If this continues, what will my son do 20

He plays games to vent, he has a lot of pressure to study, he wants to tell others about his suffering, but no one understands his feelings positively, you should stand in his position and talk to him, stand on his side, really understand him, and then let him tell you all the suffering, that is, the pressure, and then you have to understand him, of course, you also need to be patient enough, and slowly he will understand your right, and then you are talking about his mistakes, let him suffer a little, for example, you make him some coarse grains, Make some pickles and stuff, don't make him anything with oil, don't give him big fish and meat, don't give him food, just give him bread (coarse grains, cornmeal) to eat for a week, or a month, at first he will think it is delicious, slowly the old epiglottis, he promises to tell you to change some of my favorite food, this is not delicious at all. At that time, you tell him that this is how it came about, how the farmer grows, how hard it is, tell him that if he doesn't work hard, if he doesn't study, he will have nothing to eat, and he will starve to death, he will feel scared, he will not dare not study, and only then will there be a way out of reading, and there will be something you love to eat, so that he will understand a lot, and he will also understand that it is wrong for him to play games all day long, and it is okay to play, after all, it is necessary to combine work and rest! Hehe, although I am not married, I have no children, but I have experienced it, I was like this when I was a child, and then my mother told me little by little, just like telling a story, a child, he loves to listen to stories, and slowly he will understand.

You will work your studies. Be patient!

。。The landlord's son and I are really alike.。。 It's just that I'm a girl.

I also carry a heavy schoolbag home every day, and then I don't look at it, but because it can't affect my grandparents' rest, so I don't go on the net for a long time, and I'm not so grumpy, in fact, I think it's normal to love to play, boys I think you can encourage him to go out and play basketball more, and he doesn't play sports and won't transition online, the boys in our class love to play basketball, and the landlord will try it

But don't completely close his access to the Internet just because he loves the Internet... In that case, something bad may happen. The landlord is really hard.

Your child's current situation is related to playing games, according to our observations, children with Internet addiction have poor self-control, are in a daze in class, have heavy learning tasks in high school, as long as they are in a bad state for a few days, it is difficult to catch up, and they will naturally be tired of learning if they don't understand in class. Here are a few suggestions for your reference: 1. Although the child does not want to listen, it is still necessary to tell him that each of us has his own responsibility, and his responsibility now is to study hard; 2. Limit the time your child spends online, and it's best to stop surfing the Internet; 3. On weekends, you can think of letting your children play basketball with their classmates to relax; 4. Find some children who are in good learning state as role models around them, or let them have more contact.

In short, the first year of high school is very important, you must impress him with true feelings, study the child's personality and psychology, and think of ways to solve problems.