Why do many couples and couples not know how to express what they want to each other?

The more couples, the more they want to maintain a good image in front of each other, show their best side, in fact, these are some very normal things, you can also think about it, when you encounter something that you want the other party to give you, how to speak, too straightforward The other party will feel that you want him to send you something, but he thinks that you are too materialistic, not straightforward, and feel that they can't understand your true meaning at all.

Relatives can directly say what they want, and let your parents buy it for you, isn't it, your children themselves should be spoiled and loved. But lovers will inevitably want you to understand what she means, let you know what she wants, but there are always some people who can't understand your true meaning, just like a madha, don't understand your meaning, then you will naturally be very disappointed. Because he cares about him too much, he inevitably wants him to understand his careful thoughts, but he just doesn't understand.

It's too straightforward to feel like there are no surprises, no romance, it's just a very simple thing, no heart, treat him as a trivial thing to do, so it will lack a lot of the little mood you want. But after a long time, there will be anything, after all, after a long time, you will understand each other better, better understand each other's preferences, that is, the so-called can do what they like, certain behaviors, small details, if you notice, you will naturally know what the other party wants. Of course, if you know what you want at the beginning, it is naturally better, but if you don't understand, then you can take your time.

If you are a husband and wife, it is another scenario, he will not be like when he was in love, he will be obedient to you, obedient, sometimes it is good to be able to give you some, you say what you want, he sometimes always thinks that you spend money indiscriminately, think you are a loser, naturally these wants, I don't know how to express them, so as not to let the other party misunderstand or something.

In fact, I personally think that many people are like this, maybe he himself doesn't know what he wants, and then maybe two people care about each other very much, and then sometimes they don't want to say it directly, and there are many couples who may like small surprises, even if they want anything, they won't say it directly, I want you to feel it yourself, this is something to say, although it's very tiring to say this, but if you can understand each other, it's still very good, often small surprises.

In fact, it is related to communication, and it is also related to the way the two get along, for women, they want their husbands or boyfriends to understand what they want, and boys feel too familiar, and they don't need to worry about what they need.

Because they are embarrassed to explain their thoughts directly, and it is vague to say them.

Because there will be some concerns before speaking, and I am worried that the other party will have some other thoughts after speaking.