Is there a single sentence or moment that makes you disheartened by your roommate?

We used to get along with each other, talk to each other all the time, I want to be able to live in this happy time all the time, although we can't avoid growing up, but there are many moments when we are happy, just as time goes by, there may be a moment when you will be disheartened by your most trusted friend, roommate.

When I was in college, I was the first person to arrive at our dormitory, I waited quietly in the dormitory for roommates to come slowly, so we changed from the initial ignorance to the relationship between classes and meals in the future, every time I saw the relationship between other roommates who were easy to quarrel, I felt that I was in a happy dormitory environment, and there was a group of roommates who never made awkward scenes.

But then they refreshed my worldview, I think that as a student who can go to college, the most basic filial piety must be there, and then I know that thrift, the family is not so wealthy, and it turns out that I have a roommate who is really strange, his favorite thing is to play games, whether it is online games or mobile games, every time I persuade him to say that you don't charge money into the game, and you don't earn it yourself, why spend it at home.

I didn't listen to it for a long time.,Then I'll forget it.,I can't be nosy about his own family affairs.,The most hated thing is that school just started this year.,The dormitory is just me and him.,He hit ** and told his mother that he wanted to buy an all-in-one machine.,There was already a laptop.,Maybe because the configuration is not very good.,Hearing the tone of his mother and his mother**,I suddenly felt really why this happened.,Maybe I thought too much.。

As a result, a few days later, a computer of more than 4,000 has been installed on the table, in addition to playing games or playing games all day long, I really want to persuade him not to be in this way, turn off playing games and buy computers on the Internet The money is estimated to be tens of thousands, you can imagine this terrible.

So at that moment, I felt that I had made a roommate by mistake, and now he has changed a lot, and some people may think that other people's private affairs have nothing to do with you, but I think that as children, at least the least filial piety must be had.

Don't say that you ask this and that every day, don't tell your parents if you have something, don't let them worry about everything, it's best to carry everything yourself.

I hope that when we encounter this situation in the future, we will have our own solutions, don't be discouraged and feel that nothing has happened after that, try to dissuade the other party to let him change, so that everything can go back to the original state, and we can also have a dear and lovely roommate.

When we went to college, our roommates were like family, and we lived with them every day. In college, we didn't know the classmates very well, because we could see each other almost only in class, so we had the closest relationship with our roommates. But roommates are not family after all, they care most about themselves.

I remember one time we participated in an event about voting together in our dormitory, and the rules of the event said that as long as the number of votes in the dormitory went from low to high, the prizes would gradually increase. Among them, there are prizes such as a ticket to an amusement park that can be found in the dormitory, and even better, other gifts such as cash. We all thought how nice it would be to go together in a dorm room.

So we went crazy canvassing. However, it was only me and another roommate who were really canvassing for votes. Several other people can guarantee that they will vote once a day, and their families will vote once.

It was just me and another roommate, trying our best to find almost all the friends on the list, even good friends, friends of friends who were canvassing for us. My good friends have more canvassing than a few of them. At that time, voting had to be held for several days in a row, so it was inevitable that even in class, the topic of voting would be discussed or replied to.

Then one of my roommates saw that I was probably trying too hard to get to the point of going crazy, and he said to me, "You're crazy."

yes, I'm crazy, just the two of us voting for the top 10 all the time, and the two of us are competing with other dorm mates or even a dorm room in order to win a dorm room to hang out. None of this seems to have anything to do with them. Their mentality is that it doesn't matter, just get it when you get it, forget it if you can't get it, anyway, I didn't sacrifice anything, I just spent a minute every day to vote.

So I was chilled, but I couldn't say anything about the same dormitory.

Recently, at the request of the college, our dormitory was swapped with other dormitories. During the exchange process, there will inevitably be conflicts between the two bedrooms. However, when my roommates find that the other dorms are doing something wrong and threaten the interests of our dorm or obviously bully our dorm, they will only complain in the dormitory, but they dare not say a word from the other dorm, maybe for fear of offending people.

So I did all these offends, and I was asked to say all the bad things, well, I'm so stupid. To offend other dormitories for the sake of their own dormitories.

Many roommates always only care about themselves, even if they want to do something for the dormitory, they must not hurt their own interests. What they advocate is not to harm the interests of the dormitory, but they will never sacrifice anything for the dormitory. So, if you can't get used to it, you can only endure it.

Whenever I find out that my roommate is like this, I feel very disappointed, disheartened, and helpless. Maybe they are too stupid, they are rational and know how to protect themselves. But I can't learn and can't do it.

I'm a very righteous person, and I take special care of my roommates every time. single-mindedly, but in the end nothing good came of.

I remember for a while, I didn't live in the dorm because I lived with my boyfriend during that time, so I would bring breakfast to my roommate every morning when I came to work. I treat her like my best friend, and I want her to be able to eat the breakfast I bought when she opens her eyes. Year after year, every day.

I'm trying to figure it out for her. I thought she would be impressed, but she told me one day that she didn't want to eat breakfast at all.

That sentence made me disheartened by her, and since then, I haven't brought her breakfast. I will never do anything for anyone for free.

A lot of the time it's my own wishful thinking, others don't want to accept my kindness at all, I'm just directing and acting on my own, no one applauds me at all, no one affirms me, and I suddenly feel very sad. I used to care so much about having her, so much hope to have a good friendship. But I was wrong, no matter how much I paid, I couldn't get a friendship, I couldn't get recognition, she just thought I was wishful thinking, she didn't ask me to do anything, and I was asking for everything.

I finally understood that not all of my friends will understand what I have done, and not all of my friends will be grateful for my efforts. There aren't that many true friends. From then on, I no longer gave stupidly, I didn't have so much enthusiasm for anything, until I met a real friend later, whether I gave it or not, she would be very good to me, and she felt that I was the best meeting in her life.

No matter what I do, she agrees, and she will give me a lot, but the difference is that I will affirm her efforts and will respond to her.

Because the friend said she didn't want to eat breakfast, I got disheartened with her and didn't see her as a friend anymore, and I thought, that's fine, at least then I met a real friend and I'm satisfied.

Sometimes he holds a sincere heart to be a roommate, but he still dislikes your heart is not warm, and sometimes he feels that his roommate is very frustrating, and thinks that his own hypocrisy is at work, in fact, in the final analysis, no one needs to report to you after you pay, the payment is voluntary, but you will feel disheartened in an instant if you don't get a return.

After going to college, I had a good relationship with a girl in the dormitory, she was very beautiful, and many people chased her in a club, she joined the same club with another girl in our dormitory, and the two of them were also more talkative, and had a hearty personality, one of the roommates had an object in the club, and then my roommate who had a good relationship also had an ambiguous object, and the four of them often went to sing K on weekends, and my roommate with the best relationship wouldn't tell me, every time she didn't come back, I would worry about her safety, ask her, She told me that I forgot to tell you, and that the four of us were going to play. Later, the four of them often went out together, and finally they became friends in pairs. Because the two of them are a club, and then the four of them are all clubs, they are more happy to chat and often get together.

My roommate, who I had a good relationship with, would often ignore my presence. They came to travel together at the beginning of school, and went to Shandong to play in May, and then the most frustrating thing for me was that once the four of them were going to move out and live, and they didn't live in the dormitory, I was basically the last one in our dormitory to know, I was very sad at the time, really, I felt a sense of betrayal, she didn't tell me anything, I was so worried about her every time.

It's very frustrating, such a good friend, a good roommate, is no different from that. So be it.

Yes, you can't, this sentence.

But everyone gets tired, no one can bear all the sorrow for you, there is always a time when people have to learn to grow up on their own. Whenever I was discouraged, I would choose to develop a new hobby, during which I learned to knit scarves, paint oil paintings, calligraphy, Go, and ocarina. Then I became more and more confident and felt that life was still good.

When you are discouraged, you can also do some things that you didn't want to do before, for example, you didn't want to run before, and when you are discouraged, you go for a run, and after a while, you will feel that you can even run, and those things are not a big deal.

Of course, being disheartened is a normal human emotion, and almost everyone will have such a period of time, don't reject yourself, accept your thoughts, and ask yourself if this thing is really that bad? We'll see what the results are tomorrow. Although it is not a good thing to procrastinate, it is better to put off for a while to see the things that make you feel disheartened, and when the external conditions change and your mood changes, you will not feel that the world is dark.

In short, it's about being comfortable with yourself and doing things that are fun.

In fact, there are many different things that will happen with everyone, such as he will make you happy, for example, he will make you sad, for example, he will make you angry, and for example, he will make you disheartened and disappointed, so getting along with roommates will also encounter the above situations. So I'm going to talk about those words or moments that made me disheartened with my roommates!

For example, once I went out with two roommates, because I was faster than them, so I waited for them, and then they ran out of the door after they cleaned up, and the lights and fans in the dormitory were not turned off or locked, and I was actually not angry with them at that time, I did everything myself, and told them if they could go out in the future, and also turned off the lights in the dormitory, turned off the fans, and brought the door, but one of the roommates said, you are the last to come out, you can get it, That's how it is. <>

Then I was very uncomfortable, feeling that she didn't consider my feelings at all, because after all, I had already packed up and was waiting for them, I could have come out in advance, and then he didn't care about my feelings and said this, so I said that you think I can't go out early for you to clean up, it's not because I'm waiting for you, and then he just said, she will be like this when she goes out last time in the future, so what else can I say, I'll say okay.

But my heart is very sad, after all, the dormitory belongs to everyone, and it needs to be maintained by everyone, so that our relationship will be more friendly, the relationship between the dormitory will be more harmonious, and we can be happy together every day without being so sad, so the university dormitory is a place where everyone needs to think about other people, so that we can get along more friendly.

Yes, that sentence: Ignore her, let her be, love as you want.

Makes me disheartened.

It is never a straw that breaks the camel's back, and all the moments that seem to you have his long foreshadowing. People's hearts are slowly cooling, how can there be discouragement in an instant, and some can only be seen through over time.

Heart death is a momentary feeling, but before this there must be a lot of accumulation of negative emotions, when people feel unbearable and want to collapse, there is a feeling of "heart death".

Like an avalanche, it is a process from quantitative change to qualitative changeIn the process, the amount of snow increases to a critical point, and eventually collapses completely. All this has been secretly brewing for a long timeA gunshot rang out in the wilderness of the valley, a shout, all of them are just the cause of this disaster.

And the decisive factor of a high-quality relationship that will not collapse is precisely that the force points of both parties are even, which boils down to four wordsNeck and neck. ThisThere are two more dimensions in the four words:Mental parity as well as emotional parity, the former determines whether your morpheme can be received by the other party without error, and the latter determines whether the other party is willing to accept it.

When you notice that you are no longer evenly matched with the other person, please withdraw silently, and don't have to wait for the other person to send a death flag in the chat that causes you to die instantly

You must know that the natural melting of snow is a kind of scenery, and the passive collapse of snow is a kind of disaster.

There are many small moments in life, and there are many things that are worth discovering and remembering.

Friends who want to see this answer. In their limited but colorful lives, they can find the person who is worthy of remembering all the beautiful moments for him and her, and be loved forever.