We ve been together for 7 years, and she lied to me and left me, but I still love him, should I keep

I also just broke up, not long ago. My girlfriend was very resolute, and I tried my best to keep it, but she still left.

My ex-girlfriend and I have been in love for four years since our freshman year, and this year we were admitted to graduate school together at a prestigious university in China. But it's easy to fall in love, it's too difficult to get along, and we still broke up. I watched her grow from an innocent little girl to a rational and stubborn woman, and it was sad to think about it, but life is like that.

Calm yourself down and plan your life for the rest of your life. When you love each other, believe that she does love you. When she says she doesn't love you, then she really doesn't love you anymore, you don't have to force it, and you can't force it.

With gratitude, let go of your hands. I am grateful to my ex-girlfriend for inspiring me to fight for two people and to make me understand the responsibilities of a man. She accompanied me from the age of 18 to 22, and she was an indelible person in my life.

However, our life has just begun, love is not all that a man in his twenties is, our experience is not enough, our wisdom and ability are not enough, and we still have nothing.

For oneself, do one's best and fulfill one's destiny; For lovers, do their best and obey the destiny of heaven.

I think that if it is not a matter of principle, it can be considered forgiven, 7 years! Can you bear it?

I feel that I should leave, in love, sincerity is very important, if you add some deceptive impurities to this relationship, or make your relationship not stable, because it is like a time bomb, once touched, it will hurt both parties, and even many people around you, which is a very cost-effective practice.

1. Love needs to be sincere When you fall in love with someone, you may lose your mind, you are willing to do anything for him, and you are willing to believe in him, but your sincerity may not be able to exchange for his sincerity, he may deceive you, because he may not love you, he approaches you or chooses to stay by your side for a purpose, then, this relationship is full of danger, you don't need to waste your youth and time for such a person, and decisively turn away, It can reduce the kind of damage that the relationship brings to you.

Second, deception can not make love last long He deceived you, you have to figure out what he deceived you, if it is "he is married, tell you that he is single, he already has children, tell you that he is still married" and other principled issues, you must be decisive to leave, because this is very unacceptable, if she is just hiding some small problems, you can forgive yourself, then, you can stay and discuss it to see how to solve it.

3. Leave those who lie all day long Some people are accustomed to lying, he deceives you for the first time, there will be a second time, for the kind of person who lies all day long, give up, your love is to increase the bargaining chips for him to hurt you, you leave decisively now, it is to reduce your pain, you leave early, you can find the person you really love, the person you love.

In love, you can't blindly give, when your pay is in exchange for deception, you must maintain a rational judgment, after all, people can't hang themselves on a tree, there are always people who really love you.

I feel that I should leave him, because in my own concept, love is not allowed to be deceived, even white lies I can't stand it, I feel that since we love each other, we should be honest with each other.

He should be left from him, if he really loves you, he will not cheat on you, and since he cheated on you, you should not let the relationship continue.

Of course, you should leave, there is deception in the relationship, then there is no way to continue, this kind of thing cannot be settled.

He can cheat you for a year, so you still haven't left him, and are you still waiting for him to cheat? Those who love you don't have to wait long, and those who don't love you won't fall in love with you for a lifetime.

You should definitely leave, such a relationship can be said to be meaningless, because there is deception in this feeling.

Of course, he should leave him, and now that the facts have been clarified, he must choose to leave.

First of all, think about why you miss her so much? Just because I love her, I still feel that you are reluctant to spend four years and think about this problem clearly; Then, as such an old child raised by your family, for your own studies, your parents' hard work, at such a critical moment, in this transition period into society, you should plan your work well and enrich yourself, so as to be worthy of the fact that you have read so many books and your parents have worried so much about you; Of course, a person always has feelings, but you must know that control, this is a sign of maturity, don't blindly think how good that girl is, whether a person is friends with anyone, there will always be feelings in four years, you have to understand yourself. I hope you work hard, it's just a test of life, I hope you can find your new life soon!

She has been in love for four years and she has gone with someone else, obviously she is tired of the time with you, for this reason, you should not be too persistent, there are still a lot of good girls, once a woman changes her mind, she will not turn back in any case, even if she has a conscience to turn back, she is just because of sympathy and pity for you, definitely not love, so, what you should do now, is not to save her, but to clean up your mood and work hard, I believe there will be the next good girl waiting for you, come on, good luck.

Judging by your title, the girlfriend left "suddenly". Suddenly I noticed. So in response to the questions and descriptions you raised, let me ** my opinion, see you laugh:

1. You used the word "suddenly", have you quietly thought about how sudden it was, whether you didn't notice anything, or found a little bit, or found some, or found most of the abnormal situations (it can be understood that your girlfriend is empathetic and don't fall in love, or you are not good enough for him?). Or is there a gap between you? Or some other external reason that causes a rift in your relationship, etc.).

2. Who is this other person, do you know it, and has your girlfriend mentioned it in front of you? What was the relationship between your girlfriend and that person?

3. You say, "I find you still... From this sentence, I can conclude that you accepted the breakup at the beginning, and it was not your girlfriend who unilaterally proposed it, and you did not agree to it. Otherwise, you wouldn't be using "I found ...

4. Don't look down on yourself, everyone has the right to pursue love, and they all have the right to love anyone psychologically, morally speaking, you are still single now, and you are not sorry for anyone, it is normal to think about her, after all, it has been 4 years of relationship.

In view of the above 4 points, I put forward 4 suggestions, which can be referred to.

1. Breaking up is not for no reason. This sudden, literally should be very fast, fast you can't accept. But before you break up, whether you are you or her or whether there is something wrong with you, you can think about it carefully. Whose reason the hell is it.

2. That person, do you understand? What's your relationship with and your girlfriend like? Is it because of the problems in your relationship that the other person has the opportunity to take advantage of it?

But it's over, don't think about it so much. The intensification of contradictions in the province. If it's your own reason (just if), then look at the point, what woman doesn't want to find someone she can rely on for life.

If you have her reason, look at it and bless her.

3. Think about the process of breaking up, who proposed it, and how it was accepted. Can I recreate the mood at that time, although it seems to be revealing the scar, but since I accepted it at the beginning, let's be happy.

4. Just graduated, there is a bright future waiting for you, come on, young people, just arrived in the society, unit, company, there are many things waiting for you to learn, and there will be greater pressure to test you later.

In fact, love time doesn't mean anything She left with someone else Maybe someone else has good economic conditions, mature humor, and power So she found what she needs Her departure can only show that she is unkind Your love for her can only show that you are single-minded in love Maybe this is not needed for her If you try to redeem it It doesn't make sense Or get out of this shadow relationship early to choose your true love. Come on.

Men shouldn't be depressed There is more than one woman in the world You can't hold her hand because you don't have enough money It's better to travel and indulge yourself Since she left with someone this time You should work harder to learn a lesson Go down Don't let your woman go with others There is nowhere in the world will let Fangcao You can't forget him It's something you haven't seen and followed.

Forget about her with other things, don't think about her, find something to replace her, raise fish and turtles, what is good to raise and don't take time, everyone has someone else, just die, bless you to come out.

I understand that at that time, for two months, during the day I tried not to think about her, and as a result, I dreamed of her every night. Later, I met with her, had a meal, she changed, and found that the person I loved actually no longer exists, I love a past her, I'm fine, you can try.

If you still have a play, just chase it.

I don't know, forgive me for saying I don't know, I don't know how to make plans for you, I'm the same as you, I've been waiting for someone. I don't want to give up, even if he rejects me again and again, I don't give up, I believe I will wait until him.

It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone you love the most, what is forgetting? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one. To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it. If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

That's a beautiful place in your heart......There's a saying"You don't have to marry someone you love, and you don't have to marry someone you like. "To live a life, you have to find a man who can live a life A woman You don't necessarily have to find someone you like Think about it yourself If it's love then how to live life In the current era, you need everything Money Happiness Struggle Career Have a happy family Maybe you and she are not people of the same world Happy let go of her hand Say chic: I wish you happiness The opposite of love is not hate and forgetfulness You still care about ta So you won't forget If you really want to forget Keep yourself busy and arrange a lot of things to do, whether it's work or fun.

Give yourself no time to think about anything else. Tire your body a little, lie down and fall asleep right away! Don't be alone, be sure to be with friends.