It s not yours when your wife has a child! Does a woman want or not to have a child

I'm a woman, but I also want to say two things.

If this happened before you got married, she was pregnant when you were dating, and you knew that the child was not yours but you still dated her and got married, then I think you should have silently accepted the fact of this child, because you loved her and tolerated everything she had in the past.

If you get married, and then she becomes pregnant with someone else's child. Then, any man should also think about this question rationally. This cannot be explained by love or not.

Even if you love her and you want to accept this other person's child, do you think she still loves you? If she still loves you, will she conceive someone else's child?

By any measure, you should end the marriage.

It depends on the circumstances under which she became pregnant, if she was forced or conceived while she was with you, it is unacceptable!

The premise is that you love her, know that she is pregnant with someone else's child, and you are willing to associate with her. If she deceives you into carrying someone else's child and says it's yours, there's no way to accept it.

Can you be 100% sure that her baby won't be yours? If it's really not yours, if you really love her, she really loves you, you can give her a chance.

If it's another man.

I certainly can't accept it.!

It's like that, everyone!

I'm afraid that you love her and can't deal with it rationally, and I'd rather suffer a loss yourself than be willing to play a trap on others.

Situation-by-case analysis: Prescribe the right medicine.

...You dumped her, she's so pathetic!

The essence of a woman is motherhood, and motherhood dictates it, and the first reaction must be wanted.

No matter how many obstacles and other factors there are, from her own point of view, it must be wanted.

It depends on your situation, whether you can give your child a quality life and a good education.

Of course she wants it if it's yours, but if it's someone else's, she generally doesn't dare to ask for it.

What do you think What kind of result do you want Think about it Don't always talk about love What is love What kind of love do you need How to love Don't lose yourself for the so-called love.

Give yourself a time to take care of your mood It's not how the other party is, but whether you're ready for your choice Don't always think about what to do The most important thing is to make yourself happy If you need it, it is recommended that you be able to receive professional counseling to be able to truly live your own life and find your own happiness instead of blindly procrastinating and affecting your life.

It's only been a few months, how much I love you, he's kind to you, and the sweet words he says to you may be the same as what he said to the woman before, and men often don't cherish it after they get it again, he said that she has a short temper, did he find out after going to bed, why didn't he let go before, and now that he has children, they are not suitable, he doesn't love him, bullshit, you ask him, how did the woman have children with him, she seduced him, according to him, a person who is not good, as soon as he seduces, he will take the bait, and you will be with him in the future, there are many excellent women, and you can deal with it The words are said to be heard by people, things are done to be seen by people, women love to listen to good things, but even if you have heard it, don't think how attractive you are, men are all lustful, don't be stupid over there, otherwise it will be too late to dump you and cry if you get pregnant, he will definitely be able to do this kind of thing, and he has a child, and said that the woman's this, that, at least there is no sense of responsibility at all, not to mention that his family must have a child, and he will not want you, will you still be happy if you are not blessed.

I think you should talk about it Well, your business is no longer a matter of two people, it involves children and families, don't be impulsive, if you are sure that you want to live with each other for the rest of your life, don't give up easily, all three of you can talk about it well, and finally I hope you can be happy and hope to help you.

Look at the attitude of your other half, if he doesn't care about the previous woman anymore, although he will definitely not be able to give up the previous flesh and blood, but I don't think it's anything, but if it's not like that, I think you should think about the happiness you need.

If he likes you, he'll register with you.

Oops, women should think about how to protect themselves first, and then talk about anything else, men are always good at disguise, although I'm not a bad man,

Although I love you, but this kind of life would rather not, even if the problem is solved now, because there are children, there will be many problems in the future, I don't understand why I love you and who is with her, even if there are children, I will not forgive, you should not give up so much for love, people sometimes have to think about themselves, sometimes pay and return are not necessarily proportional. Learn to let go and at least give yourself a space to breathe.

It's better to let it go, that man doesn't really love you, if you really love, you won't always drag things out. Get out of the current gloom, why bother to entangle yourself so much, look away, leave in style, you will have a more brilliant life

After reading your story, I don't think the man himself has insisted, the matter has not been resolved for two years, and if they continue to be entangled like this, you will not have results.

It's annoying to be entangled and entangled, the woman who broke up with her still scolds you, and the man doesn't say good things. Hum.

When you say look back, do you mean that this man is not the person you really love, but there are many reasons why you are married to your current man, so I believe that this kind of transformation will turn back.

There is also the fact that the child is the person you loved before, of course, with intentions, so it is possible to turn back.

But having said that, how to do it, it's up to you to think about it yourself, and then make a decision, because your decision is not child's play, and the price paid is very high, so think it out carefully. I wish my friends happiness and all the best.

Hehe, she's willing to conceive flesh and blood for that person, what are you?

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change.

My wife is too, it's normal.

You just have to remember that you are the lubricant and only you can say good things on both sides.

Be sure to say good things for the other when one of them is at home, and don't say it when all three of you are there, because that will make the atmosphere very bad, because both the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law want to take over your love.

Alas, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem in Chinese families, and if you don't handle it well, there will be problems, sometimes it's not a one-sided problem, you have to think about it, if you are biased to either side, you will suffer.

The best solution is to separate the two of them, as long as they are together, there will still be problems.

The issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is already a typical problem in this society. I think it is your responsibility to act as a lubricant between the two of you, and you have to say good things and persuade each other with good words, not just blame your wife.

Communicate well, you can't offend both sides, and you can work your own!!

Don't make do with it.

Seek guilt for yourself.

What a good life will be between a pair of natural predators.

can only be done, Nan Wu Ah Mi Buddha.

You can keep only one brain to ask for your wife's forgiveness. Of course, with your wife's consent

Of course you should find a way to deal with her, but when someone has a child with you, your future must be a mess, and this thing can make a fuss, you.

You are not a human being, if you can't give her happiness, don't give hope to others, do you know that you hurt two people and your baby at the same time.

Let me tell you this, your divorce hurt 2 families, and if you don't divorce and "hide" this matter, you will only hurt one person. But then again, you won't find out when you're so stupid as your wife? Since you care about your family, you should make decisions, there is no doubt about it.

In fact, you are not worried about whether you can beat the child or not, you are worried that someone is pregnant and playing with you in real feelings. Dude, think about what if your wife is pregnant with another man. The bitter fruit can only be swallowed by yourself, if you have the money, settle it, and if you don't have the money, you can honestly have a showdown with your lover.

China is because of people like you. will cause someone to commit suicide.

Cut it, young man, and your wife will forgive you.

Knock out the child and take responsibility for your own family.

Alas, don't even wear a condom, a man like you is waiting to be beaten.

Why didn't you think of these when you were cool!

With a child, your wife's focus must be on the child, no better than the previous two-person world, communicate well, is it when you need it, your wife feels tired to take care of the child, no mood and no energy, the two did not communicate well to lead to quarrels, mutual understanding.

That's not ignoring you, the child is so young, he doesn't know anything, he must be mostly in the child, the child is the crystallization of your two love, and the wife is also very hard during this period, as a husband, you still have to care more about her, open your heart and talk more, which will help the relationship heat up!

Methods of division of property in divorce (1) The joint property of the husband and wife shall generally be divided equally. In other words, the joint property of the husband and wife is, in principle, divided equally; According to the actual needs of production and life and the actual needs of property, the specific treatment can also be different. Items that belong to the exclusive use of the individual are generally owned by the individual.

2) The joint property of the husband and wife who live separately and manage and use them separately shall be owned by the management and user party when divided; In the case of a significant difference, the party who has acquired the excess property shall compensate the other party with property equivalent to the difference. (3) If the bride price is paid in accordance with custom after the marriage has been registered and the bride price is paid in accordance with customs, or if the payment before marriage causes the payor to have difficulty in living, the other party may request the other party to return the bride price at the time of divorce. (4) If one party operates in partnership with another party with the joint property of the husband and wife, the property of the tenant may be owned by one party, and the party who has a share of the property shall compensate the other party equivalent to half of the value of the property.

5) For the breeding and planting industries that are jointly operated by the husband and wife in the current year, they should be reasonably divided or discounted in consideration of being conducive to the development of production and business management at the time of divorce. (6) The two parties have repaired, renovated, demolished and built the house owned by one party before the marriage, and the property rights have not been changed at the time of divorce, and the share of the multiplication part belonging to the other party shall be compensated by the owner of the house at a discounted price. (7) In the case of divorce, if the marriage has not been long, or the other party's life is difficult due to the request for property.

It can be returned as appropriate. Where it is difficult to determine whether the nature of the property obtained is a request or a gift, it may be handled as a gift. (8) A house jointly owned by a husband and wife that is not suitable for partition shall be divided among one party according to the housing situation of both parties and the principle of taking care of and raising children or the party who is not at fault.

The party who has been allotted the house shall compensate the other party equal to half the value of the house. The woman should be taken care of when both parties are on the same terms. (9) If the intellectual property rights owned by one party at the time of divorce have not yet obtained economic benefits, the other party shall be given appropriate consideration according to the specific circumstances when dividing the joint property of the husband and wife.

10) Where personal property before marriage is naturally damaged, consumed, or lost in the common life after marriage, and one party requests compensation with the joint property of the husband and wife at the time of divorce, it will not be supported.