I fell in love for 3 years in college, and in the last summer of my junior year, she proposed to me

My daughter-in-law and I also started dating when we went to college, and after we graduated, he and she went to graduate school, and I struggled a lot to stay in the same city with her. In the end, she became my wife, and I had to fight for everything.

Hello! A cursory ......Personally, I think! Just listen to it!

Actually, you can't tell that she's ready to leave, so no matter how much you do, it's in vain......Let's suppose! What about her change of heart now and stay with you in the future? She'll complain!

In fact, college love needs the firmness of two people to laugh to the end! You are enthusiastic, but she is as cold as ice, why bother? I think you guys should talk about it!

As for your future, let it be......You've done your best......Leave a little space for each other......Who can stay when she wants to go? Got it? Bless you!

Twisted melons are not sweet! She says you don't care enough about her, you don't care enough about her, and that's not the point. The point is that she says you have a bad personality!

It's been 3 years and still haven't adapted to your character. That's basically hopeless! Brother, no matter how much you love her, don't force it.

If she wants to leave, you can't pull it. It's better to leave some respect and good memories for everyone. Giving up is also a form of love!

Or too many rumors around you.

It is said that when college ends, love will end. I think that's the case when I hear it a lot.

Hehe! Writing so much, you can see that you are very attentive and sincere. So I want to say a few words to you.

From your narrative, I can realize that your love is real, it was true, and it is true now. The happiness and noise of the past are now transformed into good memories in your heart. However, it is these good memories that want to be a needle and pierce your heart all the time.

You feel heartache all the time, and it is precisely because of heartache that you miss your previous memories even more. That's the vicious circle you're in right now. There's no way you're going to extricate yourself.

Extrication! So what can I do? As an outsider, let me start with a question for you. What do you think is the relationship between love and life?

You may seem to know each other, you may have thought about it, and you may even have an answer. This and that ......

In fact, love and life have nothing to do with each other, they are two sides of human beings. It's like a cube with six faces. There is no relationship between the two faces.

I mean to tell you. It's good that you love him, but you don't have to live with him. In the same way, the fact that she is living with someone else now does not mean that you were not true love.

Don't doubt her, and don't doubt yourself. Let go of her, and let go of yourself.

Finally, I recommend you to watch two loves, but the greatness of each love is not just two people.

First, the relationship between Lu You, Tang Wan, and Zhao Shicheng, and the relationship between Lin Huiyin, Liang Sicheng, Jin Yuelin, and Xu Zhimo.

To love someone, you don't have to be together. As long as you have it, it can be eternal!

If she really doesn't love you, you can't do anything about chasing after you, you should let it go, don't delay your own future.

The other half comes! You all often have a small quarrel for three days, a big quarrel for five days, and it's not interesting for the two of you to be together. If it's not suitable, you should bring it up early, don't get on another relationship, if you really can't let it go, you can ask her out to make it clear, it's not a way for you to be depressed like this!

She has such hot and cold feelings for you, don't you think it's so hard, it's like saying that a woman's mood is destined by heaven for three points, and seven points depends on shopping, or forget her early!

Put down a person.

There are people, one.

Months; Some people, a year;

Some people, for a lifetime;

Everyone's personality is different, which creates the love and hatred of this world, the right and wrong of grievances, and also makes this world full of all kinds of joys and sorrows, maybe this is life, otherwise, everyone has the same personality, so what do you need so-called emotional experts for? In fact, many emotional experts have also summarized some of their own views from their emotional experiences, and after more experience, they will mature!

Brother is a very emotional person, and it can be seen that he is also a very kind person, but kindness does not mean that others will treat you the same while you pay! People always change, and some people, even if they change, the innocence of their hearts will not change; And some people, with the change of time and environment, will change, can not say that they (she) is not good, it means that they have their own pursuit, so, when the brother can not give each other this pursuit, she feels that you can not give her what she needs, then everything you do will not get any return, she can not feel your true feelings, what are you still looking forward to? No matter how much you look forward to it, she won't take it to heart.

You should cherish the people around you, cherish the people who love you, the only way is to let yourself go out, smile and face everything around you, time will dilute the memory, just take it as a good memory, don't hate her, enrich yourself, show yourself, express yourself. Maybe when she's having a bad time, she might come to you again; At this time, you are married and have children, you can proudly tell her: I have the person I love the most, you go to find the person who really loves you!

I believe that my brother will be able to get out of the brink of pain. Because there are people who love you, and the people you love are on the next corner, many times, we will meet many people in our lives, she may be the deepest you love, but she must not be your most cherished love. Bless you, brother!

After reading what you said, I think, if we can be together, let's be together.

Even if everyone thinks that you don't need to be together, as long as you are reluctant, don't be too decisive.

I don't want to, you'll regret it later.

In fact, no matter what others think of him, he is always the best in your eyes.

Maybe you will meet better in the future, but for now, you can't deny your feelings.

If it's really that easy to let go, then you don't care, or rather, you don't have feelings for him at all.

If people can really be free and easy, then people don't deserve to have emotions. Just use a mechanical mind to weigh the importance of things, as well as your own interests, you can't get it.

As long as you live, there will always be things that don't go your way.

If it's smooth sailing, then it can't be called life.

True love, even if you can afford it, others may not be able to reciprocate it.

At most, it's called caring.

No one else is to blame for this. can only say that the timing of your meeting is not right, and you are not the person in his heart who was first moved.

However, this does not mean that he doesn't care about you, he just doesn't know who he prefers now, even himself.

She said it, it's worship.

She just doesn't understand it yet. If you are really good to her, he will naturally understand after a long time.

I want to say, if we can be together, let's be together.

The reason why you hesitate and give up is because he still has places that make you reluctant to give up, and you have not yet lost all your thoughts.

I also want to say, if you can separate, you can separate.

When it really got to that point, she made up her mind and lived a good life, and you don't need to say anything, you already know what to do.

There is pulling, there is strife, it is life. Real, within reach.

Also, a word of advice, a sentence that has been used rottenly: for people, what you can't get is the best.

But you can let your girlfriend know that what he gets, is better than what he doesn't.

It's hard. Not.

The main thing you need to do now is to sort out your mood, and life still has to go on.

Seeing that you care about her so much, I believe you don't want her to come back and see you, it's like this.

Live your life with peace of mind, wait for him to come back with peace of mind, and he will understand.

One final word. Stop in moderation, and if your girlfriend really finds her happiness, give it up.

People who don't care about you, even if you are humble to the bones, he doesn't care.

In fact, it is useless for others to say how much, only if you want to open it yourself, you will understand.

Whatever decision you make, I only hope that you will not regret it.

I always feel that the emotional thing is very simple, two people happen to have feelings for each other, and then together, guarding their respective hearts, if one party fails to keep, then the other party has become wishful thinking, love is two people, if it becomes one-sided, then everything is meaningless, but it is to get my luck, lose my life, the sea of people, who knows, next time will not be lucky? Two people holding hands together, in fact, is a very simple thing, the important thing is to get along, everywhere out of love, everywhere out of the taste, in order to owe for a long time, otherwise they are just passers-by, no matter how much entanglement is just in the past mistakes again.

In this way, I want to persuade you to let go, you can see that she is a very paranoid woman, you are not suitable for her, E, hurry up and get out of this relationship.

Bitter love! Bitter love! I really sympathize with you, go to her.

Wouldn't it, just because you went home and met up and the parties didn't behave well, it became a reason to break up?

It can't be that girl who sees that the conditions of your house are too bad, right?

In fact, really reliable feelings can't go wrong with this little thing.

The landlord thinks about the core essence of the problem in **?

Snobbery, even if you save it?

It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult, do you think there will be a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future?

Even if you redeem it, you will not be happy because she compares you to others, and a woman's boyfriend is unique and cannot be compared.

She doesn't love you as much as you think at all, see clearly. And I think with her character, there will be a lot of conflicts with you and your family in the future.

Why should you compare your own family with other people's families when you fall in love, besides, giving you a gift is to look up to you, respect, and don't care about the value of the gift. Is it interesting for you to be with a girl who looks down on you? Separate is separated, why keep it?

You're just passengers on a train, and you're going to get to the end of your day. Besides, going to my mother-in-law's house is still picky, women can't get used to their problems, if you dare to do this now, won't you turn the sky upside down in the future? You are a man, and you let your daughter-in-law bully your parents like this in the future?

Don't get used to it.

If you can't get along with a vain girl, it's good to take advantage of it and have fun.

Communicate more, tell her that you love her, coax her, say that you will work hard, the future is the two of you, don't care too much about your family... In the future, it will be two people living in the city anyway, I hope it can help you.

You have to think carefully, even if it's okay now, if there is a problem between her and your family in the future, wouldn't it be more troublesome.

He is prepared with two hands, one is to find the best and most suitable object for him as much as possible: the other is to treat you as a spare tire, and if he really can't find his ideal, he has to look for you. You can't predict what will happen after you break up with him, and you don't know what his character is.

When classmates and friends get along, it is not impossible to see a person's heart at a critical moment. Only in the face of interests and rights, human nature will be at a glance, so only colleagues can truly understand each other's character. Leave this kind of person as soon as possible, there are many men in the world, don't fall into a trap for yourself.

Go to your heart....Be your own protagonist and live strongly, if you want him to see your strength, it's not just a girl! Everyone has to learn to survive in this new era....You want it too! Forever!

Believe in your future! No matter what choice you make, you must go on strongly! Your happiness may not be in him**!

Maybe on the other side of you....

Break up, you two are not suitable.

He's definitely using you like a spare tire.

Maybe it's a man's physiological need.

You are a spare tire, undoubtedly, this kind of or early part. It's only going to hurt you.