Why does it feel like not trusting anyone, not even parents, to believe it completely?

Because there is no security in your heart, you think too much.

It may be that you have been deceived before, and you have been deceived, very powerful, so you just. I don't trust others very much, in fact, you can choose to open your heart, there are always more good people in the world than bad people, so if you treat others sincerely, others will treat you sincerely! It doesn't matter if you are deceived once or twice, this society is like this, parents are the best people for yourself, of course you have to believe them.

It shows that you have a strong sense of vigilance, after all, it is indispensable to guard against others, but in any case, you must believe in your parents, because your parents are the people in the world who really treat you, if you don't even believe them, won't you feel sad in your heart?

I am too insecure, I should change my mindset and learn to trust others.

I didn't feel that way, but my parents also made me so sad that they didn't give me a cent of the bride price for their marriage, and said that I repaid them too little, and I paid them all the money I earned after graduating from school, and in the end I got married with nothing! Lack of love, children who have not been valued since childhood, grow up and get used to not believing in anyone, no, no Parents are still the most important relatives Even if they are a little materialistic and demanding, but they are still your dearest people Work harder to change the status quo People of their generation are at most afraid of poverty.

I feel that you are an extremely insecure person. This is actually a very bad situation, and I recommend that you see a psychologist.

If you just don't trust your friends, then I understand very well, maybe your friends don't give you enough security, but you say that you don't trust your parents anymore, which makes me feel a little bad and a bit of a serious problem. I feel that our parents should be the best and best people in the world who give us the most selfless love and the greatest love.

You say you don't trust your parents, then I can guess that your family is not harmonious, or maybe your parents have hurt you at some point and made you stop believing them, right?

Whatever the reason, humans are social animals, and a certain level of trust is necessary in human interactions. In fact, ordinary people are prejudiced against seeing a psychiatrist, thinking that neuropathy will only see a psychiatrist, but in fact, this is not the case, the psychiatrist is a kind of psychological guidance, after encountering setbacks, go to a psychiatrist to chat, or a good experience, which can help you quickly get out of the loss and frustration.

I've read a few simple psychological counseling books, I'm not alarmist, everyone has a sense of insecurity, everyone is the same, but that's moderate, among parents, friends, partners, there are always people who will let themselves let go of their defenses, but your situation is different, you are not believed by everyone, which can show that your insecurity has reached a certain level, and this problem is serious.

Trust is easier said than done, trust is also mutual, but life without anyone can trust is undoubtedly boring, I hope you can find someone you can trust. Bless you!!

Because in the eyes of your parents, you will always be a child, so they will not believe it if they are not at ease, not really because they don't believe it, but because they love you, they have this feeling of not being at ease, and they are always at ease.

Sometimes people in this world will use the original way of thinking to see the problem, stubborn, so they don't believe you, it's their business, you will be sad, very disappointed, but you can't change their deep-rooted ideas, you can only change your own thoughts, a relationship has no results, not necessarily a bad thing, loss is a good thing, it means that he is not suitable for you, don't rush into marriage, for those who have come over, marriage is a woman's grave, not even the edge of love.

My parents are also stubborn that marriage is the ultimate destination of women, but marriage makes many women miserable and lose themselves, you just need to be brave to be yourself, love yourself, be an independent modern woman, don't settle, love is hard to find, you still have friends without love, no friends, you still have yourself, love yourself is enough, there is no need to take superfluous people and things to heart, this life is too short, and bitter, for others to wronged themselves are not worth it, live in the moment, happy and comfortable.

Parents love their children too much and always want you to develop better. I've also experienced skepticism and figured it out later. In fact, some parents are not very good at expressing themselves, and their words may inadvertently mislead you.

It is recommended that you calm down your mood, and then communicate with your parents and express your true thoughts, they are your parents and will definitely be good for you. When you go down the wrong path in the future, you will understand how much your parents love you and care about you. The love of parents really can't be experienced as a child.

If you don't trust anyone, you must have been betrayed by your dearest ones, including your parents. What we need to do is not to trust others easily, and it is better to believe things after verification. We can't easily change anyone to the point where we can raise our vigilance.

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people. I hope you learn to protect yourself!

Maybe you have been betrayed and hurt by someone you trust, so you will have this kind of thought, if you can, try to establish a relationship of trust with your loved ones, on the premise of protecting yourself. In the process of growing up, everyone has pain and loneliness, when their hearts are strong enough, they will digest all negative thoughts, it may be that they feel that no one can protect themselves, if they can, try their best to establish an intimate relationship with their mother, maybe the aging mother can not let you be avoided, but if you can love her, you will also experience the true feelings and kindness from your relatives, and your heart will be warm, when you grow up, you can learn to protect yourself, and the most trusted person is only yourself.

Having this kind of thinking means that something happened to you, and maybe your parents are thinking about you from the perspective of someone who has come before. First of all, there is definitely more detail between parents and strangers. Secondly, sometimes when your parents' views are different from your own, you should consider them calmly.

Not trusting anyone can only make you uncomfortable with this society, and I don't think it's the best protection for yourself. The best protection is that someone trusts you and you have someone to trust, which is the best protection for yourself. Being on guard against everyone is the most tiring and losing the trust of others.

If you suddenly don't trust anyone for no reason, not even your own parents, you have to consider your own problems in this situation. It's understandable that you don't believe in other people, but your parents don't believe it either, this is definitely your problem.

I don't know what kind of situation you have encountered, but normal people should not have such a thing happen to you. You don't trust anyone as the best protection for yourself, so once you have a problem, or a physical problem, then who will help you?

So don't think that way. Each of us needs help.

This is what it is, this is human nature, and human nature is profit. After all, there are very few parents who are not worthy of their children's trust, perhaps because there are differences or opinions in the way out and life pursuits given.

Not believing anyone is a sign that you are insecure and have lost your sense of judgment, which is a sign that you have been hurt inside.

Your family and parents are not worth trusting, this state is very pitiful, so who else can you believe? Can you only believe in yourself? If you feel that this is the best protection for yourself, then you are also excluding yourself from society.

If you feel that no one is worth trusting, you can hide yourself appropriately, make your own decisions, and make yourself happy. Maybe you're not that distrustful.

It's a feeling of extreme insecurity, probably because something made you feel it out of nowhere. However, we should not look at the problem to the extreme, but still weigh it comprehensively.

This cannot be understood in this way.

If no one believes you, how can you get other people to protect you, are you really sure that you can protect yourself?

People live in the world, to establish a layer of links with family and friends, and this link ultimately constitutes trust, if you don't even trust these people, then how do you build this link, and then to live?

I lost my food because of choking, friend.

You can divide people into levels where you can borrow 200, 500, or 1000 yuan, and if you don't believe that you are lonely, at least there will be someone with you.

Everything that exists can be measured by value.

Subconscious, just like your own child often lies, you can't tell the truth from the child's mouth, maybe your own child occasionally lies once in a while but is remembered by adults, how can my child lie, the next time you speak, always remind you that he has been panicked, and over time plant a seed of doubt in his heart. When you find out that others are also lying to you, next time you will doubt the truth of his words and turn to believe the next one.

Your parents would rather believe in outsiders than their children, maybe because their children have done something to make their parents sad, or disappointed their parents, or the children have lied in front of their parents, etc., of course, parents also have misjudgments, if you yourself are right, then the truth will soon be revealed Your parents do not believe that one day they will understand, and it is normal for parents to misunderstand their children, and children to misunderstand their parents, Don't have too much of an opinion or opinion about your parents.

Because they know their children too well, children always lie and deceive themselves, and when they were young, they were afraid of being criticized and punished for telling the truth, so they developed the habit of lying. As a result, there is no trust between parents and children, and they prefer to trust others.

Because in the eyes of parents, the child may have a certain cognition, but when some situations arise, based on time, he wants to see what mistakes the child has made, but he forgets to listen to what the child is thinking first? What is the process? Therefore, parents must believe in their children and do not trust others easily.

Because in the eyes of your parents, you are just a child, and your mind is not yet mature. And the parents did not see the cause and process of the incident, so when the child is talking to the parents, the parents prefer to believe others.

Because they think you are a child, so what you say is very untrustworthy, those outsiders are adults or children who seem to be well-behaved on the surface, so they will choose to believe outsiders, in fact, the main reason is that you have not communicated properly with your parents.

Because children usually don't give them a sense of trust, they would rather trust outsiders than their own children, but this practice is very hurtful to children's hearts, and it may also be because of the lack of communication between parents and children.

Parents believe in others but do not believe in their children, this is likely because some of the children's usual behaviors are not good, or the children are relatively young, after all, sometimes other people's opinions are not necessarily wrong!

I just thought that my child would become a fool and be dishonest, so he would trust outsiders, but it is not certain, and there may be many reasons.

I don't think parents say that they don't believe in their children, in their hearts, their children are their favorite, but they always want their children to be better, so they just want to know what other people's eyes are like to their children.

It may be that the child has done a lot of wrong things before, and the parents no longer trust him, as long as they correct it in time, the parents will believe him in the future.

I think parents will still believe their children, but the way parents express themselves is different. Because good education methods are the most beneficial to children, as parents, you must trust your children. To be a child, you also need to understand your parents.

First: Are you their biological son? Check it out.

Second: I haven't been with my parents for a long time, and I lack the usual communication with my parents** and my heart.

Third: Observe whether there is something unspeakable about the parents to make such a decision, maybe you only see the surface. Ask a neighbor or relative about it.

Fourth: Parents are always thinking about their children, and children will always love their parents, unless there is a problem with one of them, review what is wrong with themselves.

Fifth: sit down with your parents, talk about your heart, only talk about family trivialities, and talk about the hardships outside (don't talk about the house for the time being). Think about your parents too, don't get angry easily. Talk. It's a clash of hearts.

Sixth: Call your elders, the elders of the village. Someone you can trust and have a good grasp of the whole level to help guide or communicate with your parents. Take a look at it yourself from the side.

Sixth: Whoever is at fault, don't blame it too much, and make sure to correct it. Strengthen the communication and exchange of family affection. Because I believe that people are emotional creatures, let alone the parents who raised you.

Follow the six suggestions above to solve the problem, and trust me. It will be of great help to you, put your mind in good shape and bless your family.