Parenting problems, I really don t have a problem with him

Children are not sensible, and they usually pay more attention, and there is no big deal.

Doing homework is just a form of education, and if the little ones are not happy, they will naturally be absent-minded. For him to learn, he doesn't have to do homework. Since homework is just a form, you can also find other forms that children like, such as trying mind games and the like, there are a lot of such things on the Internet, he likes them, and he can also learn things.

There are also children at this age who are at the best stage of intellectual development and cannot spend most of their time on something as boring and boring as homework. It is the right thing to develop his intellectual and creative ability, his imagination

Hope it helps.

It is normal for a child to be naughty, first observe whether he has hobbies, such as coaxing with sugar, not doing it, not giving sugar, etc.

In fact, there is a big problem in China's education, in fact, to get the first place, you only need to follow the teacher's train of thought, and you can work hard, but what I want to say now is, what is the use of getting the first place? It can be said that now teachers are not teaching knowledge, but how to get high scores. Does a high score prove that you have learned a lot?

Not necessarily. It's like the question you just mentioned. The knowledge covers a wide range of topics and has a lot of content.

What the teacher teaches you is just a little scratch in the textbook. According to the survey, Chinese students are the most diligent in their studies, and American students are not as diligent as Chinese students when they get up early and go to bed late, but why do they have so many talents in the United States? Can you say that geniuses are all born in the United States?

Why do so many people in the United States win the Nobel Prize? How many Nobel Prizes have won in China? The key is education!

Everyone advocates quality education, but has China really done it? Most schools don't do this now, they want a promotion rate, who cares if you learn real knowledge? The scope of learning is very wide, don't lock your eyes on the textbook, pay more attention to the outside world, there are many benefits.

You only need to start with the basics of English.

Your English is not good, you can't talk about anything.

Go to the community college where you live and they will tell you in detail what to do, but now that it's out for the holidays and classes start in January, you can ask right away.

Some universities offer ESL (English as Second Language) courses, so ask for them. Ask the community college first, as tuition is cheaper. Also, find a part-time job (warehouse management, etc.) that doesn't require a lot of language, and practice English.

A year or two is good enough.

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Start by making a plan. Children's education actually starts at the age of 0, and they may not be uneducated in their hometown, but they may not be educated enough, and they may be lacking in both morality and knowledge. But it's not that you can't educate, and it's not too late to make amends.

Be confident.

1. For the weak character, it may be that he is not confident, analyze the characteristics of the original living environment, which has a role in the formation of this character, whether it is just a simple reprimand and other education methods in his hometown, less than the communication with adults, and his own difficulties in getting along with others, etc., he can be encouraged to solve some problems by himself, socialize with children, and pay more attention to nutrition, exercise, etc., with age, there will be a good improvement.

2. High pressure is useless when it comes to solving lying. Because the formation of lying is mostly due to the fear that you will not do well, and a negative escape from others to cover up the facts. Therefore, parents should care more, instead of blaming and scolding, and pay attention to the role of cultivating integrity on people to guide, adults must first do a good job, to be consistent with words and deeds, and set an example for children.

3. For learning, parents have to do more, if the foundation is not good, it is recommended to start with the basic knowledge. I think that the view that "children's poor learning is caused by carelessness" is wrong, and publicizing it to children is not conducive to children's formation of a good attitude. Make a study plan for your child, don't aim too high, and slowly develop your child's learning ability.

In addition, you can do some small games to improve concentration, which is not only interesting but also helps children develop good habits of thinking and learning.

In addition, we must pay attention to the moral education of children. This is especially important.

Educating children is a big project, which requires the joint efforts of parents, teachers and children themselves, and parents can read more books on educating children, which is very beneficial to children's growth.

I agree with the opinion upstairs: "The main reason is that the child has been away from you for too long, and the relationship of trust and dependence has not been established with the parents. ”

Your love can make you not be rough with him and hurt him under any circumstances, and there is no need for him to hide himself and disguise himself;

Your love can often discover his strengths and loveliness, and constantly encourage him to find confidence and know what he should do. One of my teachers, a well-known educator in China, once said a very classic saying: "Praise is more effective than criticism at all times." ”

Only pay attention to grades and do not pay attention to children's moral training.

Only pay attention to book knowledge, but do not pay attention to the cultivation of social practice.

Children generally stick to their parents, and there must be some reason for not sticking.

For example, do you bring your own children, or do you bring them to your parents?

Do you spend a lot of time with your children?

How is the relationship between husband and wife, do you often quarrel or something?

A 2-year-old child won't rebel, he must think that you are not a relative. Others are loved ones.

You see who he kisses with.

Be patient, just watch him from the sidelines, and slowly get him used to your presence.

Try to let go and let him learn to be independent, you might as well follow him from the sidelines.

It's so normal, it's like this at the age of 2-3. It would be nice to grow up.

I should be happy to be so independent.