if you want to change him, you must first adjust your mentality.

You have to think like this often, I don't need to compete with people now, laughing to the end is the best, I have to work hard silently, strive to achieve the best, even if I don't reach the best, it doesn't matter, because there are mountains outside the mountains, there are heavens outside the sky, not to mention people, no one is perfect, there are capable people in the world, you can compare with what is in front of you, around you, so many people in the world, how can you compare, what is better than what is in front of you, you have to look to the future and look at the world, don't fight for me in a small circle, Determine your goals, be bigger and farther, and you will feel that the little things in front of you are too boring for me, and you don't have that energy and no leisure.

If you have the ability, it will be proven in practice, good luck!

There are 4 factors that contribute to extreme personalities:

1. Genetic factors, such as a history of mental illness in a parent.

2. The prenatal environment, such as the mother experiencing a major setback during pregnancy.

3. Early childhood experiences.

Fourth, social and cultural factors.

Extreme personalities usually manifest themselves as paranoid, stubborn. People with extreme personalities are often self-centered, have strong subjective assumptions, have difficulty listening to and listening to others' opinions, are irritable, have social difficulties, are lonely and autistic, and often act recklessly, which is a mild mental problem.

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From a practical point of view, the average stubborn person is prone to go to extremes, and one can tell whether he has an extreme personality or emotions by the basic reaction after denying his thoughts or actions.

The so-called extremism or paranoia is the embodiment of extreme personality. The radical person is what people see as "stubborn and good at avoiding their own problems, infinitely narrowing their personal shortcomings and expanding their strengths, and always responding to others' criticism and correction with dissatisfaction or anger."

Paranoid people are just like what people say, "never take into account the ideas of others, do everything according to their own ideas, do not care about the opinions of society and others, are not calm enough in words and deeds, and are easily excited and irritable about some inexplicable things". For people with extreme personalities, society should be tolerant, and the environment can be improved, but the real factor that can change it depends on the person.

Living in a loveless family since childhood, everything will be denied? Without anyone to support him, he will develop an extremely depressed personality in the long run.

Question: Do you think this person's personality is inherited?

It will have an impact on her child, if he doesn't change.

Because of extreme people, his home education is imperfect.

Question: Well, I agree with you.

I'm going to say that people with this extreme personality, will he inherit this kind of personality to the next generation?

Hello dear, thank you for your recognition, it is true.

It won't be inherited, but it will affect children, if it has been like this, I don't mean that this family affects me, but from this genetic point of view, will this person's personality be inherited?

Hello dear, I have always told you that it will not be inherited.

It will affect you, it will affect you slowly.

If that extreme person doesn't change.

Question Um, okay, thank you.

It's okay dear, I wish you a happy life.

The formation of extreme personality is mostly influenced by the family. The following types of families tend to have children with extreme personalities.

1. The intergenerational parenting of children is easy to form extreme personalities: the post-80s couples who are busy with work have no time to take care of their children, and their grandparents and grandparents have taken on the heavy burden. Differences in lifestyles, parenting concepts, and the unique love of "intergenerational parents" will inevitably have various impacts on children's physical and mental development.

Children raised by the next generation are prone to extreme personalities, that is, indulgent and self-willed, difficult to manage "extratroverted" personality or taciturn and dependent "introverted" personality.

2. Families with extreme parents: As the saying goes, if there is a father, there must be a son, and many children with extreme personalities are mostly influenced by their parents in childhood. He may have a very strong mother, or he may have an extremely upright father who is black-and-white and demanding in the education of his children, so that he has made his children extremely paranoid.

3. Parental doting leads to extreme willfulness of children: indulgence and excessive pampering of children cause children to get used to all requirements being met immediately, and once rejected, children will not be able to accept it psychologically. After being rejected for the first time, the child will generally make a fuss, some parents are upset about the child's crying, so they immediately agree to the child's request, and some elderly people will feel distressed when they see the child crying, and they will immediately choose to compromise.

And the cultivation of such extreme emotions will cause him to become irritable, more arrogant, and lose the correct view of right and wrong. No matter what you do, it will be up to your own nature, and this kind of sloppy behavior will become more and more violent, and may even lead the child to the path of crime.

For example, if someone says that you are extreme, it means that your personality is very stubborn, for example, when you look at a thing, your evaluation of this thing is either good or bad, but you will not say average. The same is true when it comes to making friends, for example, when you interact with people, you will divide people into two types, one is an enemy, and the other is a friend with a deep relationship, and there is no intermediate state. In general, it is to put things absolutely in the word, either the thing is the best or the worst, there is no concept of general!

The cause of extreme personality is generally related to the original family, or it may be caused by being suppressed at work, making oneself fall into a state of isolation from the outside world, and having a deviation in one's perception of oneself and the world.

The formation of human character is a very complex process, in addition to genetics, growth environment, but also interpersonal communication, some major events in life. Problems in any part of the process can lead to personality problems.

In real life, homeschooling is mostly closed. Spoiling and pampering children excessively, replacing them from head to toe, and artificially cutting off the social effect, children will be like the little emperor in Beijing who could not kill eggs until he was eleven years old, and he will not be able to move an inch away from his parents.

This is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life and one's own personality and behavioral factors. It is necessary to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude and self-regulation and inhibition.

Tragic childhood, tragic memories, withdrawn and introverted personality, lack of love, too high requirements for oneself, too much pursuit of perfection, a little distorted thinking, feeling that the world is far away from oneself, desperate for human beings, thinking will become very extreme.

This is a very deep question. Extremes are closely related to one word, and that is "satisfaction". Either overly satisfied, or unsatisfied.

Excessive satisfaction can lead to selfishness, and failure to satisfy can lead to cruelty. It is also related to the original family, or too much love, or too little love. People who are loved too much will have a tendency to be selfish, violent, and disrespectful.

Too few people are loved, and they become ruthless and have no conscience. Children who grow up with scolding will first use violence to solve problems. Children who grow up under high pressure are either particularly rebellious, or particularly timid and cowardly.

A person who is too extreme will bring a lot of harm, the most direct harm is that it will lead to the intensification of conflicts, the deterioration of the interpersonal atmosphere, the complexity of simple problems, and the derivation of many unnecessary troubles.

Parents are more irritable, thinking that being strict with their children is good for their children and is more conducive to their success, but they don't know that it is the parents' inappropriate behavior that makes them develop extreme personalities and produce great psychological trauma.

Children who lack love, because they lack love too much in their hearts, care about what others think of them, which is a kind of psychological torture for themselves, and may bring some trouble to others. The reason for this "paranoid" personality is the lack of attention from the family, and some parents will think that this kind of education method is to make the child more self-reliant, and think about it and feel sad for the child. A child with an extreme personality is not born like this, and the influence of his original family has created what he is now.

People who are too extreme like to drill the horns of the bull, and they are unwilling to turn back even if they hit the south wall, and such a character is easy to rest on their laurels.

It is said that character determines fate, and people who are too extreme have their own limitations, they are like frogs at the bottom of a well, living in their own world and unwilling to come out, and they are also very arrogant. I have a classmate who has a very extreme personality, and he feels very tired when he gets along with him, and his inadvertent words will sting him, and he doesn't have many close friends around him. People with extreme personalities will have a messy life, they can't feel the beauty of the world, and they are not willing to take the initiative to give to others.

First, being too extreme will make you indifferent and mean, and you will not gain friendship and love.

Extreme personality is equivalent to locking himself in a cage, and in the face of other people's enthusiasm, he will respond to each other with an indifferent attitude, and he will not grow and improve. My sister is also a very extreme person, and her personality is also very uncertain, and she doesn't know how to be grateful and repay her parents at all. Later, after she changed herself, she gained love and family affection.

Don't be too extreme, be sure to make yourself more enthusiastic, so that others will respect and appreciate you.

Second, extreme people are like hedgehogs, they will sting others even if they want to get closer.

Extreme people will turn away those who love them, and it is easy to sting others, so how can they reap happiness. People who are too extreme are often very indifferent, do not feel the temperature of the world, and are easy to rest on their laurels, thinking that they are looking at the whole world, but in fact they are only short-sighted. We must learn to pay more for others, treat the world with gratitude, and you will find a different beauty.

Third, being too extreme is self-destructive, and happiness and joy can only be achieved by learning to be lenient to others.

Don't rest on your laurels, being too extreme is equivalent to ruining your future, and it's easy to be complacent. We must learn to constantly improve our character, expand our horizons and pattern, make more friends, and learn to learn from each other's strengths, so as to overcome our extreme character and have a more perfect life.

The personality is too extreme, it is easy to get into the horns of the bull when doing things, the kind that does not hit the south wall and does not look back, is unwilling to listen to other people's opinions, is more self-centered, and will let himself suffer a lot of losses.

I hate myself for being so naïve, constantly blaming myself, I know that my character is not good, but I am really difficult to control many times. If I break up, I will be in so much pain that I will even think of ending my life to get rid of this pain, and I will suffer every day.

If your personality is too extreme, it will be a bad thing for yourself and others, you will hurt others, and you will make your emotions unstable.

The personality is too extreme, of course, it is a particularly bad experience, for example, the personality is too stubborn, just like obsessive-compulsive disorder, this kind of person is also very difficult to get along with, so this kind of person has fewer friends.

People with too extreme personalities are very extreme and prone to doing some impulsive things. In fact, he is also very pitiful, he can't control it, and he doesn't want to be so impulsive. In this case, you should take him to a psychiatrist in time for consultation.

If your personality is too extreme, then it will be difficult to interact with others. It is very difficult to obtain friendship, and may even become the object of rejection by others, so it is easy to feel lonely and have some low feelings.

My friend is that either it's very good, or it's very bad, there is no middle ground, and because of this, I have to break with many people, and I am forced to lose a lot of good opportunities.

The personality is too extreme, this kind of person is more terrifying, and it is easy to threaten others. Cause a certain amount of pressure on others.

If your personality is too extreme, you will also be too extreme in thinking about things, and you will not be able to look at or deal with certain things reasonably.