More than 200 million people in China are reluctant to get married, why don t they get married?

We must pay attention to the situation of reluctance to get married, which shows that our country has lost its original traditional concept on the issue of marriage and has entered a different path in the new century。Nowadays, most of the remaining men and women are failures in love, mercenary, striving to be a man, sacrificing their youth as a price, and achieving their selfish side. It's really worrying, after all, we have neglected the most important thing in the family, which is that we all want to have sons and inherit the incense as our own responsibility, which has led to so many boys and so many older young people being unmarried.

Personally, I think the reasons for reluctance to get married are as follows:

First, because of social development and economic progress, the sense of self-independence has increased.

Second, it is precisely because of social development and economic progress that everyone's pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and everyone is overwhelmed.

Nowadays, everyone in society pursues personal self-awareness, which is relatively democratic, and marriage is decided by itself. If you want to tie the knot, if you don't want to, no one can force you.

In addition, there is a big difference between rural and urban areas, and urban Kochi women choose to be single for their own development, while in rural areas, because of the backward concept of patriarchy, there are more men and fewer women, and they are passively single.

It is said that there are 200 million single adults in the country, and many will only be more。But it's not right to love to fight singles. It's not that I want to be a bachelor, but I can't find a wife, and even if I find it, I may not be able to afford to marry.

Opening and closing the mouth to pay hundreds of thousands of dowries, and having a house and a car, is simply buying and selling daughters. Poor people can work hard for love, but they can't get a wife. Because there is too much bride price, many people just pour on the money, which makes people want to stop, but they are willing to pay.

Richer families are okay and can cope with it to some extent.

Nowadays, people's social values are different, and they have become too practical and stressful。Although the birth policy has been relaxed, the burden of having an extra child is heavy. Many people can't afford to raise it and give up the desire to have one more child.

It mainly depends on the country's policy, how to change this phenomenon, it is worth our deep thought!

Now the cost of living is too high, many young people's wages are only enough to support themselves, there is a sky-high bride price before marriage, after marriage there is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, after giving birth, the child's food and clothing are schooled, and the pressure is greater.

Because I can't afford to give birth, I can't afford to raise it. Life is very difficult, why find guilt, marriage will also divorce, it is better to put pressure on yourself.

Because of the pressure of this society, many people can't afford the starting price of marriage, and the price of goods is rising year by year, and many people are ordinary people who do not have enough funds.

Marriage trouble, there are too many things after marriage, such as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law discord, marriage two people let one person do things, it is better to be single and happy.

I believe that many people find that there are many people around us now, especially some young people, and even some older young people, who do not fall in love and do not want to get married. So some people just want to know why more and more young people now, they don't want to get married.

First of all, because there are a lot of young people now, and they themselves are not so good. There are even a lot of young people who don't even have a good job. Therefore, they hope that they can be more positive and work harder, because only when they are more positive and can work harder, so that they can find a job that is more suitable for them, and only in this way can they be more beautiful, so that they can finally find their own love.

Of course, we see that for more people, the reason why they don't get married is because there are a lot of girls now, and they are very realistic, especially in love. They will put a lot of high demands on boys, and they will demand good jobs and good families. Only if a boy can meet or meet the conditions of a girl will the girl be willing to be with the boy.

If the boy does not meet or cannot meet the conditions of the girl, then the girl absolutely does not want to be with the boy.

So we see that for a lot of guys, even though they want to be with girls. But it's also hard to achieve. So we see a lot of young people now.

Even some older youths, they don't fall in love or even get married. But in fact, they also know that love is very happy, and it is very beautiful.

So we hope that there are some women now who want to return to the essence of love, because the essence of love is the mutual care and love of two people. Only when two people care and love each other can they be better together. And we want to.

As young people, they should be more active and hardworking, because only if they are more active and hardworking, so that they can find a suitable person, and only in this way will they be able to have a happier and better marriage.

In recent years, the social pressure has been too great, and they need to buy a house and a car when they get married, and they don't have it after they get married, and now the chances of divorce are also very high.

This is because many people feel that their current life is very satisfying, and they are used to living alone, so they do not want to get married.

Hello, marriage is one of the important decisions in life and involves all aspects of life, so many people are hesitant when faced with marriage. As a young person, I have also faced the question of whether or not to enter into marriage. From my experience and the experiences of those around me, I believe that the responsibilities and pressures that come with marriage are one of the main reasons why people hesitate to enter into marriage.

Marriage means not only emotional commitment and responsibility, but also long-term planning and commitment to each other's lives and futures. Once married, couples need to face various challenges and issues together, such as family responsibilities, financial pressures, children's education, and so on. These issues need to be addressed by both husband and wife, and they require a certain level of communication and negotiation skills.

Therefore, for some people who are not ready to take on the responsibilities and pressures that come with marriage, it may be hesitant to enter into marriage.

In addition, the issue of dowry and bride price is also one of the reasons why many people hesitate to enter into marriage. In some areas, there is still a question of dowry and bride price in marriage. The woman's family is required to provide a certain amount of money as a dowry, while the man's family is required to pay a certain amount of dowry.

This cultural tradition is still widespread in some regions, but it also brings with it a certain economic burden and inequality problems. For some families, paying a high bride price or providing an expensive dowry can become a burden, making people hesitate to enter into marriage.

On the issue of dowry and bride price, the personal eulogy believes that the principles of seeking truth from facts and equality and mutual benefit should be followed. Although dowry and bride price are part of cultural traditions, in modern society they should be determined based on the actual circumstances and financial means of both parties. Marriage should be based on true love and mutual respect for both parties, and should not be influenced by dowry and bride price.

In the past, some regions believed that the dowry should be greater than the bride price because the woman left her family and needed some funds to make ends meet. But now, many people believe that the dowry and the bride price should be equal, because both men and women should be treated equally, and women should not be seen as a burden. In some areas, the bride price is considered a burden and a pressure, resulting in a financial burden for many families.

In general, dowry and bride price are important aspects of marriage, but they should not be a reason for hesitation to enter into marriage. Everyone should consider their true feelings and emotional needs when considering marriage, rather than focusing solely on monetary benefits. If two people really love each other and are willing to spend the rest of their lives together, then marriage should be a beautiful experience, not a hesitation and burden.

Good luck.