Are men more realistic than women in society?

I feel that the current society is still a little more realistic for women, otherwise how can there be a woman who worships money, there is no man who worships money, when it comes to reality, we often say which woman is too realistic, I haven't heard of which man is said to be too realistic, after all, it is often the marriage house that the man buys, I haven't heard that the house is bought by the woman, when the blind date, it is often the woman who asks the man if he has a car and a house, and I haven't heard of a man asking the woman to ask for a car and a house, so I feel that the reality is still stronger than the woman, in fact, it is also caused by this society, In fact, I can't say whether this question is right or wrong, it's unrealistic, what to eat when you get married in the future, do you eat steamed buns, or drink porridge every day, I really can't think of it when it comes to men's reality, men are realistic in terms of aspects, you have to say that men's reality is not more about money, and it is impossible to be more about looks.

Some men just like to be young and pretty, except for the young and beautiful, they don't care about what is suitable or not, they are beautiful anyway, or some men, they just want to be with the kind that helps their careers, this kind of is also more realistic, but I feel that compared to the reality of women, I feel that the reality of women is a little too realistic, so I feel that men really don't have women's reality, women are realistic, you don't have money, it's not good, often money represents everything, If you don't have money, you're a waste, let alone talk to me, the old lady doesn't want to pay attention to you, so now some girls are cheated of money and sex, and no one sympathizes, men's reality is often more of a means, and the nature of the two is not the same, but in the eyes of most people, women are still more realistic than men.

I think so, because as a man, he has responsibilities and obligations that force him to face reality. They also have to be realistic about the pressures from all aspects of life. It seems to me that the man is an absolute realist, and the woman is an idealist through and through.

As far as I'm concerned, I was an idealist but I gradually became a realist, and the decisive factors for this transformation were the fact that I grew older, my experience deepened, and I realized my responsibilities and obligations. It turns out that I am full of hope for this society, thinking that everything in this society is so beautiful. But since I came into contact with society, I realized how cruel the reality is.

When I graduated from junior high school, I followed my dad to the construction site to work for water and electricity. One day, for some unknown reason, one of the supervisors yelled at me in the morning. I don't understand what they said, when I remember that scene clearly, my dad was 40 years old, being pointed at his nose by a hairy boy in his twenties and thirties, and my dad's hero-like image in my mind became fragmented, how I wanted to go up and beat that person, but I couldn't, where would our father and son go if I went.

Will we have a good life in the future?My heart is bleeding.

This is the reality, since then I began to slowly see the world clearly, after I really stepped into the society, I knew that my father was weak from time to time, it was the responsibility of a man, and he was not allowed to resist. I think he was struggling at that time!

Women, on the other hand, have much less responsibility than men. Maybe it's because God is ashamed of giving them a weak body, and it's a way to make up for them.

In fact, in today's society, men and women are the same, they are very realistic, life pressure is particularly high, everyone's pursuit and ideas are different, so the idea of looking at things is also different, to put it bluntly, people are very snobbish now.

In fact, I personally think it's all the same, men's reality may be more realistic, relative to the longer term, and women's reality lies in the material, they will also care about whether the boy has a car, whether there is a house or not, whether there is cash or somethingSo men and women are the same reality, but in different ways.

I don't think so, women have very realistic people and men can also have very realistic people, so it can't be too absolute.

Men can only rely on themselves in reality, women can let men raise them, but are there women who support men?

When a woman chooses a man with good material conditions, the man will label the woman as materialistic, realistic. It seems that a woman's life should be hard and tired, which is love.

In fact, when it comes to reality, men are far more realistic than women. When faced with a woman who is worth a lot of money and an average woman, men weigh the pros and cons. Choosing the former can save him many years of struggle, and he is not willing to share the ups and downs with the latter.

Because the emotional warmth is far less than the sense of accomplishment that social status brings to men. Many women are born for love, but men are not, and the ranking of feelings and family in men's hearts is after career.

In fact, men are more realistic, because they are often good at weighing the pros and cons and know how to defend their own interests.

In today's society, women will be more realistic, because women can deeply realize that only money can make them feel secure enough, and men are unreliable.

In fact, women should be more realistic, because in this society, men are generally more capable.

I think men would be a little bit more realistic. They will not be carried away by love, they will have some opinions of their own, and they will be more realistic.

Who is more realistic, man or woman, what is the difference between man and woman.

Let's start with the conclusion——— men and women are the same reality, but the form of expression is different.

Men are told from an early age to earn bread and are more involved in social competition, and social norms are less constrained by the expression of men's low-level desires.

Therefore, men know early on that they have a lot of unrefined desires and are honest about them. Men may covet a woman's appearance and figure, or they may covet a woman's good family background.

1. Men may deceive women, but generally do not deceive themselves. In other words, when a very realistic man is alone, he will never say that he is an unrealistic person.

Second, although there are men and women, it is not easy to achieve. Men tend to dislike girls who are burdened with economic considerations. Moreover, if the man knows all the details of the woman's family in advance and dislikes it, he generally refuses before marriage.

Therefore, when some women have not yet awakened, they will mistakenly think that they value true love and are very pure. (Note: It's a mistake).

1. Women can deceive men, or they can deceive themselves. The so-called self-deception is to constantly convince yourself that you don't have any low-level desires, but you still have them. For example, to use whitewashed words such as "I'm not greedy for money, I'm just trying to be self-motivated."

Second, if the woman is greedy for money, she will be high. Girls who wake up early climb high before marriage; Girls who wake up late do not climb high before marriage, and begin to regret or force the other half to enter a higher class after marriage.

In the reality of men, ninety percent have seizures before marriage and one in ten seizures after marriage;

The reality of women is that sixty percent of them have seizures before marriage and forty percent of them have seizures after marriage.

Suppose that when a poor woman is looking for a partner, she shows her fiancé the details, and the man's family agrees to the marriage and gets married, then the woman has basically passed the economic problem. The probability of finding fault with the man's family after marriage is very low, unless the man is taken by Bai Fumei after marriage.

Suppose that when a poor man is looking for a partner, he shows his fiancée all the details, and the woman's family agrees to the marriage and gets married. This does not mean that the man has passed the financial problem. The chances of finding fault with the woman's family after marriage are not so low.

Some men are indeed more realistic than women, and there are times when you think you have forgotten, but when you think of the good memories of the past, you can't help but miss them.

Some feelings, you think they don't exist, it's just that you restrain the thoughts in your heart and don't let them run out at any time, you are afraid that you can't let go, you are afraid that your thoughts are overflowing, so you have to secretly hide this thought.

At the beginning of love, you may be moved by his words and actions, but slowly, this love disappears, and you can only sigh that there is no fate.

Not all people who love each other can be together, not all people who were together at the beginning can go to the end, and the feelings between two people may part ways due to reality or other factors, which is the most regrettable thing.

When two people gradually drift apart, can they really forget? No, there are some people who will still have love even if they don't connect.

02 Two people who once loved each other, even if they are separated, still affect your heart.

The person you used to love very much, will you still contact him when you are separated? Most of the time no, not to contact is not because you don't love, but because you love too much, you love too much to contact.

Even if two people finally separate, as long as you think of him, as long as you think of the past, this relationship will still touch your heart and make you unable to let go.

If that's the case, then it's better to keep each other in good memories and let the relationship stay there as well.

03 Love loses to reality, it hurts and regrets, but there is nothing you can do.

There is also a situation, and the most common, where you love each other very much, but practical reasons do not allow you to be together.

Or the family is against it, and in the end they are powerless to resist, so they miss each other, or the goals of two people are no longer the same, you want a stable life, but he wants to take his career to the next level.

Some love will be lost to reality, it hurts and regrets, I obviously said that I would go together, but you turned back halfway, how can you survive alone?

The most helpless thing is that when love goes away, we are powerless to change, and we can only watch love go farther and farther, and then we can't catch up more and more.

04 "Some people, who have loved or even met, is a kind of happiness, even if they are not connected, they are a lifelong concern. ”

It is a pity to miss love, but after all, we have met, loved, and known each other, so it is a kind of happiness, it is better than never met, how much happiness will be lost.

Meeting is a kind of happiness, even if the final outcome is not so perfect, even if you do not end up married, at least you have left traces in each other's lives, and this is enough.

In the days to come, I will silently keep him in my heart and continue to live my current life.