I always want others to treat me as a child!

Do you think like this because you are a little uncomfortable in your new environment? In fact, it is not wrong to want to be protected and cared for by others. If you want to change, it's better to start with yourself, do everything yourself, and try to overcome your dependence, just first.

Then when dealing with anything, think about what other people think first. The help of friends is also necessary, but it is also necessary to feel their feelings, to understand them, and then to give them what they need. Finally, in life, it is best to read more magazines, have your own opinions and opinions on some things, and refuse the help of friends appropriately to exercise yourself.

Others, you file children, it is estimated that the main reason is that you sometimes have no opinions, little experience, and you have to show your talents in the work you usually give people and solve the problem fundamentally

Hehe, a little personal opinion, not necessarily right, I hope it will help you a little.

I also feel the same way, came out to work earlier, at that time there were little sisters, so others are special care, so now everywhere I still want to find that feeling, in fact, now it's not small, to work there are a large group of little sisters' sisters, once I was also very distressed, are so old that people look like a child, but it doesn't matter, now I figured it out, it's also pretty good, no matter what kind of people you meet, you will leave a good popularity, leave a good impression on others, In this way, interpersonal relationships will be much better, people who know you will like your character, and people who like you will do the same, as long as the people who like you like it, why make yourself so tired, don't ask everyone in the world to like you, just be yourself, everyone's aesthetics are different, you are very good now, if you add more self-confidence, it will be better, believe in yourself, you are the best, make your style so that others can envy it, so that you will live happily, haha come on, You are great, you don't need to learn from other people's maturity, just like that, aren't you doing your own things quite well.

The first type: the people around you care less about you, and the lack of care has led you since childhood, so you always want to be cared for.

The second type: poor independence, used to being pampered since childhood, leaving the care and help of others, and not knowing what to do.

The third type: contrary to the above, it is good to be independent from an early age and have a strong personality. Maybe it's not your nature, it's your life circumstances that force you to be strong, but in reality you're fragile inside and want someone to care about you.

Hehe, what's wrong with being naïve. I don't like all of them being so sophisticated.

Any character has any character good. If you think about it, these are actually small things, and you can get to the bottom of things. Others will be impressed!

Hehe, your boyfriend typically likes children. He loves you, don't think about it!

Hehe, now the boys are also keeping up with a new trend! I like children, I want my girlfriend to give me one, but I don't want to get married, people are always so contradictory, but you still ask him to ask clearly, then there will be a lot of trouble, if he really wants, then what about yourself???

The landlord is too careful, he is joking with you.

However, it is better to get married first and give birth later. So insured!

I just know that his boss didn't look for him, and he doesn't want to talk to you anymore.

Hello! According to the above analysis of the content of your chat, most of the jokes between your boyfriend and you are because your cousin has a child that triggers such a topic, not the result of his careful consideration. Therefore, it is advisable that you do not have too many doubts.

But as far as this issue is concerned, whether you consider it from the perspective of both of you or your children, you should still get married first and then have children, and wait until the physical and psychological conditions are mature before considering having children, and it is always wrong to follow the laws of human society. Wishing you all happiness and happiness!

1. The father is relatively strong, and may be a unit leader or a small business owner;

2. The father wants his son to be attached to him and be in an absolute position of authority in the family;

3. The father has a strong desire to control family members.

This is not good for your self-confidence and personality development.

You'd better be self-reliant, if you can study, study hard to get into the best university, if you can't study, you have to be independent as soon as possible, you can be a soldier, a part-time job, leave your father early, only economic independence, can have personality independence.

It's a bit weird indeed. What you can do is to raise your eyebrows and make him have no reason to make others look down on you, but to make him appreciate you and value you without any excuses, because you have enough talents and achievements to conquer him. The best thing to do at this time is to stand up and prove to him that his son is a hundred times better than he thought!

Don't soften, be strong, and tell your father through your strength that he made a huge mistake in thinking like that. Your accomplishments will surely make him understand that he will regret his wrong thoughts. Good luck!

Hate the mentality that iron does not become steel. The son did not live up to his father's expectations. Maybe the son makes the father proud in some way, it would be better!

Who is it! Is his son very disobedient?

Does he have children of his own? I guess it's also a girl, maybe I want a boy, I don't think it's too good, unless he gets divorced, regenerates, and if he doesn't get divorced, he won't talk about it. It's not that easy to have a baby.

I know this married man who wants you to have children with him and doesn't want a divorce. Ho! I want to enjoy the blessings of all people.

What do you do if you have children? He only thinks about himself, not for you, he is not a person to be trusted, and he should stay away from him.

Whatever the reason, don't think it's love, a truly mature and responsible man will not step on two boats, let alone do something out of wedlock, such a thing is not only against morality, but also against the law.

The end of the junior is very miserable, let's think about how to turn positive! It's okay for the child to turn regular and give birth to 10! You don't want to have a reputation for having children before marriage!

You don't want your child to be born illegitimate child! Don't blame me for my ugly words! Think about how to turn positive is real!

Do you want to be a baby-giving machine?

You are a third party, you hurry to the Yellow River, find an opening, the water can be deeper, can spray you to the island of Japan.

Despise..

The child is eight and a half years old in fact, has formed a certain pattern of behavior, the most important thing is actually in the parents' part, pay more attention to rewards and punishments and collective outside activities, naughty is actually very lively, the child is naughty is nature, don't frame him too much, many geniuses are choked off in this way. The behavior of parents is also very important, and the behavior pattern of a family is always the most recent learning behavior pattern for the child, and he is your shadow. Lead by example and hope you and your baby have a good future

Hello, if you have any questions, let's hear about it.

Do you have to be liked by the teacher to be angry? In the education of children, or stand in the children's force field to consider, 7 years old and 8 years old is the time to be naughty, but also a period of active thinking, there is no principled deviation, don't take personal ideas as the benchmark.

What this mother said is that she hopes that her child will always be healthy and happy, and she does not expect her child to be a great person, just ordinary people!

From the words, it can be heard that it is the mother's concern for the child and not putting too much pressure on the child.

Be content!

Meaning question, right.

Okay, then it's divided into superficial and deep.

1.Superficial: The mother wants the child to be physically and psychologically well.

2.Deep: It shows the mother's deep love for her child.

It shows that the mother understands that physical health and mental health are the foundation of success. Hehe.

There are no psychological problems, you are healthy, you just don't fit in. Not adapted to the free life of the university, not adapted to the calmness of the big city, that's all. In the past 12 years, the goal of hard work can be said to be to be admitted to university, and now your goal has been achieved, your past has been turned over, and now you need to get back on the road and write a new page.

Do you need to give yourself a new goal to go to graduate school? Job? If you are going to graduate school, which major will you take?

Which school or institute? If so, what is your position for yourself? State-owned enterprises?

Foreign? Entrepreneurship? Many times, the mainstream is not necessarily correct, and the people around you are doing nothing and not seeking progress, which does not mean that you are also qualified to indulge yourself; And sometimes, a rural student wants to fit in with the environment of this big city, and some things have to be done according to local customs.

This is dialectical unity, and the only thing to grasp is not to lose yourself, always think about your parents, think about the land that gave birth to you, don't waste your good youth, and wish you all the best.

Find more classmates, ask them out to climb the mountain, relax themselves, find topics that everyone is interested in, sometimes, there are questions that you know how to ask, you can also pretend not to ask your classmates, so that everyone has more opportunities to communicate. This towards works!

Obviously you are struggling with the problems you feel about yourself, and you want to get rid of them, but you don't know how to do it.

Why does a person get binge eating disorder and have extremely poor self-control?

The root cause of binge eating disorder is that binge eating is a way to relieve anxiety. Because you can't cope properly with the anxiety caused by your troubles, you always try to get rid of your anxiety by binge eating, and over time, this behavior is reinforced, and you feel more and more powerless to cope. So, unless you have the strength to deal with your own troubles, it will be difficult for you to get out of the shadow of binge eating disorder.

The root of all human problems lies in man's excessive concern for the self. Therefore, the only effective way to get rid of this problem is to forget oneself.

When you live in a spirit of selflessness, integrate your personal life into the life of all mankind, dedicate yourself to ideals, beliefs, causes, and justice, and contribute to the continuous progress of mankind, you will be able to transcend individual existence and achieve universal existence, transcend the finite and reach the infinite, go beyond the struggle for self and achieve the struggle for the freedom of all mankind, so that you can live without sorrow, live satisfactorily, live freely, live naturally, live hopefully, and obtain stable and harmonious happiness.

As long as you can actively devote yourself to your future studies and life with a selfless spirit, the problems you have encountered will no longer exist, and when you are the best version of yourself and do not care about anything else, your life will be full of success and happiness.

Selflessness is the highest state of the human spirit.

I think your problems cannot be solved here, everyone understands the truth, including yourself, and what you need now is someone who can help you overcome this psychological barrier and find a systematic and effective way to change yourself. Therefore, you must go to the psychological clinic of a regular specialist hospital as soon as possible, preferably in Beijing or Shanghai, because the psychologist there should be said to be the best in the country. Only they can help you.

Your psychological problems are serious, please take care of yourself for the sake of you and your mother.

Go to the pharmacy to buy senna and soak it in water to drink, and it won't let you eat again. Invalid to find me.

You don't have as little as you think.

It's good that you know your own problems, and many people don't find them or don't want to improve them in time. Actually, I used to be very fat, and I always ate and ate. And I didn't have the stamina**, but then I improved my eating habits little by little every day, and walked home from school, and slowly I lost weight.

As for you, because you have a shadow, you always remember that your father was a drunkard. You feel like it's your shame, but it's not. You remember, you are you and he is him. Even if you keep his blood, so what!He's dead, you're still alive, what are you afraid of?!

In fact, the most important thing is to relax, I listen to you, I think you are too depressed yourself. You should try to talk to your mother, and perhaps she will dismiss you. As for the problem of eating, sometimes you really can't control it, but you might as well slow down and think about it, what will you do tomorrow if you eat so much at once?

If you eat so much tomorrow, what will you do the day after tomorrow? If you can't control it, limit yourself (usually it is better to be supervised by others). For example, what to eat today can only have these foods at home, and you can't buy more.

I don't know if it will help you, but hopefully your situation will improve.

As for the opposite sex, you are not confident because of your low self-esteem, and you are proud because you are a very creative person. In fact, it's okay to be with a lot of friends, as long as you forget all your worries when you're standing, as long as you're happy for a long time. Be social, and don't stop going out to make friends for some reason, which will be counterproductive.

It is recommended to read books such as the Heart Sutra in Buddhism and listen to the Great Compassion Mantra.

A reliable, long-term solution, which does not cost much money, and solves all your problems: that is, choose Confucianism, Buddhism, and Taoism! Only by reading the books of the sages and practicing seriously can you completely solve the problem unconsciously and make yourself and your mother happy forever!