How to spend the plateau period in the graduate school entrance examination?

When I graduated from university, I didn't succeed in the insurance research (the score was enough, but there was no extra point project, so I didn't get the insurance research qualification), I didn't get the graduate school entrance examination (the score was quite high, the single subject didn't pass the line, and I was admitted to Peking University), the civil servant was not admitted, I didn't find a job, and it was estimated that it was difficult to find it (it happened to be the year of the economic crisis, I was in 985 college, and there was no job fair in November), and the object who had been in the office for four years also dumped me.

I got up at five o'clock yesterday, went to school at seven o'clock and started queuing up to sign in, and then the written test was re-examined. I've been in a state of madness since the retest, and although I wrote such a long article to persuade myself, I still didn't bring myself out of my emotions, and I have been in a state of self-doubt and denial plus a little bit of luck. I chatted with my friends for a while in the afternoon, I felt much better, and I made an appointment to meet and get together today, and then I started to read ** after writing something, if you are not honest, do not disturb, singer, I watched it all afternoon, I don't want to eat dinner, continue to watch non-honest, do not disturb.

I asked my Mr. Wang to bring me back spicy chicken and Coke, and after eating, I started watching movies, from Zhou Dongyu's "Like", to Bai Baihe's "Breakup Contract", and then watched "The Stolen Five Years" and "Get Out, Tumor", and then watched it all night, and didn't go to bed until five o'clock in the morning! During this time, I laughed and cried.

This whole process is so hard that I can't understand why I feel like I'm going to be crazy! At noon, Mr. Wang wanted to come over and ask me to go to have a meal with my friends, but I refused, because I am really very sleepy now, in addition to the feeling of sleepiness, there is also powerlessness!

Look at the figure of parents who are busy cooking in the kitchen, if you are sad, how do they feel? Disperse the shadows and forge ahead; Close your eyes and think about every sleepless night you have spent for the graduate school entrance examination, you should drive away the depression and go all out; Looking at the scene of the busy people downstairs, who hasn't experienced all kinds of setbacks and difficulties? You should let go of your self-blame and aim high.

It took me almost a month to understand this truth, and here I would like to thank my classmates, they have seen my performance, so they have helped me with practical actions, some classmates will help me pay attention to the recruitment information, even if they have found a job, they will pull me to the job fair, even the job fair in the field, just to give me more opportunities. Some students will help me pay attention to various postgraduate adjustment information, but I really didn't understand the postgraduate examination adjustment at that time, and I didn't want to participate. But they always had confidence in me and even communicated with the admissions teachers on my behalf.

Efficiency in studying during the graduate school entrance examination process is very important. There is no need to become an immortal, it is still important to spend all your time studying, and it is still important to take appropriate breaks to free yourself. I remember that there were various types of graduate school students in the library when I was going to graduate school, but in the end, it seemed that the winners were some people who would use their time, and they should sleep when they should sleep, and not engage in protracted battles.

In fact, if you think about it, the graduate school entrance examination is just a road, one of the many life choices, I am fortunate to have it, and I have lost my life, so there is nothing to regret. The days are still gone. I gave up the professional adjustment advice of the teachers who applied for the school, and gave up the school adjustment.

Back in my hometown in Shandong, with my children, I have now completely let go, thinking about the next road, maybe I will go to graduate school again, maybe I will develop my own major, maybe I will go to a seminar, in fact, it is okay, it is a good choice.