The psychology of men like to be fathers, what changes will men have after becoming fathers?

I think it's normal for men to like to be fathers.

First of all, responsibility.

This is the word my husband said to me the most, when I was in love, he told me that "to love someone is to be responsible for someone", although this responsibility is very naïve, but it is the principle of his heart. When he got married, he said, "With a family, it is a responsibility to find a way to live a better life", and he was very happy when he had a daughter, but she said that "when I saw my child for the first time, I knew that the responsibility was heavy again, and I had to work hard".

If we say that from a boy to a father, a very important psychological change is that "the responsibility is getting bigger and bigger", from being responsible for oneself at the beginning, to being responsible for marriage, being responsible for the family, being responsible for the children, and being responsible for the parents.

He is always very economical to himself, but he has always been responsive to our parents and parents-in-law, he said, "I work hard to make your life better", so I am very glad to meet my husband and my children to have such a father.

Second, effort.

Responsibility and hard work are actually closely related, before falling in love and getting married, a boy can live a very chic life, one person eats enough for the whole family and is not hungry, but when he becomes a father, that moment of "responsibility" makes him know that he needs to work harder to make money. In China, a man needs to shoulder family life, children's education, and parents to support the elderly, so you can imagine how much pressure they have.

Today I saw a**, a man in his thirties, his son and father suffered from cancer at the same time, the high medical bills crushed the whole family, a salary of 6,000 yuan a month is not worth the cost of a week's ** for his son, he can only sit alone on the street late at night and cry silently, at that moment I feel his helplessness as a father and despair as a son.

Life is changeable, a penny is difficult to beat a hero, if you want to support this family, you have to work hard to make money, maybe this is the consciousness of a boy to his father!

Third, empathy.

When I was a boy, I may not think about it so much, but after I have a child and become a father, I will understand the burden of my father's body! He is always obscure, giving for this family and not asking you to reciprocate. The moment he becomes a father, the boy probably thinks of his father!

After the man becomes a father, he feels that his wife can cope with everything without any help, and he is afraid of hurting the baby, so he does not dare to do anything, and he begins to become responsible, and he begins to understand that everything is family-oriented.

When the child is born, he begins to really understand the kindness of his parents, not being a father, all the stories of parenting are just heard from others, but he is really a father, and he knows how much each child has to pay from birth to growth, so there is that sentence, do not raise children and do not know the kindness of parents, from that moment on, the biggest psychological change is, responsibility!

Psychologically will soon become very mature, and they will also have a special sense of responsibility and responsibility. I also want to give my children a happier and happier environment to grow up, and the whole person will become very stable. After having a child, it was suddenly like a different person.

The psychology will be very soft, and it also has its own responsibilities, self-motivation, care for children, the kind of spoiling of children, and so on.

When a man becomes a father, he will become very responsible, and he will be very responsible, he will be more caring for his family, he will be very good to his children, he will be more self-motivated, and he will be very considerate to his wife.

The biggest change should be that I am responsible, and I have become more mature and stable, which is completely different from that of children. Of course, I won't continue to wear children's clothes, and I won't be coquettish with my parents.

The first is that the emotional quotient is getting higher and higher, and it will become more and more responsible, more and more responsible, and it will work hard to make money, and it will also create a particularly good living environment for children.

Very careful, with a sense of responsibility, will understand the way to educate children, will become very gentle, attitude will change, lifestyle will also change.

will take care of the family very much, will care about their children, will also care about their wife, will be more responsible. Do things more calmly.

When a man becomes a father, his psychology will change a lot, he will become responsible, he will know how to take care of his wife and children, he will work harder in the future, and he will also learn a lot of parenting knowledge.

He will want to work harder to earn money, want to create better conditions for his children, so that his children can have a better living environment, and he will be very grateful to his wife and will work harder.

He generally thinks about educating his children well, getting along with them, being a good father, setting a good example for his children, and providing them with the best economic and material foundation.

When a man becomes a father, his body and mind must undergo significant changes, which can be seen at a glance by a careful person. So, what kind of changes have happened to these new fathers? Let's take a look.

1. Become more responsible.

In the past, they may feel that they don't need to be so demanding about life, and they can just spend every day happily. But when they become fathers, they want to provide a better life for their children, so they will change from the previous state of laziness to a progressive youth. They hope to use their hard-working hands and wise brains to open up a wider world, just to be able to give children more space for development.

At this time, you will sigh that they are beginning to mature and know how to start planning for the rest of their lives.

2. Develop good habits.

In the past, they would be too lazy to clean up the room, and they would not bother to clean up themselves. But since they become fathers, they will slowly start to get rid of some bad habits, and even the habit of staying up late can be changed. Because they want to be able to set a good example for their children, they want to influence their children with their words and deeds.

They want what they give their children to be a valuable asset, not all kinds of bad habits and bad problems. It can be said that the birth of a child awakened their instinct as a father.

3. Begin to be considerate.

Before they become fathers, they may not be able to understand the nurturing grace of their parents, nor do they know how much their wives have contributed to the family. But when they go to raise and take care of their children in person, they understand the truth that "raising children is the only way to know the kindness of their parents". At this time, they will be very grateful to their father and mother, and they will also be very considerate to their wives.

Because they have experienced the responsibilities and responsibilities of fatherhood, as well as all kinds of dedication, they will know better how to be considerate of their families, care for their families and take care of them. It is actually very good for children to have such a father in life.

He will become very responsible, pay more attention to his children, friends and wife, be more perseverant when doing things, and be particularly motivated at work, and will not be particularly decadent.

This man will be more responsible, more responsible, will often accompany his wife, will often accompany his children, and will often go home.

The mentality has changed, working harder, the crux is more mature, more masculine, and more responsible.

In life, there are all kinds of people, some boys like to be respected by others, and even some boys like to be called dad by others, in fact, he has his own psychological characteristics, and it is also more typical in life, so let's take a look at what psychology boys like to be called dad?

Boys like to let others call themselves dad, which is mostly one of the manifestations of their love for themselves. Dafeng Kuan's family knows that the relationship between father and son is a manifestation of father's love. For example, in the case of boyfriends and girlfriends, although they are similar to each other in terms of relationship, most of them are also the embodiment of similar emotions in personal feelings.

In life, because of her boyfriend's love for herself, she will show that she cares and loves her girlfriend psychologically, and at the same time, she is also mixed with a certain amount of paternalism, and then hopes to be called her father.

There are also a lot of personal feelings in this title But the title is just one of the code names, but even so, there are also many personal feelings in it, and it should be said that such a title is an emotional outpouring. In reality, men and women, if they are boyfriend and girlfriend, this title is emotional attachment, hoping that they can take care of their girlfriends and satisfy their girlfriends in life and other aspects. This is also the interpretation of love.

From the above analysis, it can be seen that some boys like to be called dad by others, in fact, they want to care for others psychologically and behaviorally, and become the protector of others from their own perspective.

For women, childbirth is a threshold. For men, being a father also means a change in their identity, and it also represents an extra responsibility on a man's shoulders. So what is the specific feeling for men after becoming a father?

Children have a special meaning for both men and women, on the one hand, children are the crystallization of love between the two; On the other hand, the child represents the two of them entering a new chapter in their lives and filial piety. For men, there are many feelings after becoming a father:

1. I can't believe it. Compared with women, men have not experienced pregnancy for ten months, so when the child is born, some men will feel that they can't believe that the little life in front of them is their baby, and at the same time, they can't believe that they are really a father.

2. Excited. Many men will be very excited when they look at the newborn in their arms, after all, this is their own and their lover's baby, and their and their lover's feelings and genes have been inherited, so their hearts are very happy.

3. Pressure. Some men see that after their babies are born, the pressure on their bodies is also a little heavier. After all, the cost of an extra family will also increase.

Especially for children, the cost of milk powder, diapers, education and other expenses will be the biggest expense of a family, so it is normal to feel stressed.

Either way, the arrival of new life is a joy. For men, after having a baby, I believe that they can better understand the meaning of family, and at the same time, they will have a greater sense of responsibility.