About dad refusing to see his boyfriend?

You don't understand, your dad is wise to do this.

Meeting for the parents of the generation, in their traditional concept, this is similar to the concept of engagement, even if your father is open-minded, after all, he is a person who came from that era, for his daughter's affairs, he still prefers the traditional way of thinking, so that he feels safe, and your boyfriend to your house, always have to bring a gift, this gift in our eyes looks like a gift to go to the house, but for your father, in his eyes it is like a dowry, Whether your father will accept it or not, this is also something that his old man has to consider.

If you accept it, you can't marry him later, he can't say it psychologically, and when you meet, you don't accept it, and you're embarrassed.

If our generation doesn't understand the thinking of our parents' generation, talk to your parents and see what they think.

Be enlightened.

Fathers are like this, the father's feelings for his daughter are far from being as simple as family affection, the daughter is the father's lover in the previous life, he not only cares about you, but also worries about the baby daughter being shared by another man, so, to understand him, give him time to accept your boyfriend, he will carefully observe your changes, once you are sure that you love him, he is also suitable for you, he will accept him, now is the stage of his emotional change Understand him!

Maybe, so don't be too busy going back to see your parents, lest you get caught in the middle if you don't talk well, and don't see your parents if they don't want to. Well, when your father wants to see him, take it back.

Not now, don't rush, your dad will tell you the reason when he has the chance. If your dad really doesn't like it, he won't say that he can't see your boyfriend, but won't let you have a relationship with him.

I broke up with my girlfriend because his dad was against it.

Couples can't have smooth sailing. But if there is a little contradiction, the woman's family will add oil and vinegar, and it will be irreparable.

So I resolutely put it down.

Hope you can convince your dad.

It's not old yet, and your dad is still observing. Your boyfriend should understand you. Tell him to bear with it for a while. Anyway, that's sooner or later, that's your father after all!

To be honest, if you don't get angry, this woman will have a problem.

Because both parties fall in love on an equal footing. Since the negotiations have been going on for more than two years, it must be towards marriage before falling in love. The purpose is to get married, so if you want to get married, you must get the consent of both parents, under normal circumstances, but if the man does not take himself home, then he will not be able to see the other party's parents, and this matter cannot be discussed.

In addition, it is very troublesome for a boyfriend not to take him home to meet his parents. To a certain extent, the man is unwilling to let his relatives, friends, and parents see him, which is actually equivalent to having a great prejudice against his girlfriend, thinking that this girlfriend is not suitable to be his own family member now or in the future.

Then this situation explains the above reasons, so getting angry is a trivial matter, directly use an opportunity for two people to be alone to ask this matter clearly, if two people are interested in each other then continue to talk, if not intentional, don't waste time.

Hopefully things will turn out for the better, hopefully, hopefully it will help you.

As soon as men and women have been dating for a long time, the relationship between the two is stable and the time is ripe, then it is natural to talk about marriage. But why does the boyfriend not want to see the woman's parents, and what are the reasons?

For the problem that the boyfriend does not want to see his parents, the first thought in our subconscious is that the boyfriend does not love him, and he has never thought about getting married. A man who really likes this woman will be eager to take the other party to meet his parents, because taking a woman to meet his parents is the best promise to a woman.

In the same way, he will go to the woman's parents as soon as possible, so that the woman's parents can rest assured that their daughter is taken care of. And the boyfriend didn't do this, but avoided seeing the woman's parents, so you can wonder if he is really just playing and not really caring about himself. On this issue, there is another possibility:

The boyfriend is not very mature and does not realize the importance of meeting the woman's parents, and feels that there is no need to meet with the parents, which also shows that he does not attach importance to this relationship. Of course, the above is just speculation, and you can't be so one-sided to suspect your feelings, because it is very likely that your boyfriend has his unspeakable secrets. In addition to the above-mentioned negative reasons why the boyfriend is reluctant to see his parents, the following reasons cannot be ruled out, which require your communication and exchange, you know:

A person who thinks wildly is sometimes asking for trouble.

1. His career is not successful enough, and he feels that it is not the time to meet his parents. Men want to save face, if the career is not very smooth now, they have nothing now, they will definitely be embarrassed when they see the woman's parents when they are asked about material things, and men are often not very embarrassed to speak on this issue, they are more eager for their women to be able to experience by themselves, even if the relationship between two people is good, it is difficult to last long without an economic foundation. Men will also want their women to understand themselves very well and have some things that don't need to be said.

2. I am afraid that I will not be liked by the woman's parents. Girls may wish to recall in their minds whether they have mentioned to him what kind of boys their parents like in the process of getting along with their boyfriend, and what expectations they have for their future son-in-law, maybe when you were chatting, your boyfriend was joking or something, but he must be silently comparing in his heart, so at this time, the boyfriend may not want to see his parents because he is afraid that he is not the type they like. In addition, it is also possible that his family background is not as good as yours, and he has an inferiority complex, or his family background is better, and he is afraid that you will not be accepted and does not want to meet your parents hastily.

There are many possibilities that your boyfriend doesn't want to see the woman's parents, because everyone's personality and thoughts are different, but one thing is for sure, he is not ready to marry you at any time and go down hand in hand with you. He also has a lot of scruples, and these scruples may be acceptable, or they can be very bad, so I think girls should not easily suspect why boys don't want to see their parents, but more to communicate with him. Maybe you're waiting for your boyfriend to tell you the reason in person, and he's also waiting for you to ask him, isn't this contradiction resolved?

"What is the difference between the family of the seer, don't they all want to meet? "

In that case, what does it matter if you go to see his parents first?

Whether a person's feelings for you are good enough are shown in many ways, and I think if you must say that your boyfriend has a problem, it is not that he refuses to meet your parents first.

From this incident, it may be because his previous girlfriend made him very sensitive to the economy, so he asked you to meet your parents first, probably worried that your parents would not be satisfied with him, and seeing his parents or something was doing psychological construction for himself. Otherwise, if you make a long-term promise to your parents, it will be even more troublesome if your parents have opinions. Obviously, his parents should not be dissatisfied with you, so it is easier to "get it done", and it will be less stressful for him to go to your parents after everything is ready.

However, you'd better spend more time with him, I think he may be hesitant because half a year is a bit short, I want to know more, and you must know more, for example, he is always critical of you (indicating that he is more self-conscious and not tolerant enough, or it means that his way of expressing feelings is picky - can you tolerate three or four times more picky?) Because a man's shortcomings after marriage are basically magnified), drinking when he is in a bad mood (very scary, with a tendency to drink heavily), and being very concerned about the economy so he has some inferiority complex (if a man says before marriage that I am not worthy of you, then it will be difficult for you to bear the various problems caused by inferiority), these are actually not very good signals, and you need time to determine whether he will never expand these shortcomings.

Men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with opening your eyes before marriage.

1.Combined with the time you have together, see if it's time to meet your parents.

2.The boy was not ready to meet his parents, or was in no hurry to meet them.

That's about it.