When you are desperate, is there a cruel word that wakes you up instantly?

Haha desperate, I feel that I have a special say in this topic, in fact, I feel that I am a failure complex. Why can't you do it, why can't you learn, you can't do any talent, and the handwriting is rotten and smelly.

I am a very ordinary person among all living beings, very ordinary, very ordinary, but what such a person should not have is a particularly strong self-esteem and conceit.

I am a very conceited person, but I don't have the capital to be conceited, but fortunately I am a very special and hard-working person.

I often complain about why people who work hard have no gains, why can't I work so hard, what should I do to get what I want.

One of the most profound things was to get into high school, and my grades at that time were enough to get into a very good school in our county. The previous evaluations were very good, and the teachers said that I was sure. I studied hard because my mom said, she said.

You have to be the pride of your younger siblings, be an example to your younger siblings, and let your younger siblings be successful.

Sure enough, because I was too nervous, I failed in the college entrance examination, and I could only go to our not very good school, and I was too sad, angry, and angry. So I locked myself in the room, took two bottles of wine from my father, and began to drink, one bottle was not finished before my mother began to knock on the door, I didn't want to hide from my mother to drink and opened the door very calmly, as soon as my mother saw me drinking, she went crazy and hammered the door and said: "You are cheap, you can't stand it for a high school entrance examination, you are starting to degenerate, what use do I want you" (drinking and smoking in my house are not allowed).

I cried in my room all night, and on the second day my mom apologized to me, and I didn't leave my room or eat. When I calmed down, I wondered if I had been depraved since I was fifteen years old, could I have been depraved until I died.

Of course not, I don't want to be looked down upon, it's a big deal that I've been working hard, I don't believe I can't catch up with them. That's what I think, and that's what I do. I've been working hard since the beginning.

First of all, the setbacks and blows in life are also part of normal life, do not indulge in pain and despair, but actively find resources and reconstruct reality. If you can get out of the pain and find happiness, this experience will undoubtedly be a treasure in your future life, and you will no longer be afraid of the wind and rain of life. Some people may say that when encountering a blow like this, it is inevitable to absolutize the pain, but looking at the Sanglan and the Paralympics, who can say that when we encounter a blow to life, we can only choose despair?

Philosophy says that there is only one kind of true happiness, that is, to be happy in suffering, if Xiao Gang can be happy in suffering and face life positively, then he will be rewarded with life.

Second, people in pain and despair must learn to vent and learn to seek support. There are times when the person concerned inevitably has a painful experience, and confiding in well-meaning relatives and friends, crying, punching a punching bag, giving them some outlet for their emotions, and making them feel that the world still supports them, will undoubtedly have a positive impact on them.

People who are more successful than you are struggling, so why don't you fight?

Failure is the mother of success.

The sun is always after the wind and rain

There was a period of depression after my divorce, and my girlfriend asked me, you can't live without him! What about your child? It was because of this sentence that I woke up!

"All human suffering is essentially anger at one's own impotence. This phrase covers almost all aspects of life. Whether it is when you encounter difficulties and are unable to move forward, or when the tribulations in life almost crush you, or when you are chaotic and have no motivation to move forward, you can use this sentence to wake yourself up.

Now I've made this sentence my motto, and every time things don't go my way, I look at it and remind myself to be strong.

And when our thinking is chaotic and we have no motivation to move forward, especially when we resent ourselves for not working hard and on the other hand, we are not able to cheer ourselves up, and that kind of struggle is also out of anger at our own incompetence.

Maybe many people will think that this is the reason for personal willpower, but the weak will cannot complete the task according to the schedule, and the desire to be lazy is not also a manifestation of incompetence. Truly capable people, their ability is not only reflected in external work, but also in the control of their own will. The ability to complete the set goals and tasks according to the plan every day is also a manifestation of self-accurate management ability.

Now when I have a problem or I am not motivated, I like to think about what I am lacking in and correct it.

Believe that the more you live, the stronger you become. I don't have a backer, I am a mountain. I don't have the world to fight the world myself. Alive. It is to open the road in the mountains and build bridges in the water.

When you are desperate, it is easy to be woken up by this sentence, the departure of the leaves is not the pursuit of the wind, nor the non-retention of the tree, but the arrangement of fate, the selection of nature, the blossoming and falling of flowers, the reincarnation of heaven, what should come will come, and what should go will go.

If you are falling like this, what will happen to your daughter? What about parents? I was pleasantly surprised by this sentence yelled out by my best friend!

The boat is naturally straight to the bridge.

Be kind to others and be a good person; Be cruel to yourself and be a wicked person, I believe that I will be eye-catching, I will dazzle, and I will slap those who insult me with silent power.

Dreams are a must, what if hell happens? After listening to this sentence, I really want to realize my dream, but I feel that it will be a long time before it can be realized, and I hope that I can live as I want in the future.

Every time I can't think about it, I come to see these words.

Words that hurt to the point of heartbreak.

The electric car was in a car accident, her legs were bleeding nonstop, crying and calling her girlfriend for help, and I still remember her saying: I'm washing my hair, how can I help you. At that time, the tears stopped, and I got up and rode to the hospital. It was she who made me understand that I can only rely on myself at critical moments.

Three words support me in difficult times: unwilling.

I was so depressed that I wanted to commit suicide, I had a dream, I dreamed that I jumped into the river, and I cried helplessly when I saw my mother fished me out of the river and wanted to carry me home but couldn't move, my heart was stuffed to death, and I instantly thought, live well, not for myself but for my parents, at the back of the dream, I can't see my face clearly, but I know the future object, I feel sorry for me and say, you haven't met me yet, how can you be willing to go first....One sentence made me wake up with complete tears.

The college entrance examination is the last faceless competition in life.

How dare I fall, there is no one behind me.

Woman; You have to be strong, and no one will pity you when you are lonely.

Tantrums are a person's instinctive reaction, and controlling oneself from losing one's temper is a person's ability.

You know the truth, but you're lazy.

I still have a lot to do. Can't stop here.

Where there is life, there is hope!

You can't give up the world to the people you despise.

There is no right choice, and work hard to make the right choice.

Never let down what you have suffered.

Temper should never be greater than ability.

We always think that we have lost to others, but we have actually lost to ourselves.

If you don't get what you want, you don't deserve it.

The more you learn, the less you ask someone for once.

We must succeed faster than our parents age.

The pain is a mockery of one's own incompetence!

In short, who doesn't understand the truth, but courage always comes from oneself and bravely faces difficulties.

Let's take a look at some of the golden phrases that can be enlightening in times of despair.

1. When you have nothing to lose anymore, that's when you start to get.

2. Learning should be increased, pride should be reduced, opportunities should be taken, and laziness should be removed.

3. The ignorance of childhood is cute, and the ignorance of youth is ridiculous; The ignorance of youth is pitiful; The ignorance of middle age is lamentable, and the ignorance of old age is pathetic.

4. People allow a stranger to make a career, but they can't tolerate the promotion of a person around them. Because there is a contrast and a conflict of interest between people at the same level, there is no problem with strangers.

If a person lives by eating, then the meal is not called food, but feed.

5. It is easy for Chinese to learn from Americans, but it is difficult for Chinese to learn from Chinese.

6. The premise of a person's luck is actually that he has the ability to change himself.

7. The growth of people should receive education in four aspects: parents, teachers, books, and society. Interestingly, the latter always seems to be the opposite of the previous three.

8. Managing your own strengths can add value to your life; Managing your shortcomings can devalue your life.

9. Life is like a green leaf, which slowly turns yellow with the passage of time, but his veins are still so clearly visible.

10. It's simple to make things complicated, and it's complicated to make things simple.

11. If it's a small grass, even in the best business, you can't grow a big tree. If this is the case, it is better to go through the wind and rain and cultivate yourself into a precious flower.

12. The rule of survival at work in the 21st century is: build a personal brand and turn your name into money.

After reading the above quotes, do you feel that you are suddenly enlightened?