Many middle aged and elderly women are divorced and widowed, so will they continue to find a wife?

There will definitely be people who continue to look for a wife, but I recommend not deliberately looking for it, I have met the right person, you can have a partner, but you don't have to get married, there is no desire to have children together, there is no wealth created together, and marriage is just a piece of paper. Since two people have the need to be accompanied, then treat each other sincerely and think about each other, otherwise it is really not as free as one person.

There are three main reasons why I don't want to remarry: first, halfway couples are unreliable; Second, we have to face the complicated "family" relationship of second marriage; Third, now there is a colorful spare time, and I feel that I will not be lonely alone.

One is that halfway couples are unreliable. Some old people get married with money, and often see 70 or 80-year-old looking for a 40-year-old or 50-year-old nanny on TV, often the nanny doesn't care if the old man lives or dies when he gets the house money, so that the old man dies miserably; Some of the pictures are taken care of, and the physical function declines when they are older, and they are not married couples who share the same joys and sorrows, and it is okay to take care of them for a day or two, but after a long time, they begin to complain, the so-called "no loyal husband (wife) before the bed of a long illness", so the halfway couples who want to spend money and take care of them are not very reliable.

Second, we have to face the complicated "family" relationship of second marriage; Marriage is the union of two families, both parties to remarriage originally had children, because they have no emotional foundation for the spouse their parents have just found, can not establish a harmonious family relationship, if they meet the party with poor economic conditions need to see a doctor, it is estimated that their children will have opinions, so the conflict will naturally arise; On the other hand, the inheritance of family property, because the real estate of the elderly couple has no dependency relationship with the other party's children, it should be inherited by their own children when they die, so that there are many people who are financially poor in the second marriage and end up homeless after one party is gone, because their children have taken away the old man's house, so the second marriage needs to be more rational and not blindly talk about feelings, and sometimes have to consider interests, which is the essence of the second marriage.

3. Nowadays, there is a colorful spare time life everywhere, and I feel that I will not be lonely alone. I think I can plan to travel to different beautiful scenic spots across the country every year, such as going to Lijiang in Yunnan for ten days and half a month when it's hot, and staying in a sunny place like Sanya, Hainan for a month when it's cold; I usually go shopping with my confidants during the day, drink tea at night, and can also play the piano, square dance, sing karaoke, yoga, run, read books and so on. A person's life can be both busy and fulfilling, very nourishing and not lonely at all, and there is no need to find another wife and a bunch of troublesome things.

Therefore, in the first half of life, we may pay for our children and families, and in the second half, we must learn to manage ourselves and start a free and easy life, without looking for a wife, adding to our troubles, and doing what we like is very good.

will continue to find a wife again, their previous marriage was unhappy, it does not mean that their life and reality are unhappy, so they have the right to pursue love.

Yes. This is because many middle-aged and elderly women are now very open, and at the same time, they will find a suitable partner to spend their lives with according to the actual situation, and they can also take care of each other.

Probably not, because their own lives are relatively stable, and if they find another person, they need to serve that person, so they don't want to look for another person.

I believe that divorced and widowed middle-aged and elderly women should find a new wife, which can provide a good guarantee for their old age, and can share the joys and sorrows of life with their companions, and become no longer lonely.

A large number of middle-aged and elderly women in their lives face divorce and widowhood due to various special circumstances in their lives, and when they encounter this situation, many people think that they should not find a wife again, and should consider the feelings of the person concerned about whether they should find a wife, rather than children or bystanders to make decisions for them.

Divorced middle-aged and elderly women should find a wife again.

Many people think that divorced middle-aged and elderly women already have a certain economic foundation, and they do not need to find a wife to accompany them in their future later life, after all, they may have been immersed in the pain of the past, and if they find a new wife at this stage, they may change their lives. In fact, I think this concept is wrong, divorced middle-aged and elderly people will find another wife, which can make their future life different.

Have a good guarantee for their old age.

Whether it is a widowed or divorced middle-aged and elderly woman, finding a wife can make their old age life with a good guarantee, especially for some widowed middle-aged and elderly women, if they spend their future old age alone, they may become particularly lonely, especially when their body has various diseases, it will become particularly helpless.

It can make life not lonely in old age.

If the children of divorced or widowed middle-aged and elderly women can often accompany the elderly, then it is understandable that they do not find a wife. If the children are not around, but they no longer look for a wife, then their life will become very lonely, at this time to find a wife to accompany them through the future life will make life more fun, and it will be good for physical health.

Of course it should. Because everyone has the right to a new life. After divorce or widowhood, you have the right to find a wife again. Everyone has the right to choose their own life, and others have no right to interfere.

I don't think I need to look for it anymore, halfway couples are unreliable. Some old people get married with money, some people take care of them, and their physical functions decline when they are old, and they are not married couples who share the same joys and sorrows, and they can take care of them for a day or two, but they begin to complain after a long time, the so-called "no loyal husband (wife) before the bed of a long illness", so the halfway couples who want money and take care of them are not very reliable.

A woman does not need to find a wife after she is divorced or widowed. Because as a middle-aged woman, she has a certain economic foundation and her own income, since she has encountered setbacks and pain in her marriage, she can't accept it, and even indulges in the pain of the past.

Some widowed old people are not inclined to find a wife anymore, because she feels that there is no need to have another marriage, because her marriage is over, because her love has been buried by her wife, so living her life is already the most important thing.

Although it is very popular to marry at sunset, there are still many elderly people who are reluctant to accept such a love partner, because his love is really old, and with the death of his wife, it has become a kind of nostalgia, so he still hopes that he can live the rest of his life alone.

Just like children understand that it is really not easy for their parents to live in this life, they raise their children, and then they have each other's independent world, and then they have each other's most fulfilling lives in the twilight world.

Just like when she was 70 years old, her father had passed away, and her mother was very sad, and she never thought that there would be another love, because she really buried all her lifestyle, and really grew old in a reality.

Her mother is mourning her marriage and love, although she does not know a lot of romantic lifestyles, but she really understands that she will have a very good life for the rest of her life, because her father will pray for her in heaven.

Moreover, children will also think about their mothers in the family world, and they will take their mothers to live in the living world around them, so that their mothers can feel a kind of family happiness that they can rely on in old age.

So when a young to old love really dies in real companionship, some elderly people really won't choose to meet in love anymore, because her life has been buried in her wife's life, and in the last ten years, she just hopes that she will live the rest of her life smoothly.

Just like the love of young people, if you talk about a love, it is about a kind of holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son, then she will choose not to leave in this life, and she will not meet the second love, because her first love has determined the lifestyle of a lifetime.

So the love of parents is always the most complete, they have the right to choose their own twilight and future, and then one of them leaves first, and it doesn't matter if the other person gets married or not, the important thing is that they don't have love and the tragedy of marriage.

They also feel that there is no need for it, anyway, this is the way it is for their own lives. And if you find a wife, you have to spend a lot of money, and they are also very economical.

Because they are afraid that others will laugh at them, and they have no money to earn, they have no financial ability, and they have to rely on their children to take care of them, so they have no right to speak.

Because the elderly feel that their children are very opposed to this, and they are afraid that they will be laughed at by others when they find a wife, which is a bit of a loss of face.

No matter what age they are, remarriage is not as easy as simply pursuing happiness for two people. Especially for the elderly, their reunions are often more complicated. Because twilight love may be for the old man himself to find a companion to mix with the old, but the children of the old man's family have a new family and a new life, and regrouping is a particularly troublesome thing for them!

It is difficult for the children of both parties to reach a consensus on this issue on the distribution of property, houses, etc., so most of the children are opposed when they learn that the elderly want to find a other half, judging from the cases we have handled. I really don't have that much energy to deal with these family chores anymore.

They don't want to mention it to others, because they worry about others, and they worry that their children will laugh at them for being disrespectful. At such an age, I still want to find a wife, worried that my children will not agree, and I am worried that my children will not agree to this matter. They (she) know that it doesn't matter if there is nothing around them, they hear it or see it themselves, and even imagine the difficulties and difficulties of remarrying the family.

At the same time, I don't want to that heart, I don't want to work hard, I feel that there are more people and more trouble, and there are more people. Over time, it slowly delayed. There is also the fact that my wife has just passed away at the beginning, and I have not yet come out of my grief and have not adjusted myself.

In fact, a large part of the reason why the elderly who are reluctant to find a wife is because they are no longer the pillars of the family. Because he has no financial ability, he has to rely on his children to take care of his daily life, so he has no right to speak. When it comes to finding a wife, children and the elderly have different ideas.

Children may feel that finding a nanny can take care of their parents' food and daily life, and their life can be regarded as satisfying. After all, nannies are not involved in family affairs, one pays the salary, and the other is responsible for the care and care of life, and this employment relationship often makes the children more reassured.

After losing their partners, many elderly people are reluctant to look for them again, because they will cause a lot of trouble and are easily resented by their children. Why? Let's analyze the analysis:

1. The distribution of property among the elderly. This is estimated to be the heart disease of many old people, in the traditional Chinese concept, the property after the death of parents will basically be left to the children, if you find another partner halfway, because there is no blood relationship, the children of both parties will be vigilant. In the news, there have been many incidents of the elderly leaving their property to a nanny or caregiver after their death, and individual children have either notarized their property or refused to find another partner for the elderly in order to prevent such disputes.

2. Physical health problems of the elderly. Every old man's body will be more or less sick, if the partner he is looking for suddenly has a serious illness, is it to save or not? Rescue, the final outcome is that both people and money are empty, and most of the children are still unwilling, not to save, and they can't bear it, after all, they have been together for a long time and have a little feeling.

Taking a step back, the other party is not a serious illness, but some kind of infectious disease, are you sure you can accept it with peace of mind? And take care of each other without regrets throughout the whole process?

3. Problems of the elderly in daily life. Looking for a partner in the elderly, in the final analysis, it is a halfway couple, without any emotional foundation, and it takes time for the two to run in, but who changes themselves first to suit each other? This is another difficult problem, after all, it's just a partnership to live, everyone wants to save trouble, and they all want each other to work hard and complain, but at that age, who is not a human being?

It's not a young boy or girl falling in love.

In fact, the world of the elderly is very lonely, they really need a partner, but due to various reasons and obstacles, this wish cannot be realized in many cases. Therefore, as children, in addition to providing material life, we should also go home often, care more about the spiritual world of our parents, and encourage our parents to make friends and study.

The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, the son wants to raise but does not wait, don't let your parents become your regrets.

Some widowed old people are not inclined to find a wife again, this is because many old people are now more independent in thinking, economic independence, a person to arrange their life is more reasonable, and do not want to find a wife to add burden to their planned life, after all, the old man looking for a wife is involved in two big families, and there are many troubles if things are not dealt with.