Why do you really give, but what you get is cold eyes?

Updated on society 2024-07-17
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In economics, all inputs need to be calculated, and in fact, feelings are the same. In the relationship, we often work for the people we care about without asking for anything in return, pay without hesitation, and even cater to them regardless of dignity, however, we forget,Pay must also meet worthy people, otherwise it will be in vain. People's sincerity is limited, only to give to worthy people, all the pay and love have the most appropriate belonging.

    In economics, sunk costs are not costs, and if you don't cherish what you pay, then we have to learn to stop losses in time. The person I love the most hurts me the most, and it's all short-lived. I will not let the sadness continue to creep over my journey and the rest of my life.

    Everything is short-lived, everything will rain and sunshine, because I will adjust all my thoughts and move on with my life for the rest of my life. It's my advice to myself in the future. Won't be stupid anymoreI will no longer selflessly dedicate my youth and my love.

    A person who is not worthy of your love does not need to waste his youth in it. If you are not cherished for a long time, everyone will lose confidence and expectations. Feelings are sincere for sincere, for unworthy people, no matter how persistent and giving, you will never be moved, because such people will never understand that the premise of giving is love.

    Therefore, once your efforts are not valued, you should learn to follow your inner voice, instead of choosing to go to the soup because of who is important to you.

    No one is the only one, as long as you let go, the world is beautiful, and slowly go out. You are no longer the only one in my life, because I am the only one in myself, the only one in my heart. The people who used to laugh so much, who loved you so much, are going to go away, forgive me for my choice.

    I will be braver and stronger. After going through so much pain, so many injuries, I will get better, heal, and live my life well. The sun is always after the wind and rain, and I believe that there must be a rainbow after the wind and rain, and it must be bright sunshine.

    There is still a lot of hope in life, and I hope everyone can bravely get out of the confusion.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because the other party is not worthy of your sincere efforts, you have no place in his heart. Sincere dedication is both sides, unilateral payment is really bad, for example, some men pay a lot of women and don't get together in the end, some pay not much to her is not very good, and in the end they can still be together

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No matter who we are to in life, we can't give or accommodate without reservation. The more people give in a relationship, the more dependent they will be on the relationship, and it will be difficult to let go. On the contrary, the less you give, the more you will feel that the relationship is dispensable.

    The most fearful thing in the relationship is that you wash your hands and make soup for him, and when one day you want to eat a bowl of noodles cooked by him, he asks you to click on the mobile phone app to order takeout. Men's nature likes to pursue, likes to conquer, and will cherish the hard to get more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When we meet someone who doesn't know how to cherish you, we don't need to be sad, but we are glad that we can see it clearly now and stop the loss in time. Why does fate always play a joke on me, I used to be so talkative, I used to be so happy, but now ......I burst into tears, everyone around me was like this, what else could I say! I love you so much, the person I love the most, I could have given you my life, but you hurt me deeply.

    Finally, I hope you don't love someone on tiptoe all the time, your center of gravity will be unstable, you won't last long, and you will be physically and mentally exhausted.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everyone's thoughts are different, and the sincerity we give may not be understood, or even ridiculed, which is a manifestation that the other party does not care about us.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's all the difference between loving and not loving. Your sincere efforts may not be of any value in the eyes of the other party, on the contrary, the other party may think that you are disturbing the other party's normal life. Therefore, if you can't insist, don't insist, and your heart can't be hurt casually, and it's hard to make up for it if it's broken.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because your sincerity is not what he wants, and you are not the person in his heart, you can't get a response from him for anything.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Sometimes you can't give too much, and that makes the other person take it for granted.

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