Several of my best friends have boyfriends, what should I do if I am in a dilemma?

A few girlfriends have their own boyfriends, why are you in a dilemma?

Forgive me for making assumptions about you.

First, at least part of your view of love is receptive to non-friendship between people of the same sex. In this case, it means that you are able to allow you to have another emotion for your girlfriend. And your girlfriend already has her own boyfriend, so it's hard for you to get along with yourself.

In this case, I suggest that you be honest with your girlfriend before deciding whether to advance or retreat. If standing still makes you feel like it's not, then a clean cut is the best solution.

Second, you can only accept the emotions between the opposite sex in your view of love, and for your girlfriends, your so-called "in" only refers to asking your girlfriends to accompany you, and your so-called "retreat" only refers to leaving more of your girlfriends' time for them in the sweet world of the two.

In this case, I want you to understand that friendship and love are not a relationship between fish and bear's paws, why can't girlfriends have both? With your timely involvement, you may be able to become an all-round girlfriend. If two people quarrel one day, you know better whether to change the persuasion or to persuade the split.

Third, you can only accept the emotions between the opposite sex in your view of love, and for your girlfriends, your so-called "in" refers to finding a boyfriend yourself, and your so-called "retreat" refers to not participating in your girlfriends' topics about love.

In this case, I want you to be accountable to yourself. Advance and retreat are not opposing concepts. It is a hypothesis that looks for the best of the two options.

If your progress allows you to find someone to love, that's good. But if I am unwilling to be lonely, so I will give in at will, then I have nothing to say except regret. Be cautious.

Personally, I think this is a very normal thing, ah, you can distract yourself, often go to some clubs or activities, or travel, and then make yourself live a better and more fulfilling life, of course, you can't lose these friendships, occasionally you still have to chat with them, not often meet or anything, so that your relationship will not deteriorate.

Enjoy the time alone now, wait for a boyfriend, and then enjoy the world of two.

I think you're hurting your self-esteem a little bit, your friends have boyfriends, you should wish them happiness.

What, I can't see it clearly.

It's been right for a long time, leave it alone, go and find new friendships, people can't be nice to me, right! It's good to get together and disperse, let's chirp things and wishful thinking, and the people who count are like this, ah, how many people? No, I don't know anything I don't know now, I don't order it, and if I go to the hot pot at that time when I am trembling, I feel, rest me, if I am sure that you don't know that no one is embarrassed to do it yourself?

You also don't have us, you you you don't have me when I come back, you you how bad words you are,

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You're going to have to ask who the guy likes.

If that guy likes your girlfriend, then the rest is their own business. If you are afraid that the school will know, you should deal with your feelings and study tasks, and it is not too late to wait until college.

Even if it is discovered by the school, it is the business of the parties, and no one will hold the matchmaker responsible. As for you, you should also put more attention to your studies. Although this is the last thing you want to hear as a child and a student, it is really the truth and it is for your good.

If the guy likes you, you should ask the guy to make it clear to your girlfriend so that your girlfriend doesn't misunderstand. At that time, I didn't even have to be a friend.

Why are you so entangled, since the men have confessed to your girlfriends, what else do you want to ask? You don't want to get involved in this matter, and you will be involved in the future, whether it is good or bad, and tell your girlfriend directly that you don't want to participate in their feelings, and let your girlfriend ask for the most direct and clear.

You just tell your girlfriend what you think, why bother so much, unless you really like guys.

You tell your best friend that it's just it, if you have a hairstyle with her, she will definitely think you're so good, and she will look for you next time this kind of thing.

You care too much about the eyes of your friends.

Don't worry about anything if you are open-minded, do it with a clear conscience, otherwise you won't do it, no matter what others think. After a long time, your image in the hearts of your friends will become upright and tall, otherwise you will become small and cowering.

It's okay to ask generously, or disappear from their world sooner.

Go ahead and ask, be decisive, find out, and don't care about you.

If you don't help, you don't help. This is a matter of principle.

Actually, I think you can't choose between two people!

First, I think that the man who has been with you for more than four years, maybe he is just used to you being around him, and like you said, he takes everything you do for him for granted. I don't completely deny that he may still love you, but is such a man worth your effort? How many four years are there in life?

I think you should calm down and think about it, of course, you can also find a way to make up for this feeling, after all, it is the feeling of missing, and it is not that you can put it away, think carefully!

Second, the colleague who has been with you for more than two years, not to mention how affectionate you are, after all, he is a family man, and he also has a child, if you love him, you should quit by yourself, if you continue, in the end it will not only be the three of you, but the other woman and the child will be heartbroken, and the child is innocent. Don't force your adult feelings on your children, none of you are qualified to do so. You tell me?

Third, both of them love you, making it hard for you to choose, that's for sure. After all, they have been in a relationship for so long, but since it is emotional, you have to be responsible for yourself, the man you have loved for four years doesn't know how to cherish you, and knows that he has lost you, so he turns around and repents, is it useful? You've given more than just four years, has he ever seriously considered your feelings?

Also, a colleague who has been with you for two years, even if his family is very unhappy, but after all, he has children, if he doesn't even feel sorry for his own flesh and blood, do you think you will be happy with him?

Of course, this is just my personal opinion, just for reference, if you really want to choose one of them, I suggest you still choose the man you have been in love with for four years, think carefully why I would recommend you to choose him!!

He just likes you more, but he doesn't invest too much emotion, it's purely physical and physical like, it can't last long, it doesn't matter if you don't contact him for a month, you can see how deep his feelings are, you better give up, he doesn't deserve your nostalgia.

Actually, I think LZ should be with the person you like, which is responsible for you and your boyfriend.

I have two things to tell LZ, the first is that LZ thinks the person you like will be as good to you as your previous boyfriend? I like to have two concepts when you are together, maybe you think he is good now, but will you find other shortcomings after being together? Just as it is true that people are imperfect.

The second point is, how much does LZ like him now? Is it love or love? And whether he likes you too, or loves you. This should be clearly distinguished, and don't let go and regret it later.

If LZ thinks it's okay for the above two days, then please pluck up the courage to find the guy you like. Since you don't like what you have now, let's pursue your own happiness.

There's nothing wrong with pursuing someone you like, but what if the person you like doesn't like you? Even if you're together, it's not as good to you as your boyfriend? Will you still accept it?

What do you like about him? Ever thought about it? Let me tell you this, if you want to go more emotionally and easily in the future, you still choose to love your boyfriend, at least it will be easier, and it will be less hurt, if you feel that this kind of life does not belong to you, you just want to be with the person I like, even if it is hard, wronged, and hurt, I am willing, and I feel that harm is also a kind of happiness, then choose the latter, weigh it yourself, remember that as a woman, what is worth showing off in the future is not that you have found a handsome and rich man, or you have found a man you love so much Instead, I found a man who really loves you, loves you, and can make you live a good life in the future, and if I were you, I might choose the former.

There is no need to be accommodating.

If it is I choose the latter.

Don't hesitate anymore.

You're going to end up miserable for all three of you.

There are a lot of ** cases, all because of ......

You see, your original boyfriend was so good to you, you are like this, and he is still willing to accept that you have watched "Love Call Transfer", don't learn from the man in it.

Let's say you're with this boy who does Amway. Six or seven years later. Another boy has been chasing you for two years, and you will still abandon the current boy...

Your original boyfriend turned out to be so good...

I don't know if you like that boy or the boy's job, I don't know if if you're in love, it's a sudden touch in your heart, or like me, I'm dead set on you, 5 years, will you choose to give up your current boyfriend and love me? Even if you choose to love me, if a boy is chasing you for 10 hours, will you choose to give up on me and choose to fold him? My analogy is not to say that you are distracted, missed, or faulty, once a man wants to achieve any end, he is willing to use any means, once he succeeds, it will be meaningless for him, you may wonder How do I know the psychology of others Because I am a man In the world, I am calm down and think about nothing unexpected I once chased her for more than 2 years for a girl, and I have been together After being together, I found that I don't love her at all It is the psychology of a man Maybe I don't understand what is going on It is better to decide for yourself 3 Think about it If you get hurt one day, you're on the wrong path.

Regret doesn't help! Men are easy to find Good men can meet a few good men all over the world, let alone good men who are good to themselves.

People have to face the real feelings of the protagonist, but you already understand your heart, don't hesitate, you can't live with guilt for a lifetime, don't regret it later, because the person I like is leaving tomorrow, I understand my feelings, and I'm as stupid as you, he's so good.

You have to find out if the man really loves you, how much he loves, how many poor couples you see are still together, why do you say this, just because the other party loves each other deeply.

I want you to think seriously about who you love, who loves you the most, and who can give you a stable life.

First of all, love is selfish, and in your current pattern, someone will definitely get hurt, no matter how you choose, someone will hurt.

So since that's the case, it's better to choose the one you like the most, the most desirable and practical in your heart, there is no need to ask for other people's opinions on this kind of thing, just do what you say in your heart, even if there will be variables in the future, at least you won't regret it.

Don't regret what you didn't do later.

Men need love, but at this age, self-motivated men will focus on their careers.

The world of feelings is unclear, and impulsiveness is often greater than reason. It's better to calm down and think about it yourself, after all, it's about your own happiness.

Don't mess around. If you have a boyfriend, you have to live well.

I think I should put it and don't let myself be so tired!

If you are not married, you can choose freely!

You feel a little bit of love for your boyfriend, and he has for you. If you plan to continue dating, you must go, you can't be looked down upon, and you must show the posture of an independent woman, you must be at ease enough with your boyfriend, you must not be careful, you are not overindulgent, and you must have enough confidence to control a man's heart.

If I stand in that position, I hope that my girlfriend will be like that, neither looking childish, nor so flamboyant, and definitely a virtuous helper.

Stomach aches, refusal, and deception.

Don't go. They can't show off, you say???

The child is innocent, and you also said that it is possible that you will not be able to conceive in the future, so I don't recommend you **, no matter how you say it, you have to give birth to the child, the child cannot be without a father, so I suggest that you listen to your friend, get married first, it doesn't matter if there is no wedding, as long as he gives the bride price, anyway, your current relationship is like this, it is better to be married, there is a husband and wife relationship After giving birth to a child, the two of you still can't get along, you can divorce.