What should I do if my brain is not good, I have no opinions, and I live a very contradictory life?

What you lack most now is not the external factor, but the inner conflict, you have cultivated introversion into a habit! In this case, the first thing to tell yourself is that I have to change myself and make up my mind. Then I got up every day, looked at myself in the mirror, and said to him, I am the best in the world, no one compares to me, remember to believe in yourself, people without self-confidence have no value even if they work hard.

You have to be cheerful and smile more, talk to others more, extroversion is actually very simple to do, as long as you don't think about other principles or anything, you can basically achieve extroversion by saying what you want to say!! You care too much about other people's opinions, some things seem to you to be impossible to do, and when you do it, others will laugh at it, and when you do it, even if you laugh, it's just a laugh, don't remember, you have to know what to give up and what to keep! Since you have a good family background and education, you should be more confident in yourself, no one is less than a normal person, just think that you are happy, and you will have good results!

In short, everything must be confident! Believe in your own abilities! Believe that you are not stupid, even if you are really stupid, you must know that there are not many smarters than you!!

Looking for a girlfriend! My strength! It should be bold!

Be bold and be a little sensible! Don't be too bold! Say whatever you want to say , I believe you are a Sven person Even if you think of bad things will not be said, so you have to think of what to say and remember !!

The first thing to do is to solve your introvert problem, you should find your own hobbies, such as: singing, sports. At first, you are not very proficient, but you need to find joy in it, and boldly show it to colleagues and others in appropriate circumstances, which will make you more cheerful and find like-minded friends.

Then when you become more cheerful, read more books about communication skills, learn some humorous and philosophical language, so that others will be happy to communicate with you, so as to practice communication skills.

If you solve the communication, then find a girlfriend and get a job promotion, and it will be solved.

Hope you succeed!

Looking for inner peace, out of the road that suits you, can't be good at dancing with long sleeves, we can be old and serious, we can't be left and right, you can treat people sincerely, there will always be a way for you and friends.

Introversion is not a disadvantage, it is just a character, don't try to change your natural character. Introverts can also live well, and there are many successful people.

Occasionally, I have the trouble of missing my brain, I don't have self-confidence, I always stay in my own world, I think about it, I understand that it's useless to think more, I have to act, but I've been content with the status quo. It's a contradiction to live. I'm very dissatisfied with myself.

After graduation, I have been doing foreign trade in a private company for more than two years, and I am still the same, my thinking is so simple, I always lack a tendon, and I want to resign and hesitate. Something is wrong.

As long as you really want to, you can.

It's not easy to change habits, but it's hard to start with everything, and trying to change it can start with small changes in appearance.

I've never had long hair, I don't think I can afford to keep long hair in my life, but I didn't cut it for a few months in 09 and kept it Hehe, the biggest change in 09 is here This small change makes me very happy.

Action Action !! Only action has a chance to change.

I'm as assertive as yours, I don't know what to do, my family's conditions are not as good as yours, the only good thing may be popularity, I don't know what kind of good job I am looking for now, I always hesitate.