Why do some people demand respect from others instead of respecting themselves?

For a person to be respected by others, he must first respect others. Only by respecting others can we get the respect of others for ourselves, which is the mystery of being respected. Recognizing that people are equal in personality is a prerequisite for respecting the personality of others.

Some people in the stem consider themselves superior to others and fail to realize that respecting others and gaining respect from others are mutually premised. They only know to respect themselves, not others. Only by respecting the personality of others can we better safeguard our own human dignity.

If you can't understand each other, how can you respect it? It's a bit self-conscious to emphasize this, and to be obedient to those who have interests, and to be indifferent and disgusted with people who have no benefit, even if you don't accept it, but it's the atmosphere of the social environment in which we live.

Others are your own mirror, and how others treat you depends on yourself. People treat you in a certain way because you accept that they treat you the way they treat you (whether your heart is pleasing or not, as long as you show acceptance, they will also mistakenly think that you accept the way they do). Over time, this has become the pattern of getting along with each other.

A relatively low sense of self-worth means that people have low self-esteem, no self-confidence, and feel that others cannot believe in themselves and respect themselves, so they first deny themselves to avoid more harm in their relationships.

The so-called kindness to others, others do not respect you, this is purely your own problem, kindness to others is to have a certain degree, if you have always been good to a person, he will think that you are a good bully, will not respect you; After you grasp the degree well, others will only respect you.

I think that the more kind I am to others, the more people will respect me, not to say that they look down on me, those who I am kind to him, and then he disrespects me, is just a problem with his own character.

If you're smart enough, this kind of person won't have a chance to put on this face in front of you, as for what to think? Don't look at it!

I don't think people who know how to respect others will never get other respect.

I think he's just asking too much of himself.

So when you can't do something well, you will be very angry, just like "hating iron does not make steel"!

Do what you should do, give the most basic courtesy and respect, don't do more, and don't lose your basic literacy because of a person.

It's like the little white hats all over the world.

<> "Why don't others respect you?" Take a look at these six.

Only when you become strong can you win respect!

1. You love to laugh too much, others think you have no temper, so you can handle it.

2. You are too enthusiastic, and others think you love to stammer, and you have no strength.

3. You are too humble, others think you are easy to talk and have no boundaries.

4. You are too cowardly, others think you are spineless and easy to bully.

5. You talk too much, and others think you are unfocused and immature.

6. You are too cold, others think you are very proud and withdrawn.

The group is noisy, you face different scenes and people with different personalities, you must establish boundaries, meet the source left and right, and don't cross the line at all. Only when you become strong can you win respect!

It's normal for one or two people to disrespect you, after all, we are not RMB, and we can't be liked by everyone. But if the people around you don't respect you, you're going to have to find the reason in yourself.

1.Weak character

No matter what others say, you nod your head and say it's right, blindly flattering and pandering, and don't dare to express your own opinions. If you are afraid to speak and do things, you have no principles and bottom line of your own, and others will naturally treat you as a soft persimmon.

2.The ability is not outstanding

The well-known actor Huang Bo once said: When you are weak, there are the most "bad guys". The law of the jungle is a natural survival rule, if your ability is not outstanding, or even low, it is like a small grass on the side of the road, and people passing by will step on you. Because it doesn't cost anything to bully you.

3.Likes to giggle

Laughing or smirking often can make you appear simple-minded and unstable. Others are obviously deliberately provoking, and you don't take it seriously, and responding with a smirk is undoubtedly smearing your face and showing others a show.

4.Too much to say

As the saying goes: if you say too much, you will lose. I know that I can't stop screaming all day long, which makes people feel very irritable. The rooster crows only in the morning, but it makes people happy. If you speak without your brain, you can say whatever comes to mind, and others will see through you at a glance, and they will naturally not respect you.

5.There is arrogance and no backbone

When people are poor, their faces are as thin as paper. If someone else hurts you, you won't be able to get over your face, and you will pretend to be a very awesome tsundere.

Without the support of strength, it is like a balloon, and if you take a needle and prick it gently, you will be deflated. People are not poor, take a long-term view, silently accumulate their own strength, and strengthen themselves is the most powerful counterattack.

6.Likes to bully the weak

Respect for others is respect for yourself, and how you treat others, others will treat you as you would be treated. Don't take out your anger on other weak people just because you've been treated unfairly.

Yishu said: No matter what, a person is always unforgivable for falling for some reason, the more no one loves, the more you must love yourself.

If you want to be respected by others, you must first respect yourself.

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There are several reasons why others don't respect you:

1. Always afraid of offending people, dare not show their own attitude. You are always afraid of offending others, others see you as weak, and some people think that you are a bully, because you don't dare to show your own attitude, you don't dare to turn your face with others, so others will not respect you when they see you as a bully.

2. Failing to establish its own borders. You have not established your own boundaries, for example, others make fun of you, not only do you not know how to refute but also laugh silly, which will make others think that you are easy to bully, everyone should have a bottom line, if others touch your bottom line, you should have the courage to fight back.

In our daily life and work, whether we are rich or not, they want people to respect her in everything they do.

But life is always unsatisfactory, and the more you are respected, the more you are disrespected.

Then why don't people respect you?

1.Because you're not principled, when people say you're good, you feel good. When people say you're bad, you're angry and anxious, and you think they're bad too.

When people think you're good at talking, they push everything on you, and no one says you're good when you do. And you put up with it and think it's nothing, so people will see you as inappropriate and don't like you.

2.You won't know how to say no.

When people don't take you seriously, you won't say no, it's so easy to talk to. So as soon as someone asks you for something, you agree to do it. As a result, you're embarrassed to refuse.

Whatever you want, whether it's good or bad, and you want it, and then you don't have any dignity, no value, and no one likes you.

3.You don't know how to get angry.

So other people are not afraid of you, you don't know how to get angry, you don't get angry when you should be angry, you keep getting angry when you shouldn't be angry, and no one pays attention to you after a long time.

4.You don't know how to endure.

When you do something wrong, when people say about you, you don't know how to endure, when the person who is angry with you, in fact, how much grievance he has endured for you. No squeak of effort put into your efforts, and once you get angry at you, you don't know how to tolerate it. I'm still angry with him.

In this way, no matter how close the person is, will never pay for you again. Eventually, they will leave you and no longer want to see you.

And no matter what happens, I don't let go of what I should let go, and I often quarrel over some small things. Inconsiderate of others. When someone else.

The villain who doesn't let you move doesn't have time, so you have to zero yourself in on it often. Let go of the past and start over so that others will care about you.

5.Why don't people take care of it for you, because you don't forget your troubles. This will only increase the annoyance of others and make yourself more miserable. Then no one will cherish you.

6.When you encounter many roads to go in life, you will never choose, others let you go**, you will go**, so you will often fall into the abyss, so many of the pains in life are caused by the wrong path you take.

7.Why would someone help you with the wrong thing? Because you don't know how to be grateful when others help you. So whether it's good or bad, you have to have a grateful heart, a tolerant heart.

So we can't live for the mood, we have to have a good attitude. Whether you succeed or fail, thank the people who have helped you. We also need to change others, but accept them. In this way, more people can like you and respect you.