I m now on the brink of marriage, and I m in great pain! Please advise. 15

This kind of person is not worthy of your love, if it is really irreparable, then divorce! Back to the dignity that a woman should have, you blindly accommodate, blindly tolerant can only let him cause more harm to yourself, give him a chance first, you can talk to him, if he doesn't turn back, then you can only go your own way. We women don't have to rely on men to live, don't you say?

I hope you can get rid of the pain soon and live happily!

Mindset adjustment is a must.

After all, they are all adults.

Be responsible for your actions.

Today you have chosen your husband.

Perhaps it is appropriate to consider the consequences that would be the case today.

But don't think about it.

There is a solution to regret it.

Take a deep breath and calm down and think about it.

Whether it is continuing to walk.

Whether I can stand my husband's behavior.

And the attitude of both families?

Then if divorced.

Who does the child belong to?

The good thing about divorce is that you get spiritual relief.

It's nothing more than the bondage of the husband and the family.

For the husband's behavior you should consider the children.

It may be yours ((just tentative.)

We recommend that you find a time to return home.

A failed marriage involves a failed life.

Now that you are enlightened.

Regardless of the decision.

Go home and talk to your parents.

After all, in their eyes.

You're still a kid.

Tell your parents what you think and even how you do it.

Or ask them for advice on how to live the rest of your life.

I'm sure it's a lot better than what you want to do on your own

Finally, I wish you all the best.

Sometimes parents still have to listen to what they say.

It's very unworthwhile to take your life for love. But if you have conclusive evidence, that woman is a third person, and she is guilty of a third person! You can sue her, uh-huh.

In fact, the ultimate solution is divorce.

If you don't love it, leave it, and you're not happy if you're barely together. Leaving this person who makes you sad and guarding the person who makes you miserable will only make you continue to suffer, and without him, there will be 10,000 possibilities in your life.

Things have come to this point, and the twisted melon is not sweet.

Since he is sorry for you first, then use legal means to protect you and get the compensation you deserve financially.

Such a man is not worth your sacrifice and grief for him!

You should be gone, and someone looks down on you even more.

Seeing that you said so much, it can help you sort out your head, 1, first of all, you want to continue to live such a married life or only 2, you have decided for yourself, don't find excuses, I am for the children, I am for.

3. If you want to live such a married life, you either have to be wronged, you have to endure humiliation, or you have to swallow your anger.

4, if you don't want to continue like this, then you choose the life you want to live 5, if you really want to choose to give up, you have to think about your future life, you may be more difficult and hard to take care of your children alone in the future, can you not regret your decision today?

6. Once you have all the clues cleared, you will make the decision that you want to do the most in your own heart.

Aren't you a middle school teacher, you go to live in the school, leave for a while, let him think about it.

Deal with it calmly and ask for silence yourself.

Men really change a lot after marriage, your husband does too much, sympathizes with you, understands you very well, lives so unpleasantly, women are soft-hearted and wronged themselves for the sake of their children, but you also have to find a way to treat your husband, tell him to divorce it to see if he keeps it, keep it and let him change, if he doesn't keep it, it means that he doesn't love you and this family anymore, just leave it, and get rid of yourself.

Let's reminisce about the past with him.

Decisively kick the child if you have the ability.

Let's get out of here! I can't stay like this anymore. First disappeared for a few months, and then looked at the reflection of their family, and left directly without a reflection.

You won't be with your parents-in-law for the rest of your life. Do it yourself for a while, calm down and think again.