Do I have a reason to hate my mother in law? I really hate my mother in law, what should I do?

Selfish stupid woman.

Many people are tired to death with their children while going to work.

How nice it would be for your mother-in-law to take care of the children for you alone.

Don't let your mother-in-law come to you to bring it, if you come, there will be a conflict, and if your mother-in-law doesn't come after the conflict, you have to send the child over, and then you ask your mother-in-law. White toss.

Don't worry about the child, the child will naturally be close to the mother when he is older, this is animal instinct.

Don't worry about your child's personality and future, you think your child is the prince. It's not too late to wait until the child goes to primary school and then take it over and cultivate it slowly, besides, the child has a natural personality, some of them are good without bothering to study, and some of them are not good if you work hard. So his happiness is the main thing.

So what you have to do well now is to do a good job and learn more. Have fun with your mother-in-law and children every weekend, bring more delicious food to your mother-in-law and children, and then take them out to play. Give your mother-in-law some money every other month and buy them a piece of clothing.

Coaxing your mother-in-law is equivalent to coaxing your children and husband. Your mother-in-law is not stupid, his son is with you, as long as you treat your mother-in-law a little better, she will be satisfied, and she will give it for free. Never blame her and your child for her shortcomings in front of your mother-in-law.

You can tactfully pass this on to your husband and let him talk about it.

Once you have a head-on conflict with your mother-in-law, that's when the nightmare begins. Remember, remember.

..You have to believe that your child will not become bad, and the best example of this is ... Your mother-in-law brought up your husband. And he's an excellent man. Otherwise, you wouldn't have married him.

.A child's education at an early age is indeed important. But it doesn't mean. When you grow up, your education doesn't matter. It's the school that matters. It is the teacher who teaches. Children are also greatly influenced by their teachers.

You don't want to raise your child to be a genius from an early age. For example, he is proficient in calligraphy.

**。Computer. If you just want your child to have good academic performance in the future, you can get a good school, get a good degree, and find a good job.

You should focus on the school you are looking for.

Such a small child, who only sees him once a week, will definitely be estranged. Of course, it is better to let your mother-in-law move in with you.

.Why do you hate your mother-in-law? Do you think that your mother-in-law will love her grandson less than yours???

If I were you, I'd bring the kid here, no matter how hard it was, and I'd have to take it with me.

Because I grew up with my grandmother when I was a child, I lived in a different city from my mother, and when I went to elementary school, I came back to my mother's city, and I was not close to her at all, and I always felt that my grandmother was a relative, and in fact, this was a child's wrong idea, no matter how good my grandmother was, how could she be better than my mother's love, but children sometimes didn't understand this, so it hurt my mother to a certain extent.

I don't think you should think about who you hate right now, you should think about what you want, whether it's ease or the child's affection for you, and if it's the latter, then take the child with you!

Personally, I think: 1 The old man must love her grandson very much, so he doesn't want him to leave. 2 The old man's concern is outdated, and naturally it is different from what you think.

3. The elderly do not like to move elsewhere, they like to be at home, and they feel more free. 4. Talk more with the old man and talk to her heart-to-heart, but don't argue with her, people will become stingy when they get old; Also spend more time with your children. No matter how wrong the old man is, he shouldn't hate her.

Everyone has their own way, and your mother-in-law will save you some things by helping you bring it, so there is no need to hate your mother-in-law. It's best to bring your own children! I wish you a happy family!

Murder is absolutely not allowed, and if you love your husband very much, then ask him to move out with you. Whether he listens or not, he has to live separately from your mother-in-law anyway. Otherwise, I think it's better to get divorced, because some people really can't afford it.

A mother-in-law like this, if she has not given birth to a child, it is estimated that after being sent to the delivery room, when the doctor asks Bao Da Bao Xiao, she will definitely choose Bao Xiao without hesitation. It is equivalent to estimating murder, but it is the kind that is innocent. So you have to be careful, life will definitely not be easy in the future.

So it's better to think about it more for yourself in the future. Don't give them consideration everywhere just because you enter the man's house. You are the most important person, and everyone else is secondary.

If you can't save yourself, then don't give face to others.

On the other hand, your attitude towards your mother-in-law is also a bit problematic, in short, if a normal person would never come up with the idea of killing, so there must be some extreme elements in it, and it is best to calm yourself down at this time. After recognizing what kind of state it is in now, you can make a decision, whether to go or stay, or you have to think about it.

The main thing is the distance, which intensifies the contradictions between the two sides. After explaining his dislike to his mother-in-law and his mother-in-law's embarrassment to him, he made it clear to his husband. And tell him what he thinks, and I think he will definitely think about it seriously and then change the living environment.

Even if you rent a house outside, it's better than being together.

Moving out to live, there is no beauty between the distance between you, so what you need is out of sight and out of mind. In fact, I think that as long as my mother-in-law is not bad to herself, as a junior, I still need to be more considerate and take care of my mother-in-law. If the relationship is too stiff, you choose to live separately from your mother-in-law, but you can't interfere with your husband's good treatment of your mother-in-law, you don't have that right.

People, the more they grow up and experience, the more things they see, and I think it's better to live in peace with my mother-in-law, after all, it's not a family that doesn't enter the door. If you have a grudge against your mother-in-law, you will feel uncomfortable in your heart, so it's better not to meet. Our family here is really very strange, originally I didn't like my son to take her daughter-in-law, but his son liked it very much, and finally got married, and after getting married, he gave birth to a child, and his mother-in-law's family didn't come to the hospital to take a look, and also called his son away from his daughter-in-law, which was really a little excessive, although the daughter-in-law was very resentful in her heart, but she also had to say nothing for the sake of harmony.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the most difficult relationships in the world, and this contradiction has never been resolved from ancient times to the present. But you have a lot of hatred for your mother-in-law, and you want to kill her, and I know that you are just talking angry. You should change your mind and not be bothered by this matter.

First of all, look down on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law can do whatever she likes, we can pretend to be deaf and dumb, ignore her, and do whatever she wants. Because even if you can't get used to her doing things, you can't stop it, so it's better not to look at it.

Secondly, don't be angry because of your mother-in-law, your body is your own, you are angry with her all day long, and if you are angry with your body, won't the gains outweigh the losses, so women must be less angry, especially less angry with your mother-in-law.

The last point is not to affect the relationship between husband and wife because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if you and your husband often quarrel over this matter, it will deepen your mother-in-law's resentment towards you, then she will become even worse to you.

Therefore, women must be smart and tolerant of their mother-in-law, otherwise they will be the saddest and most angry themselves. I also have a mother-in-law, so I sympathize with you very much.

I also hate my mother-in-law, in the most difficult time, there was no help, she survived, her life was good, and there was no good life for her, don't forget the suffering she once suffered. Now I'm treated as if she didn't exist, as air.

I don't like it either, I married into her family, and I went to the outside toilet during the day during the confinement period, and I fainted twice during the confinement. He bought more clothes for him than his own mother, and his daughter had to buy a dress for three years ......On the street, she said that I was not good, that her daughter was going to buy her something, and in the end she went out without buying anything. Now I don't feel anything for her, I don't buy clothes, and I don't go to her house for the New Year.

Unless there is a happy event at home, go there.

Then you have to learn to communicate with your husband, because I think your husband is really a bridge between you and your mother-in-law, so at this time, if you can't communicate well between the two people, then you can go through your husband, your husband can definitely understand you, and your husband can also think from your mother's point of view, so when he exchanges the opinions of the two people, in fact, the probability of the two of you being solved is the greatest.

I also hate my mother-in-law, not because of prejudice, but my mother-in-law, really strong, unreasonable, nonsense all day long, the most excessive is to instigate my husband to quarrel with me, and even fight, to my husband's grandparents is a set of people before and after a set, it sounds good, but only recognizes money, in short, I have never seen such a domineering person, and the heavier thing is that my father-in-law is honest, my mother-in-law is old but still does something against human ethics, my husband doesn't know, and my mother-in-law doesn't admit it, so I choose to ignore her.

My mother-in-law has a very strong mouth, I am afraid of her, I used to be depressed, but now I don't hate her so much, and I hope that I will never see her. But to be honest, I don't hate her. I felt speechless.

We have been married for more than ten years and are still renting a house, and my father-in-law goes abroad to play almost every year, they will spend a few hundred yuan to release their lives, and each time they give hundreds to the temple or the master in the temple, some time ago I went out with my lover to study and let them take the child for a few days, during which the school donated money to a seriously ill child, and my father-in-law had to talk to me, and my father-in-law and mother-in-law were going to Taiwan in a few days, and this was the second time my father-in-law went.

I believe that married women, especially those who have a bad relationship with their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, especially regret why they chose this man in the first place, such a family, obviously there are other choices, why didn't they listen to their parents, and their parents couldn't marry if they didn't agree.

If your mother-in-law didn't do anything to hurt you, it's forgivable if she was just a simple quarrel and noisy, after all, she is your husband's mother and child's grandmother, my mother-in-law has done a lot of things that hurt me, I am far away from my mother's family, from pregnancy to half a year old, no one knows what I have experienced, what they did to me I think few people in this world have done it, I won't go into details, my husband is with his mother, reluctant to let the child worry about his mother's family, he survived, But my mother-in-law is the biggest enemy in my life, I will never forget how she treated me, now I rarely talk to her, the child is brought by myself, she sees that I take good care of the child, the child is smart and sensible, every time she comes over to me and smiles, I feel so fake, I don't want to see her, try not to meet her, but I feel tired of hating a person, if she wasn't so vicious at the beginning, I would get along with her well, you can ignore the little things, there is no problem beyond your principle, just try to forgive her, It is more tiring to hate a person than to forgive a person.

So, now that women have a lot of things, and now young people and old people basically don't live together, are there still so many contradictions? Mutual respect and understanding. One day I really hate my mother-in-law, I don't know what the woman thinks.

Because of my mother-in-law, I have despaired of marriage and have filed for divorce from my husband no less than three times. In hindsight, I was stupid, but I couldn't find any other way without a divorce.

Don't raise children, as long as you raise them, you are a mother-in-law when you are old, you don't necessarily dare to be the current mother-in-law, they hate you more, and they are more annoying to you.

That's what I'm most facing with right now. lived together with only his son in his heart, and did not treat his daughter-in-law and granddaughter as a family. This kind of mother-in-law does not deserve respect.

What's wrong with young people now, I think as long as my mother-in-law is okay with herself, get along well, after all, she is the mother of the man you love, at least you have to respect your man, love the house and Wu!

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living together will never be able to solve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and if you don't see it, you don't feel upset, but if the sons have to live together, the daughters-in-law have to weigh the gains and losses

I also hate my parents-in-law, who die of verbosity all day long, from the first time I see them in the morning until I close the door and go to bed at night, oh my God, it's crazy.

My husband has two sisters, and my mother-in-law writes the name of the eldest sister in the house and rarely pays attention to my husband, I think it's so strange!