I m so struggling, I feel like I m lost in myself

Why is it so similar to me, although I am a man, then I am a prince who is sick, hehe. You know, I didn't dare to post and talk about it before, because I was always worried that if no one commented on it, it wasn't very embarrassing, in fact, it was true, I didn't comment on it, but usually those who I thought were average people always posted a lot of comments, I always felt that they had a lot of faults, but why are they so popular, I have a good temper and I am also very cultured (narcissistic). But gradually, I think those people have advantages to be like this, their biggest advantage is that they are easy to get close to, very approachable, I thought maybe I was too unsociable, and now I am still like this, but I don't feel unfair, because everything is for a reason, and I think that your popular classmates will definitely not be like you to see others more popular than you, okay, sorry, said something you don't like to hear.

In short, relax, they are just sociable and not better than us in everything.

I'm the same, I even say that I completely reject others, basically have no friends, and I don't care about other people's affairs, anyway, everyone is the same, and if it goes on like this, it will end sooner or later, and I also hope that others will surround me and chase me, but the whole army is annihilated, and the world is not only you, I have seen more.

It's a matter of "mentality"! How much hope may mean how much disappointment ......We are often putting in our own efforts and looking forward to the next harvest season, but the world is unpredictable, not every piece of land is as good as you want!

We might as well think differently, because we ourselves are still young, which has the innate conditions for fighting a continuous war, and what we need to do is to maintain a calm mind to face our own lives

The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

Even if you go on like this.

Not to mention that there will be no good results.

Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.

To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

Maybe it's easier said than done.

But all I can say is.

If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

Maybe I was like you in the past.

Time really can change everything.

Learn to be strong.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

In the long road of life, each of us will encounter a variety of forks in the road, in the face of this situation, we will begin to hesitate, do not know where to go? Often at such times, it is easy to lose your way and life becomes anxious.

For the first time in so many years, I felt lost in my senior year, because I was about to face the problem of finding a job after graduation. At that time, I was really confused, I didn't know what kind of job I was looking for, and I didn't know which city I was going to work in. At that time, when I submitted my resume, I always submitted it casually, as long as there was a recruit with the same major as me, I would vote.

Whether it's sales, R&D, or production management, I vote for them all, but when the company replies to me and asks me to go to the interview, I start to struggle again, whether to go to the interview, I will ask myself, am I really suitable for sales work? Whether or not to go to the interview or not, I was very confused at that time, and I always wanted someone to give me some guidance. But there was no one to guide me, so I had to make my own choices.

I kept submitting resumes and going to interviews, trying to find my job direction through interviews.

After a month of struggling and wandering, I finally determined my direction, and through the evaluation of my personality, I felt that I was not doing a sales job, and finally I chose to do a production management job. After deciding on the direction, I focused on finding a job in production management, and after more than a month of hard work, I successfully found my first job in life. Through this incident, I have learned a truth, if I can use the winter and summer vacation time to go to different companies for internships, then I can use the internship experience to determine my future employment direction, and I will not have to wait until I am about to graduate to choose the employment direction.

At this time, the choice will be in a hurry, and once you graduate and go out to work, you feel that the job is not suitable and want to change jobs, then the price you need to pay is relatively large.

In today's society, there are many people who have lost themselves in life, I think maybe the current material life is too rich, the abundance makes people overwhelmed, so that they lose themselves in life, most of these people are particularly confused about life, there is no fixed goal, there is no fixed job, they don't know what to do every day.

Gradually, they lost confidence in life and lost hope, feeling that whatever they did every day was very meaningless, and their lives became not so fulfilling, and they would waste time every day. In fact, the so-called confusion is actually that your talent is not worthy of your dreams for the time being.

So sometimes you don't know your level in **, and you float up again in life, and you can't find your own suitable position, so you lose yourself, in fact, sometimes I feel like this, I feel that life is particularly confused, I don't know what I want.

I don't know my own goals, I live aimlessly in my daily life, and sometimes I will calm down and think about what can help me, to make life meaningful, to wander around in a directionless prairie, not knowing which side is my own path.

In fact, most of these people are people who are more negative about life, they can't find their own position in life, they don't know what they should do, and they don't know what to do to be meaningful, I sometimes do the same, I will think about what is the use of going to college, what is the purpose of going to school.

Although I haven't figured it out for so long, I still insist on this road, this feeling is indescribable, only I can understand it if I have really experienced it, it is a very helpless, very confused feeling.

Touching! Tear-jerking!

Tears don't stop! Sadness has not reached the heartache, once it is hurt, and twice it is in the past!

Analysis: Love and life are two collections, and the part where the two juxtaposed collections intersect is happiness! But you wheels are standing in the disjoint part of the two sets! What results can be expected? - No result!

1. Long-distance relationship, the favorite relationship can't stand the test of time, time, distance, space. The three elements that destroy the strongest feeling!

2. You've talked about it, you've loved it! Laughed! It's been a mess!

There is warmth, sadness, emotion, touching, and all of them, and you have experienced a lifetime of love in a few years! What do you do when you get married? Have you thought about it?

Maybe you still have a lot of things you haven't done? But do you know what she thinks?

3. What about love? Please love deeply! If you don't love it, please let it go!

The words are not empty words, since you can choose to let go, there must be a reason why Sakuramori loves you. Since there are more reasons to love you, what else do you insist on? What are your beliefs?

There is no conviction. Result: Giving up is the best outcome, and blessings to each other are a life out of trouble in the future!

My Story: Once Me and Her!

A similar experience to you!

One is in Beijing (me) and one is in Ordos (her). I love each other very much, love each other very hard.

Once a vow! The joys and sorrows of the past!

It's all in the past. If you are a man, you have to bless and rejoice! I wish her happiness and rejoice in her happiness!

Love is not forever, life is not love, marriage is not romance

Let's make it clear! How big is the heart, how deep is the love!

Jealousy and disappointment, grief and despondency, can only make you the laughing stock of others!

A person who really knows how to love is a person with a broad heart, and a person who really knows how to love is a person who is obsessed with people rather than elegant!

Did you do it?

If you can't think about it, it can only mean that you are still young, and let people (her) see jokes.

There is too much helplessness in this world.

Here today, gone tomorrow. Why should you care about the constraints of the world?

It doesn't matter if your girlfriend wants to do it anymore.

With you.

You just have to do your own thing.

Use your sincerity and the charm of a man to keep him.

What is the greatest sooth charm of men?

That is gentleness and thoughtfulness.

Use your own humor to bring her joy.

I have a way to test that she still loves.

I don't love you. The way to do it.

The next time you run into him.

Slowly walked up to her.

Staring with affectionate eyes.

Her eyes. hugged her in the rotten acres.

If she still loves you.

Then this woman will definitely shed tears.

Of course, there are strong women who don't shed tears.

But you can observe her strangeness.

If it's the kind of disdainful and disgusted look.

That's not to love you.

If there is redness on the face and tears in the eyes, then she is also.

I love you deeply. There is a bitterness in breaking up.

You have to have faith in this love.

Ask her if she has any grievances.

Tell him that you can solve it together with two hungry people, and don't feel angry when you fail.

Overbearing. Point it.

Infatuated man. Hold her directly.

Don't you have faith in your love?

Can't you hold on to this frustration in your love?

Brother, the reason why I replied to you this text is because I have experienced it, so I understand.

Brother, she's important to you, isn't she?

I suggest that you ignore anyone and be brave enough to pursue it once and tell yourself that this is the last time.

Tell her what you feel the most.

Perhaps, the ending will not be so bad.

Even if you fail, you are teased, you are ridiculed, so what. She is someone you love.

You loved, did, and worked hard.

It really doesn't matter what the result is.

Our youth is just a few years, and there are only a few people who have really loved.

Brother, truly, bless you and bless you.

Have you lost yourself?

No, otherwise why would you still feel like this?

It is said that he has lost himself, but in fact he has not lost himself, but he has not been socialized, he has not adapted to this society, and he feels that everything around him is so out of place and uncomfortable.

It's a psychological pathology.

It's not so much that you don't fit in your heart, it's not that your heart is not strong enough.

Or maybe you're not strong enough to realize that you want to change, and you're going to change it all on your own.

Be strong enough, of course, both externally and internally.

Maybe you haven't found your purpose yet, what you're living for.

Pure substance? Money? On a spiritual level, these are nothing.

The changes of the times cannot change some of the original things, but they seem to be forgotten by the public and gradually fade out of people's field of vision, but after all, they still exist and are still presented there in their original posture. Seeing it, I feel that there is an era of right and wrong, why is people's attention always ahead? What are you doing in the rear?

No one will carry that responsibility and pressure for themselves, everything must be borne by themselves with their chests and shoulders open! Therefore, keep your heart and bear the concern that belongs to you.

Try to relax and don't think about anything, so that you can sleep peacefully, be clear about public and private things, do what you need to do, and don't think about anything when you rest.

Put down your work and go where you want to go, and you can also travel to some places with good scenery.

Look at the Prajnaparamita Heart Sutra to be good for you.