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Hello! I can see that you are very conflicted and entangled, first of all, I think you should break up with the guy on the Internet, after all, emotionally your behavior is unfaithful, (don't mind), and secondly, the question of marriage, I want to know clearly why you don't want to get married? What are you afraid of?
It's not too late to get married at the age of 28, I'm not afraid of your jokes, I think girls don't have to be married and in love to be happy, it's just my point of view, don't be bothered, and secondly, do you really have no feelings of love for your boyfriend?
Why don't you want to get married?
Isn't love a desire to stay?
Figure out what is afraid in your heart, why you don't want to get married, and make it clear to your boyfriend, just don't be afraid.
As for the boy you met online, I don't mind telling you that I also know a boy on the Internet and have a good feeling, but I am a student who naturally focuses on my studies, and you, not to mention the family background of the two of you, just say that the relationship between the two of you has warmed up, and it didn't take long to realize the wonderful feeling of germinating love, right?
The point is that you were a girl with a boyfriend at the time, it is really inappropriate for you to know the boy you have a crush on, he appeared in the days when you didn't want to get married, accompanied you, made you sprout a good feeling, and the two of you have the idea of falling in love, I personally think that you can think about a few questions: 1. Do you really like each other? 2. Do you know him?
3. Are you suitable? Regardless of family background, you just want to be suitable in love3, is he worthy of your trust? 4. Do you really want to break up with your boyfriend and be with him?
Think about it all together! Marriage aside, who should be clear about your emotional connection!
Hope it helps.
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Hurry up and get married, you can't delay any longer
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How to say it, maybe you don't have love for the boy on the Internet, it's just a whim, just like you said, you and your boyfriend have been talking for 6 years, and the relationship is weak, and at this time there is another boy who is very chatting about you think it's love, in fact, it's not, and you don't understand, and you don't understand it, together on the basis of not understanding, the result is often not very ideal, as for your boyfriend, you think about it clearly, in fact, he doesn't need charity, if it's really beautiful, just point it directly, it's not a good way to drag it down.
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Get married... 28 years old is not too late... The Lord knows his own mind. Don't feel like it's very... You have to know that this is a big event about your life、、、
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Not long ago, there was such a description on the Internet, although the post-90s generation has now entered the 30s, and they have indeed grown in age, but in their hearts, they have never regarded themselves as adults. But no matter how age and years are forgiving, when you are older, you always have to face the urging of people around you and your parents to marry. But it is true that some people do not find a suitable or desirable partner, and sometimes even begin to doubt themselves whether they want to live a life in the future.
Should I make do to get married at the age of 28 seems to be a very embarrassing age, big or small, although I just graduated from college for a few years, but it is indeed about to enter 30 years old. At this age, many people are about to face the urging of those around them to get married. So should you get married improvised, or should you get married for the sake of getting married?
Marriage is definitely not a makeshift and immature thing, if you really don't meet the other half of your heart, then there is no need to take into account the urging of the people around you. Whether as parents or relatives, they all want their children to be happy. And a marriage that is about to be completed, there are too many unhappy factors, and marriage should be a matter of course, rather than a rush result.
What is called improvisation, many people may not understand the meaning of improvisation, for example, they have very superior conditions, but because of the urging of their family, they find a person who is quite incompatible with them in all aspects. But what most people think of as improvised today is very different from what it means. The criteria for choosing a mate for many girls are to find someone who has an economic foundation and is calm and able to help them in their careers.
And some boys' criteria for choosing a mate are to find younger and more beautiful girls. Many people think that if they do not meet their own mate selection standards, this is a kind of improvisation and compromise, which makes their love and marriage fall into a misunderstanding.
To recognize that such a domineering president-style love in reality may happen in real life, but the chances are very rare. Therefore, when facing marriage and love, we must recognize the reality and be clear-headed. Finding someone who is similar to yourself in all aspects is not a kind of compromise, but a kind of match.
Many people want to find a partner who is superior to them in all aspects, but why should the other party find someone whose standards are much lower than their own? When you reach the age of marriage, you are even urged by relatives and friends around you, and you really shouldn't find a partner to marry quickly because of this urging. At the age of 28, you shouldn't get married, but you must also understand in your heart what it means to make do.
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I don't think you should get married at this age, this age is not too old, and there is no need to rush, if you meet the right one, you should get married, and if it is not suitable, it is no problem to be single.
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No. Because marriage is a lifelong thing, if you make do with it, then it is very likely that you will be unhappy in the future.
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I don't think so, there are some things that shouldn't be casual at any time. Especially marriage, if you change for a while, it will be difficult to do it at that time.
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If you don't meet real love, don't make do with love, you will find that you can't get anything, and in the end you will be bruised, in this case you will be psychologically tortured, and at this time your heart will not be happy, so don't make do with marriage.
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Of course, it shouldn't be improvised, marriage is a major event in life, no matter how old you are, if you don't meet the right person, you can't wronged yourself.
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You shouldn't make do, no matter what age you are, you shouldn't make do with getting married, otherwise you will regret it and end up divorced.
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You shouldn't make do with it, after all, feelings are a lifelong thing, and you can't get married because you're going to get married, it's unfair to the two of you, and it's also a kind of torture.
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No, marriage is a very deliberate thing and should not be improvised, it is irresponsible to yourself and others.
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Of course, you shouldn't make do with getting married, because making do with marriage will make your marriage very unhappy in the future, and it's best not to make do with it.
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At this age, you shouldn't make do with getting married, if you find that there are a lot of problems in marriage after making do, you should still marry someone you like after a while.
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I don't think it's okay to get married at any age, the original intention of marriage is to create happiness and belong, and a barely made marriage can't provide any kind of value about the essence of marriage, such a marriage itself is full of devastation, and it will cause greater risks because of the attraction of the outside world in the future.
A marriage without love and heartbeat can be called a marriage, but a marriage based on love and heartbeat is a real marriage.
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Of course not, because if you get married, you will be very unhappy in your later life, and your marriage will be a very failure.
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No. There is no age at which you should get married, only people who should get married, so we should not compromise at any time, and we must be cautious about marriage.
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It is not recommended to "make" to get married at any age, and your "life time" and "self-worth" are determined by yourself, and you should not "internalize" the external value orientation and outdated concepts. Love is the product of two people who are "true to their hearts": only two people who have "the ability to love themselves and others" can enter into a marriage with "the ability to love".
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It shouldn't be improvised, you must marry each other because you like it, and if you make do with the marriage, you won't be happy in the future.
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No, no matter how old you are, you have to respect your own heart, and you have to find someone you like, and you don't need to get married for the sake of getting married.
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No, because marriage is a lifelong event, you shouldn't do it hastily, you should be cautious and choose someone who is good to you to get married.
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No, and at no time should you marry for the sake of getting married, and you must believe that true love will come, but you must wait.
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You should make do with getting married and settle down as soon as possible, so that you can reassure your parents, which is the way to honor your parents.
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Of course not, no matter what age you are, you must have a certain standard, so that you are also responsible for yourself, and you will live well in your later life.
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1. Is 26 marriage considered late marriage China's current family planning policy stipulates that those who marry three years or more later than the legal age of marriage (20 years old for women and 22 years old for men) (23 years old for women and 25 years old for men) are considered late marriages. As long as you celebrate your 25th birthday, you will get married later! You can enjoy 15 days of marriage leave for late marriage (including 3 days of statutory marriage leave, excluding holidays).
However, there is a premise that both parties to the marriage must reach the age of late marriage, and only one party who reaches the age cannot be counted as a late marriage. 2. On the basis of the legal age of marriage, the actual age of marriage shall be appropriately postponed for late marriage. The legal age of marriage is the minimum age for marriage under the Marriage Act, and it is not the age limit at which marriage must be made.
According to national regulations, the age of late marriage for men is 25 years old, and the age of late marriage for women is 23 years old, so whether it is a man or a woman who is married for the first time at the age of 26, even if it is a late marriage, the marriage age of both parties must reach the legal age of marriage before they can go through the marriage procedures.
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The best age to get married As the saying goes, "Men should get married, and women should get married." "The issue of marriage is a major issue of general concern among young people.
At what age is it appropriate to get married? Is it better to marry later or early? The Marriage Law stipulates that "the age of marriage shall not be earlier than the age of the League for men and 20 years for women".
Because young men and women are not thoughtful, they are prone to emotional impulsiveness, and they are engaged at the same time, causing others to regret it in the future, so there is a minimum age limit for engagement. From a medical point of view, the best age for men and women to get married: after the age of 23 for women and 25 for men.
Marriage after this age is called late marriage, and marriage before this age is called early marriage. The late marriage mentioned here is a simple comparison with early marriage, and does not mean "too late". Late marriage is good for women's physical and mental health, for the health and education of the next generation, and for personal career success.
Therefore, young friends are reminded to carefully determine their marriageable age, which is of great help to the health of the mother and the normal development of the child.
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It's not too early, just enough to reach the legal age of marriage, in fact, the best time to get married is between 22 and 28 years old.
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Everyone gets married depends on their own choice, some people mature prematurely and have more experience in taking responsibility, have their own unique views on many things, know their own mate selection standards, and the choice of wedding banquet may also be rational, and then have responsibility.
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For both boys and girls, getting married at the age of 20 is too early.
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As someone who has been married, my ideal age for marriage is 28 years old. This is because people in this age group are in the best physical condition, people in this age group have the corresponding economic conditions, and people in this age group have a wealth of experience to take on family responsibilities.
First, a 28-year-old young man is in the best physical condition and is most suitable for marriage. The reason why it is said that the age of 28 is the most suitable for marriage, people in this age group are in the best physical condition, and they are in a state of youth, strength and energy. At this time, marriage is very beneficial to the life of the husband and wife, raising children and other aspects.
Therefore, this age is the ideal age for marriage.
Second, a 28-year-old person has made certain achievements in his career and has sufficient economic conditions to get married. If you want to have a happy marriage, you need to have the corresponding financial conditions to pay tribute. A 28-year-old person has been working hard in the workplace for a period of time, has achieved certain achievements, and has the corresponding economic conditions to fully meet the needs of life after marriage.
Therefore, this age is the ideal age for marriage.
Thirdly, a 28-year-old person has a wealth of experience and can take on the responsibilities of the family, so he is suitable for marriage. Marriage is not only about enjoying a good life, but also about taking on corresponding responsibilities. A 28-year-old person has a lot of experience and therefore has enough experience to take on the responsibility of family life after marriage, so he is very suitable for marriage.
Generally speaking, it is precisely because of the above reasons that people at the age of 28 are the most suitable state for marriage, which is the ideal age for marriage at a loss, so that they can better take responsibility.
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